Katerina
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Wednesday 15 February 2023 15:15:02 GMT
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Colleen in KC :
My favorite line from avoidants when confronted with criticism is “I can’t give you what you need” without even asking or trying to fix it
2023-02-15 16:16:01
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rshortis :
Avoidant attachment + Anxious attachment = tragedy.
2023-02-16 03:09:26
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p..__1998 :
‘i really like you but i’m scared i’ll mess it up so i’ll stop it before we start ’ - you already messed up by not trying with someone you really like
2023-02-15 18:45:00
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eva :
The worst part is that in the end it could have been something great but they chose to "sacrifice" and end it because they are not good enough.
2023-02-15 17:35:49
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Manders :
Ooofff this is what my ex did. He was overwhelmed and then decided that I would disappointed with him anyway and probably didn’t love him, so he left.
2023-02-15 17:17:24
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Nikki p 🍑 :
We were happily in a relationship planning our future,then one day he up left & said I’m not good enough for you you deserve better.We hadn’t argued
2023-02-15 17:28:05
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Maybe: Dianne :
Put this on his fyp 😅
2023-02-15 15:43:18
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KW :
And sometimes they misbehave to prove the relationship will not work out and then feel OK with making a decision to run without a convo
2023-02-15 18:17:50
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Brianna :
yup I got dumped cause he said it was meaningless. it lasted a month, like what..?? it barely started
2023-02-15 16:22:25
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Emmillie :
i realise that i'm like this and ruined my last relationship because of it. I'm working on doing better but it is incredibly tough
2023-02-15 19:29:43
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mj :
avoidants love confimation bias
2023-02-15 20:12:57
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PhotoswithAmani :
Lol this video enraging me because my ex was avoidant and did this to me for 3 years.
2023-02-15 16:59:46
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Ranique :
Yes! Will tell a whole story to themselves & run with that without even talking with them first
2023-02-15 17:22:20
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fifi :
No bc coming across ur page is the best thing that happened to me
2023-02-15 15:25:48
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blueish :
Taking notes for my avoidant partners as a person with anxious attachment style 😭
2023-02-15 21:07:17
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Sports Momma ❤️🏀🏐🏃♀️ :
Omg thank you 🥰 the guy I’ve been dating is doing this with me & it’s horrible. It’s like I’m selling my worth to him as he is the only one deciding
2023-02-15 17:48:49
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iDontKnowYou :
My SO says “I’ll fail so why try” but it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy & then he can say “see I told you” but I’ve tried to explain it didn’t have to!
2023-02-15 19:14:12
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graceful_goddess :
This happened a lot during the power struggle phase. Thankfully we’re past that now but it was very challenging.
2023-02-15 15:39:20
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eternallost :
"I can't live up to the person I am inside your head." But you haven't been inside my head, so how do we know?
2023-02-16 02:20:41
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greyfox :
We're always asked to be forgiving of these people and how they treat us, but where is the reciprocity? effort. it should go both ways
2023-02-15 17:41:46
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༝༚༝ 𝐿 :
I also wonder if it's fear of rejection as well as the lack of confidence in self to be able to catch themselves if it doesn't turn out
2023-02-16 20:40:19
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Nate Bates :
Only learned attachment after the breakup. Hurt every time she pulled away, I was like “this isn’t what love is, she doesn’t love me”
2023-02-15 19:51:06
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Brandi P ❌ :
Yes this! My now ex ghosted me and then later said it was bc u wasn’t happy so he figured we needed a break. What?? I never said I wasn’t happy.
2023-02-15 18:05:35
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Peaches :
Mine comes from a fear I’m not good enough for them and that I’m wasting their time and they would be happier with someone else.
2023-02-16 17:43:07
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