@matthiasjbarker: When exploring the root causes of our emotions and behaviors, it's important to keep “what didn’t happen” in mind when moving towards healing...
I don’t remember anything 😳 so awkward when people bring up old “memories”
2023-03-06 16:46:32
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AutumnRoseTV :
Emotional neglect makes you feel shame for being traumatised bc you or someone else convinced you that “it’s not that bad bc others have it worse”
2023-03-18 02:50:29
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marissalizsalm :
thanks! how do I uninstall it?
2023-03-07 05:29:35
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Breezy1090 :
Welp, didn’t expect to burst into tears but here I am
2023-03-06 16:52:58
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Jer Unt :
This is the single most relatable and validating thing I've ever heard. I was just trying to work through this and here's my answer. THANK YOU.
2023-03-06 16:56:35
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ShropshireLass :
I’ve never identified so much with anything as with this. No ‘I love you’ no encouragement. Not one thing to help me grow into a rounded adult.
2023-03-06 22:28:08
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Luis Castillo :
These comments are such a relief. Sometimes idk if I have memories, or just what people have told me happened.
2023-03-06 21:45:31
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The silly :
so thats why i feel like my trauma is invalid, its not what happened, but what i missed out on
2023-03-19 02:10:18
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Jordan Ferrone :
Why am I crying
2023-03-23 13:14:40
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Fábio Barata :
Tiktok is helping me understand myself day after day... I've been stuck in this video for 10min now, I feel so seen
2023-03-07 00:30:20
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KOHDI/RVYNE | Beyond Sober :
I can barely remember anything & I've been wondering why. But this...this feels more accurate than what did happen 🥺
2023-03-07 19:26:52
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Ken_11514 :
How would you bring this up to a therapist?
2023-03-06 18:46:41
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Open Boundaries :
I like the things you say 🖤 thank you
2023-05-28 00:04:35
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Neyx :
I can remember what it was I just can’t remember the visual memory of it.
2023-03-19 04:06:00
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Collin :
Ages 5 to 11 I hardly remember at all.
2023-03-07 07:45:04
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Deric Cahill :
😳 do I owe you any money for this session? 😂
2023-03-06 17:03:27
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:) :
Everyone assumes childhood trauma is something dramatic like abuse. I hate this stereotype. Trauma can be anything.
2023-03-16 20:40:01
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Amanda :
What if I remember everything, I just want to forget 🥺
2023-03-07 00:53:45
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Doomslayer198 :
Mine was the opposite I felt like I was so coddled from needing my family’s help just to do the basic things that I am angry that I still need their
2023-03-08 08:28:15
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jamie :
Nothing happened to me and everything happened to me but I still feel like a piece of shit every single day
2023-04-14 00:09:04
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Meadow :
Nope my brain just blocked shit completely out of my brain and I don't remember it at all
2023-04-05 02:40:33
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Ican'tthinkofausernamesoyay🚦 :
this horribly is a perfect description of my childhood. ik I shouldn't ever have kids, beacuse I don't know how to show love properly.
2023-04-28 20:57:18
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MrsPurple<3 :
I have so many weird things about me that I don't know where they came from. so many certain fears, anxieties. I had a good up bringing but now seeing this, I think there were some things that affect-
2024-12-23 02:23:49
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