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alycia ☆ :
It doesn’t make sense for anyone under 25 to have kids
2023-03-29 00:20:51
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Ambs :
Decentering men at 22 was literally the best thing to happen to me. I was single for 4 yrs (I’m single again) and it changed my life for the better
2023-03-28 02:44:03
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P 🦋 :
I’m so glad I made it to 28 with no kids. The longer you wait the more you get to watch others and how their decisions play out.
2023-03-27 17:49:30
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Sunshine🌞 :
This is so true . Very important to be mature and well developed as a woman.
2023-03-27 16:19:47
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santandering :
this is why we read bell hooks!!
2023-03-28 02:44:26
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Keeks :
I feel like I made my entire personality my career, I think for the same reason 😳
2023-03-28 00:48:58
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Aysha :
THIS EXPLAINS SO MUCH!!
2023-03-28 06:49:40
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angel :
I’m very happy I waited until I was ready and in a committed relationship and stable before I had kids. Anything before 25 is too early lol
2023-03-27 18:03:04
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Christy :
All the mommy YouTubers and vloggers
2023-03-28 03:10:39
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naturemamiii :
This is why my mom didn’t want me in too serious a relationship young. She said if u marry 2 young you just becom the person ur with
2023-04-10 14:14:00
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L :
i saw my mom give her life up being a single mom at 19. I'm not havin kids or moving in w my bf/getting married until after 28 at least. I owe me that
2023-03-28 14:01:52
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Morgan Le Fae :
agreed. it's been a huge struggle trying to relearn about me and what my actual wants are
2023-03-27 01:03:47
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l :
as a youth development major-I ABSOLUTELY AGREE!!! having kids before ur brain is done developing (25/26 yrs old) is not something i would advise
2023-03-27 23:53:29
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Tray B. 👑 :
1000% agree. That’s why I’m glad I didn’t make big decisions at a young age. What I wanted at 21 is not what I want at 26.
2023-04-06 17:46:17
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Jarriaun | 70s Music Archivist :
This is happening to my mom. Her role has been a wife and a mother since 18. She’s having a hard time 🥺
2023-03-27 20:09:49
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professorpoopypatty :
precisely so many people don’t understand a relationship is supposed to add for ur life not take away
2023-03-27 22:29:25
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glowupjess :
2nd point was perfect. Tired of seeing “she loss sum1 but found sum1 again” what about did she find her ? What exciting things about her as a person
2023-03-28 02:03:31
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Victoria Vance :
Yes yes yes to all but will say it’s not necessarily around prefrontal cortex. I see people do this in late 20’s it’s that they never took time to
2023-03-28 00:46:19
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Life With Belinda|ATL Creator :
AGREED ! Shouldn’t be an entire your identity ! I used to make wanting to be a wife and having kids in a part of my identity and I don’t want it! 😂
2023-03-27 17:40:15
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bree. | creative director :
Gurl this. I am a FIRM believer in having a whole life outside of your marriage and motherhood
2023-04-11 00:42:41
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Glamgirl :
I just turned 30 and when I tell you I’m no longer dumb all of a sudden 😂😂😂 everything is so clear. I have so much clarity
2023-03-27 15:21:30
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Kayla Lala ✡️ :
I remember coming out of high school and everyone went ahead and got married and had kids right away and I was like 😳
2023-04-10 03:13:44
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Karina O :
100% fucking facts. As a young mother I have fought so fucking hard to maintain a sense of self apart from being a mother and partner. It is NOT easy,
2023-03-29 02:16:27
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corinadivina :
I believe this also happens with religion.
2023-03-28 15:51:20
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✒️🖤 :
I think prioritizing your life around a single central thing is subjective in health. It's okay to have the core of your life and priority above -
2023-03-27 02:27:57
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