@justaskjefferson: responses that diffuse defensiveness.

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Tuesday 28 March 2023 00:39:28 GMT
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steven19_77
Steven J :
I prefer “let me tell you why you’re wrong”
2023-03-28 04:49:14
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toetappingtarantula
trashpandapandamonium :
I went to my wife and just started "my name is Jefferson Fisher" and she got extra defensive. 0/10 will not try again 😂😂😂
2023-03-28 02:26:03
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mrbnetty
bnetty :
I’m starting an argument as soon as I get home to try this out, thx.
2023-03-28 10:21:13
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factor.mike.cbhc
Michael Factor cbhc :
Just say: ‘Calm down’!
2023-03-28 02:18:27
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snellotsudona
No one :
I will add this info to my manipulation toolbox thank you.
2023-03-29 03:48:27
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psyched.athletics
psyched.athletics :
The way I would weaponized “That’s helpful to know” 😂
2023-03-28 04:30:23
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lexylexilexe3
🫧Lexi🫧 :
So…. Don’t curse at them? *writes that down*
2023-03-29 00:56:36
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troybeekman
Troy Beekman :
When I hear these things said to me it instantly makes me feel like the other person doesn’t care and is giving me trying to work me
2023-03-28 01:05:15
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moca_madness
MocaThePittie :
I hear my teen son and friends say "that's fair" when one of them disageees with something. Interesting to hear at a young age!
2023-03-28 02:15:45
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deyana_j
Deyana J :
‘I agree that talking to you is pointless. I’ve learned that you’re stubborn and won’t listen to reason which is helpful to know’ Did I do it right?
2023-03-28 15:13:08
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tooosonn
tooosonn :
My toxic trait is I would say these sarcastically.
2023-03-29 07:20:51
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kitten_kenz
kitten_kenz :
Idk why but it feels toxic but in corporate?
2023-03-29 03:13:21
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creammmpufff
Creammmpufff :
Omg! I’m an ER doctor and this is very helpful!
2023-03-28 02:07:30
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user7367635882838
user7367635882838 :
Must be you’ve never argued with an Italian mother😂😂
2023-03-28 10:13:49
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supremerulerofearth
supremerulerofearth :
This is gaslighting
2023-05-10 18:31:41
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surgeonsroadie
Wendy G. :
I agree that this is important. I learned it’s easier to manipulate people when you flatter them.
2023-03-29 17:39:28
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krissyabram
Krissy :
Not me taking notes on these phrases so I can get defensive if someone says them 😂
2023-03-28 11:52:48
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mommadragon4
MommaDragon4 :
When dealing with a narcissistic these would justify their actions and they wouldn't hear any more in my experience. How do you handle that?
2023-03-29 12:07:15
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raisinguprachel
RaisingupRachel :
my husband sometimes says "you were right about.........." He then says something I never said and is his own point. 😡
2023-03-30 01:10:21
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alphagrap
Alpha Graphics Inc :
Use it in marriage too
2023-03-29 00:09:08
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j_daddee
Joel :
Honestly I say I agree so much already that sometimes I accidentally say it when I don’t even agree with them lmao
2023-03-29 03:47:42
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leeezah
Watching grass grow :
Sounds manipulative and fake
2023-03-29 05:10:04
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xihechan
Xihe :
My issue is that when I learn these I hear them from others and feel like they are trying to manipulate me. 😳
2023-03-28 05:00:58
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coccinelle_dhiver
Coccinelle :
quelqu'un pour traduire un équivalent en français ? 🙂😋
2023-03-28 09:49:37
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