@theholisticpsychologist: Comment if you were the strong one who just wanted love #selfhealers #trauma #childhoodtrauma #invisiblechild

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nursecetta
Nursecetta :
* and that’s how an avoidant attachment style is created*
2023-02-02 23:32:08
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user583668488
Leya Marie :
This just made me give words of encouragement to my oldest child. I never realized she was the glass child
2024-10-03 00:58:21
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black_flame.candle
🤍❄️🫧 Freya 🫧❄️🤍 :
"My needs don't matter here." 😞) I felt that
2023-02-02 23:06:50
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ms..bumble..bee
msbumblebee0 :
Not only was I "the strong on", but when my younger bro was kicking off,hurting me,stealing from me etc I was told to be 'the mature, sensible one".
2023-02-02 22:58:16
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pridedawn
Dawn :
Oh look, my inner child has made an appearance *saves to show my therapist *
2023-02-03 00:14:48
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thegoblinqueen85
GoblinQueen (taylor's version) :
yup. I was always told "I don't have to worry about you." and ignored.
2023-02-02 23:17:24
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bishop168
Bishop :
im 19 now and they dont know me.Im going to cut them off.Its really hard, they are not bad people and gave me everything I needed.But damn they 1/2
2023-03-31 21:33:58
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anastasiagracemas
Anastasia Grace Mass :
my mom literally told me that she helped others before me because she knew I'd always be ok. well yeah. I didn't have a choice 🙃
2023-02-03 00:08:52
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lucella812
Lucella :
Still. Happening. As. An. Adult.
2023-02-03 01:52:09
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jamiefranks626
Jamie Franks626 :
and now I'm an adult with parents that barely know me
2023-02-03 13:49:22
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love.jenniferlynn
Jenny Mongeau :
I was always the strong one, the resilient one. I was always “so grown up so young”
2023-02-02 23:20:43
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calvin_n_cosmo
Kimberly :
this is why I'm hyper independent
2023-02-02 23:40:48
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demsangeles
デミ :
I'm not the strong one. I'm neglected. 🤷‍♀️
2023-02-03 00:31:21
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catboyenigma
JUSTICE FOR ISHA :
"You're so easy to take care of" / "I don't have to worry about you" were phrases I heard a lot growing up
2023-02-05 13:31:13
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cocoalady99
Gracie :
Invisible, "mature", "protector", " example"
2023-02-20 18:16:50
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lilach.talia
Lilach Talia :
My whole life my mom never understood how I felt until encanto came out and I explained to her before she watched it that it was super relatable to me
2023-02-19 00:04:44
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itsashinthewild
ItsAsh :
Ugh 🥺I’m unlearning this with my daughter. Her brother has adhd/and a ton of other things so it’s hard.
2023-02-16 16:19:28
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dirtydan.thetanman
No I’m dirty dan :
Once my mom told me a story about how my family forgot to take me as a kid when my older sister had to go to the hospital. (Cancer) They didn’t
2023-02-26 21:23:06
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feeln.froggy
April Orlowski :
gone through this with my kids. the quiet one already exploded at therapy about how he never got attention and was expected to be perfect
2023-02-06 10:21:56
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sevastiel
Sevastiel :
I feel like my mother sort of just asks me to accept that I was raised this way and wants to be better herself, which is nice but its also so hard to-
2023-02-17 07:15:49
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cosplayintherealms
purduegurl18 :
36 and finally vocalizing this to my parents! I'm "good" and "independent" out of necessity, not desire.
2023-02-19 02:54:17
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thatbicatlady
🍉 MK 🍉 :
I was the kid my mom trauma dumped too about my other siblings when I was like 10
2023-02-02 23:24:14
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chatterboxfire
Chatterboxfire :
... I feel attacked
2023-02-15 07:52:07
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