Chris Burkett
Region: US
Wednesday 08 March 2023 13:00:40 GMT
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Trina :
what I love is that he waited until she was done to point that out instead of interrupting her
2023-03-08 14:40:05
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Mars 🔻 :
I love that Chris takes a step back and says “woah that made my flight or fight trigger”
2023-03-08 14:08:03
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The Fox :
defensiveness is one of the biggest pillars of relationship failure. I love his accountability. as a woman omg was I exhausted tip toeing around my
2023-03-08 22:11:07
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Lumber_Snack_Mac :
My childhood & parents always made me the problem. So I always feel like I’m a problem. I always feel like something is wrong.
2023-03-08 13:59:03
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Cv :
I love how once either of you realize the other persons “trigger,” you don’t do it again. Any advice when your partner continues triggers you?
2023-03-08 13:59:17
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hattie2384 :
its almost like that statement is a trojan horse to get you to let your guard down so they can attack you. not intentionally obviously
2023-03-08 17:57:01
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Andreaa♥️ :
Being defensive was one thing I was proud of actually which is sad. But thank God I’ve changed my ways of thinking and reacting.
2023-03-08 13:32:38
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"Christini" :
I could listen to you two ALL DAY. It’s like “light bulb” moments in every podcast. 🤯 Has seriously made me reevaluate how I approach situations.
2023-03-08 14:35:01
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Dutch.Dwarf :
i love how you two can talk about it right when the subject is there. the calm and understanding is pretty rare nowadays. and i love you guys for it.
2023-03-08 13:47:27
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user3109609072364 :
You can offer it a different by saying "I'd like to have a courageous conversation with you about my feelings"
2023-03-08 14:29:25
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Deej :
This advice may have saved my relationship
2023-03-08 19:48:54
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KT :
For me, saying "I don't want to argue" immediately makes me feel like you're assuming that I am going to argue with you and you're telling me not to.
2023-03-11 18:47:31
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Justin T.🙏🏾🖤🌊🇵🇸 :
Your guy’s communication skills are very inspiring and insightful🙏🏾 I truly appreciate your guy’s content👊🏾🖤
2023-03-08 13:23:35
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annekikk :
I love the phrase "from my perspective, here's what I don't understand". I often struggle with how to get clarity on the things I don't understand
2023-03-09 08:50:54
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dmitry dekhtyar :
I agree with him that her saying I'm not looking to get into an argument automatically made me defensive
2023-04-27 15:51:54
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themeekered :
This is good! I tend to start with—-you’re probably gonna be mad that I’m gonna say this, but…🫤😩
2023-03-08 13:29:59
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CaptainTinyFace 🔻 :
the wild thing is that I had to rewatch the beginning because I forgot all the other examples when I heard "I'm not looking to argue"
2023-03-08 15:18:37
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Jenny Canfield :
The way you just expressed yourselves without it blowing up is so inspiring. How do suggest expressing feelings w/o saying "I don't want to argue"?
2023-03-08 14:20:35
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Liva :
Btw this applies to all relationships, friendships, and partnerships. I feel very connected with what Chris is saying, (tbc…)
2023-03-28 21:33:14
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Toni Lawrence :
The keyword is you and I against the problem not you and I against each other 🌹💯👀
2023-03-10 13:15:52
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robby :
i feel the same way he does. it feels like you expect me to be a problem when i’m trying really hard to be calm and not be a problem.
2023-03-10 19:59:15
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Ashley🌻 :
Ive started to ask for a reality check, like babe I’m feeling xyz, I could use a KIND reality check
2023-03-08 14:33:01
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Brie Harris :
In my experience “I'm not looking for an argument” means “this is going to hurt your feelings” and that's my defense to protect me coming out
2023-03-14 06:15:08
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Ny_the_Neet :
I always feel like I’m the problem and I desperately try not to be, so when someone says “I don’t want to argue” I’m already preparing to sit there +
2023-05-29 21:20:25
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Genevieve :
My husband says “this is a conversation” instead of “not being an argument”. The positive shift in language really works
2023-03-14 17:36:58
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