@theholisticpsychologist: Emotionally immature parents cannot self regulate. This means their emotions drive their behavior, and they are consistently emotionally reactive. Healing from emotionally immature parent involves setting boundaries. Understanding that we aren’t responsible for our parents emotional state, and feeling empowered to respond in new ways #selfhealers #emotionallyimmatureparents #healingtok #traumahealing

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mirenacoyle
Marina Coyle :
Or the best "I carried you for 9 months" eh, I didn't ask you to 🤷‍♀️
2023-03-30 12:40:17
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rumsford
Danae :
Don't forget the "you're SPOILED!!"
2023-03-30 16:34:49
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leti.zuniga
Leti ❤️ :
I start crying when he starts screaming at me.. what do I do?
2024-09-25 05:27:50
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lunawolfx
Luna :
this is TOTALLY my mom, it’s exhausting
2023-03-30 10:08:16
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audreywheeler06
Audrey Wheeler367 :
Recently, my adult self did SUCH a good job of setting the boundary. But afterward, it sent little me in a meltdown for weeks.
2023-03-30 17:30:08
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taravallance0
Tara Vallance :
Thank you!!!!! I’m 49 & still get terrified of “getting in trouble” when the angry voice or yelling starts even though I know I can leave
2023-03-30 14:46:54
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thepinktoothbrush
leebee :
I’ve tried to set boundaries and been told that that’s obnoxious of me and that I don’t get to do that. Help
2023-06-15 05:07:54
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kendallmcdonald13
Kendall McDonald65 :
It took years of me not taking my moms bait for her to realize those tactics won’t control me anymore
2023-03-30 10:49:27
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riverandsparrow
River & Sparrow :
I went no contact with my mom who is like this. Now I’m pregnant, she doesn’t know yet, and I’m terrified to rekindle the relationship
2023-04-02 00:59:35
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chinchilop
Chinchilop :
Thank you for this. I think I need time to really internalize the message, so I can put it into action when needed, at the right time
2023-03-30 10:00:16
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babypinksss
💜Brookie💜 :
My mum says she can feel her blood pressure going up
2023-03-30 11:10:29
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kelsey_andyson
Kelsey Anderson :
Or when I don’t take the bait anymore and she gets even more angry bc she can’t control me and becomes “the victim” from a “disrespectful kid” I’m 28
2023-11-25 17:21:57
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meg122190
Meghan 🍉 :
“You always do this.” “You’re playing the victim.” “You’re being disrespectful.” All things I’ve heard when I’ve tried to talk about my feelings.
2023-05-22 21:35:02
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ichdiel
idl :
then she spits her lies abt me on everybody else and ruins my reputation!!! it's never over with her. then her friends+fam come+tell me I'm so mean
2023-04-14 19:44:37
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sirwilliamart
Microsoft Painter :
The best thing you can do is continue to enforce your boundaries even though you're scared and/or overwhelmed. It still works.
2023-04-02 18:07:16
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kellyyyann777
Kellyann :
When I respond in new ways she says “why are you pretending like you’re better than me that’s not you” 😅
2023-03-30 19:43:59
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