I realize these are often said with good intentions, but they actually devalue the emotions and pain one is feeling.
2023-02-21 18:36:58
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Xavier Compère :
sounds like weakness to me...stay positive all the way and live your life with the smile no matter what
2023-05-16 19:09:28
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3773 :
I usually just offer "I'm so sorry you're going thru this, if there's anything you need I'm always here for you" Sometimes ppl just need to be heard
2023-02-21 19:00:57
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🧚🏾♀️ᥫ᭡Black Girl Magic 타미 :
So though love is out the windows nowadays. So going forward we need to let someone Sink in their negativity and not letting them see the reality.
2024-08-15 17:17:47
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Selkie🦭 :
My mother in law is like this. I cannot converse with her without feeling absolute frustration
2024-04-07 13:51:19
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Rebecca | Miracle Mode :
These TP phrases are so damaging. We need to feel authentic emotions. 💗
2023-10-13 14:30:15
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Nina Nadia :
I just did that to my friend ... thinking I was helping her 😳
2023-02-21 18:04:38
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Anthony :
Am I crazy but I want this and that's why I do it to others but I am learning fast others don't want this.
2023-07-16 06:52:04
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LKW :
i never realized this omg. im glad I heard this
2023-03-09 22:53:51
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Mohammed El-Amine Bentaya :
this is the deepest words i saw you say ......starting to cry for real.
2023-02-21 18:23:51
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JacAtTheGym :
So basically cbt therapy
2023-05-08 12:32:03
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bhebkim🌸 :
its ok to not be ok but you dont have to stay that way and that's the true positivity..positivity is not made to neglect negative feelings, it is made to remind us that there's a rainbow after the rai
2024-07-01 14:05:20
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Stella D🇺🇸 🆘💙 🏳️🌈🇺🇦 :
All things I tell myself. 🥺
2023-02-28 20:04:14
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gomolemokau :
Spot on
2023-02-21 19:18:24
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Stefan Stefanov :
Thank you for the lesson 🙏 Appreciate you
2023-02-21 18:23:51
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Anna :
So what do you recommend we say instead because I have said some of these things to people before I feel guilty noW
“Smiling is scientifically proven to make you happier”
2023-09-23 12:30:19
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Roza❤️ :
this is what I've been telling myself...thinking that i was doing the right thing
2023-04-04 22:32:29
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ayaysukabihun🍜 :
I did this sadly to my self. I can't validate my anger emotions. I'm feeling guilty every time I'm angry, knowing that everything happens for a reason and knowing that everything has a positive side.
2024-08-06 15:55:04
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SY 604 :
Ok I admit I’m guilty of toxic positivity
2023-02-27 04:09:12
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Steliyana Marinova :
O, my God. That’s me. How do I fix it? 🥺
2023-08-10 14:09:46
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*K@+!3* :
didn't realize I was doing this. I just see it as trying to cheer someone up, because I don't like seeing someone sad or hurt and I want to cheer them up.
2024-07-14 00:46:35
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💎𝑾𝒉𝒊𝒕𝒆 𝒅𝒊𝒂𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒅 💎 :
And what's wrong with it? I feel happy every day I'm never sad because I don't let myself be
2024-03-18 21:44:05
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