@svenloss: This is dating with an anxious attachment style (person 2). Anxious attachment behaviour is a protection mechanism. These behaviours aim at keeping the other person close so they won’t leave. Unfortunately, more often than not is it those behaviours that actually drive the partner away. This effect is even stronger if an anxious person dates and avoidant person. If you want to move towards becoming securely attached, it is about addressing the root cause for the anxious attachment - the fears and the traumas that lead to the anxious attachment behaviours. One more note: just because you have an anxious attachment style does not mean you are broken. These behaviours make a lot of sense when you look at your past. The question is only, is this behaviour effective for what you want to achieve? It probably isn’t. And you can move towards a secure attachment style. If you want to. . . . . . . . . #anxiousattachment #anxiousattachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #insecureattachment #anxiousavoidanttrap

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crysta1lady
crysta1lady :
I try so hard to rationalize with myself when he leaves, but I always believe he’s going to meet someone who isn’t so clingy and leave me 😔
2023-03-04 03:53:21
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aandree650
Mr. Andre Pogi :
We start to think the worst because of our past relationship traumas and since that’s what we experienced, it makes sense to our minds (rationalizing)
2023-03-04 21:32:38
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x.pastel_peachy.x
hannah💕🦦☁️ :
and then i feel bad cause it’s just his friends and i still get anxious
2023-03-12 23:52:27
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_emik.__
Em :
It makes the anxious attachment so much worse when your partner doesn’t give you any reason to not be anxious with previously lying to you and etc
2023-03-17 16:05:51
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tiktokvanmaxime
tiktokvanmaxime :
There is a difference between having an anxiousness attachment style and using you anxious attachment style to manipulate your partner. This video 1/2
2023-03-05 15:38:01
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rynvince03
ryanvince :
im not mad of her going out with her friends or doing things etc. Just afraid shes gonna leave and break up with me.
2023-03-09 16:10:33
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localdisaster4
𓂀 :
When I try to explain he just says that I’m controlling 😢
2023-03-18 12:40:46
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tsastaurina34
𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐕⌨️𝐀𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐒𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐒®️ :
I have anxious attachment and i have no problem be alone. and I'm not threatening by friends,or anything. only by he's actions during that stuff
2023-03-05 15:29:07
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chloefrances03
chloe :
i feel like i’m going crazy and i feel like i’m not good enough, it’s not fair
2023-06-29 14:04:48
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torrberry
Victoria B :
For me it’s bc his friends like to talk about girls/show pictures, etc. I get nervous he will drop his respect for me bc of his need to please :/
2023-03-17 17:16:07
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_.yanabanana._
Yana Trubetskaya💃 :
He will literally just be going to sleep early and I get anxious?? Make that make sense😭 I hate my brain sometimes.
2023-03-10 04:40:07
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garfieldkitty
‧꒰ა Ada Joy ໒꒱ ‧ :
Then I get labeled as toxic. I really am but I don't know where the line between being clingy and possessive and not talking at all is 😭
2023-07-09 20:14:10
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luizzbaby
Luiz :
So how can we heal this wound?
2023-03-17 03:21:26
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xnelllx
Nel :
Someone finally understanding my anxiety helps me with slowly overcoming it. My bf always reassures me and explains to me why he didnt respond
2023-04-13 22:30:54
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vespura
V :
Every ten minutes seems a bit much, but so did the ‘keep acting like this and I will leave’. It invalidates the person rather then compromising.
2023-03-07 20:50:21
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elc05x
elc05x :
heal before u get into a relationship
2023-03-07 18:12:09
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m.auddie
M A U D :
Imagine having bpd 🥲
2023-03-09 21:26:28
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la_.trustno1
La :
Sadly this is me
2023-03-05 16:04:05
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evelynamidala
✨ 𝐸𝑣𝑒𝑙𝑦𝑛 ✨ :
Used to struggle with this a lot but I’ve been better at rationalizing! To anyone else that’s healing, we got this! 🙏🏻
2023-03-06 06:05:41
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lordlokixero
Loki Xero :
is that where it comes from? only instead of being left, getting kicked out every month?
2023-03-06 10:06:30
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nancyy.sgt
nancy :
so how do I fix this?
2023-03-08 19:50:40
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retiredheymamas
kylie :
My bad
2023-03-06 20:38:17
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sustwat
Fastasfekboi :
How someone can be not so attached, how can he be healed from this particular childhood trauma?
2023-03-04 23:43:41
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andaru.mp3
Andaru :
What can i do to help with this as the other side? Her always thinking im doing something wrong is extremely draining even though im giving reasur-
2023-03-17 16:38:44
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