@brandi_beautifullybroken: Fearful Avoidants can be one of the hardest to learn hoe to communicate with bc they experience both their anxious and avoidant sides get triggered. #fearfulavoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyle #communication #relationships #relationshipadvice @brandi_beautifullybroken @brandi_beautifullybroken
how do u bring up the negatives? just never say how their actions hurt you?
2023-03-06 14:54:07
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Moira Jo :
Many fearful Avoidants communicate more when we feel safe and our partner understands us
2025-05-07 23:52:13
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Lizzie C :
I don't know if unhealthiest is the best way. it's not our fault we have trauma that leads to this attachment style
2023-03-06 18:18:39
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Some guy :
Here’s how you communicate you don’t.. if she avoids you she’s not into you. I learned that through my ex. She was an avoidant too.
2023-03-06 14:20:54
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laynewilson585 :
holding them accountable is also a trigger. speaking about your needs is accountability and she just "shuts down". destructive and rejection to us.
2023-03-06 16:09:10
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Reema :
How can I stop the hot and cold please
2023-03-06 18:24:51
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Janet Harvey Nevala :
Awesome I’m a double winner 😂
2023-04-16 16:52:35
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Bryanna Gaunt :
exhausting
2023-03-17 15:34:25
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محمد علي👣 :
Or just move on
It's not worth it
Your needs will be forgotten by them and you have to walk on eggshells 😏
2023-03-06 15:25:45
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Hoopmon :
We're not the unhealthiest. That's a terrible stigma to put on one attachment style and isn't remotely true.
2023-03-08 22:39:41
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Adeyyy🌹 :
He was DA and I am FA it was getting too much especially when he ghosted me then came back 3 months later to ghost me again. I can’t stand stonewall😞
2023-07-08 12:23:36
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Jamie :
So true. Except I’ll never leave the relationship. I’d always worry I made a mistake.
2023-03-06 13:58:12
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Michelle Rhodes :
me. I am this 😪
2023-03-07 12:53:25
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jane🇨🇦 :
After years of therapy I jokingly tell my husband to reassure me a lot but never sound like he needs me. Be present but don’t pursue. Lol.
2023-07-11 01:01:05
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seylah.RN :
Were both FAs hahaha were in chaos post break up now haha
2023-03-27 11:06:24
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S :
Sorry, but to much work 😔 I also have needs
2023-03-07 19:34:19
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Dilyara :
What if FA dating FA? my current situation 🙈
2023-03-13 11:48:26
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me :
it took him literally months before he would talk with me.
2023-05-07 04:20:05
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Devyn :
I recently started seeing someone who seems to be FA. We’re in the second “cold” phase but it’s longer than the first. I’m giving him space since he pulled away. Do I tell him I’m giving him space so
2024-02-04 17:32:22
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MLHornung02 :
Is it possible to have different attachment styles with different partners?
2023-05-25 19:15:46
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stephanii.daily :
yessss the direct communication part 💓 & being the person we actually want to talk to 🥰
2023-05-23 01:23:06
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Alexander Ospina :
I'm so proud of myself. I just got gaslit for 2 months and managed to control my reactiveness very well considering. I was able to see a difference right away just by being aware of my triggers.
2024-12-20 09:29:39
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Hillary Mary :
Oh. I thought you were going to say… don’t
2023-03-07 06:07:07
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mbjlb.vonondago23 :
i feel this 1 heavily
2024-05-08 00:46:37
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