Side note; if he's spent years neglecting her needs, it will probably take more than a few days of "helping" before she feels he's really trying.
2023-04-03 12:47:48
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Rogue Fox :
This is why more and more women divorce and would rather be single.
2023-04-03 14:19:33
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Lauren :
1 hugely important thing we can do as moms (really both parents need to do this) but making sure our boys are raised where this doesn't continue. We break down all the (reasonable) tasks between our 4
2024-08-19 23:34:01
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Piranha.Mama :
I would think most moms are also working outside the home on top of all that!
2023-04-03 13:01:29
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BamaBoutique :
Saw a guy in Lowe’s with theee kids under 7. I thought “that husband gets it”. Then I heard someone say “good job, dad”. 🤦🏼♀️
2023-04-03 13:42:08
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Dark Crystals :
I'm just sick of asking. If I can see what needs to be done here why can't anyone else? Oh that's right, cause they know I'll do it in the end anyway.
2023-04-03 14:06:23
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Fayeee :
I should start praising moms wherever I go for being a good mom, I’m childlesss by choice. Good moms deserve the world
2023-04-12 17:22:53
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Beach Perfect 🇧🇿 :
you forgot his "babysitting the kids". His own kids.
2023-06-19 01:48:03
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TLC502 :
At the grocery mom usually hears “you’ve got your hands full”
2023-04-03 13:18:16
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mel_donielle :
From my experience, single dads get praised and single moms get judge.
2023-04-10 14:41:23
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Kassnoir :
Love this! In our family we call chores "helping our home".
2023-04-07 18:44:06
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JaneBombane :
So many arguments about wanting him to take initiative. Then I got worn out & asked him to help. Then I was "not grateful" and "too controlling" 😳
2023-04-03 13:24:29
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Andrea Downs :
Just showed this to my husband and he said “ok, I won’t try to help any more” 😂😂😂
2023-04-26 16:38:01
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user2231532471804 :
The more you regularly take items off her plate - she will start showing her appreciation. But it takes time. Prove it’s not a one off thing
2023-05-03 15:50:13
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Kell_Ren :
My husband always asks me, “What can I help you with?”it aggravates me instantly and he doesn’t understand why and I cannot put it into words, either
2023-05-17 12:20:08
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Sheila-Guapa :
My husband always expects to be applauded when he unloads the dishwasher. If I don’t praise him he is offended.
2023-05-15 19:30:30
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Max Broom :
and it's even small stuff like I don't think my husband has ever descaled the steriliser... he wouldn't even know how
2023-05-02 22:14:13
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Julie Davis :
yes! I get upset when he says I loaded the dishwasher for you 🤦🏽 we both work, and we both live here!
2023-05-03 10:55:14
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Tracy :
EXACTLY! We ALL live here!!!!!!
2023-05-03 13:26:30
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Xilonen Macehualtlacatl :
My husband was talking about how he did the dishes and thinking I was gonna praise him or thank him. Like, ok? And? 😂
2023-05-02 19:58:23
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Bennie the frenchie :
YES! if it was part of your responsibility in the first place you don't "help".
2023-05-02 19:06:07
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HaveAGreatDay :
This just validates im on another level. Good luck everyone. These are terrible mindsets, reach out to the truth. ❤️
2024-10-05 05:00:59
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Krista :
This is your time to change the next gen. Teach your son's every chore is everyone's job. Set high expectations now so they have great relationships
2023-04-03 13:58:57
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Liz Lovery | Renovation & DIY :
Not to mention that most moms also have to work a full time job nowadays in addition to all that
2023-04-03 15:26:28
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Amber :
You get it. Society needs a reprogramming.
2023-04-03 13:56:07
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jbru73 :
I really wish there was a way to shove this video up my husband’s ass. 🥺
2023-04-03 13:04:50
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Odicie :
what makes be really annoyed is when he is so helpful when he thinks I am upset with him.. then asked for aprasie for it. Any other time he is checked
2023-04-03 13:03:44
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bw :
I don't know how to put it mildly but coming home to an empty trash can is probably the sexiest thing I can think of.
2023-04-03 13:03:22
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RosyWindow :
Appreciate you and your messages and the way you deliver them. ❤️
2023-04-05 16:20:01
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Tina_M :
Things should just be done without keeping score who did it
2023-04-03 13:57:38
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Patricia Owens Lawton :
#jimmyonrelationships you forgot to mention, that most women now a days have to also work a full time job. Then come home and do everything! 🙃😉
2023-04-03 13:05:03
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catwoman62 :
I did ALL THE THINGS and worked 50 hours a week! Plus, he left 6-8 weeks a year to do military duty. He got buddy time and meals out while gone.
2023-04-03 13:57:00
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Amber :
Also, as a mom taking your kid to the store, you won’t be told you’re a good mom but if they cry or scream everyone looks at you like the worst mom
2023-04-04 16:54:19
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Viktoria :
Stimmt! Meine Mama lobt meinen Mann über alles. Zu mir sagt sie: Das ist deine Aufgabe. Sie vergisst, dass ich auch arbeite...
2023-04-03 16:44:26
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Abbie Wiz :
😭 finally a man who has figured out how to make sure the seggs doesn't stop after marriage and kids 😂
2023-04-03 12:48:33
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Pastel Floofs :
why can't couples just sit down before moving in with each other and talk about each other's responsibilities? it's so easy
2023-04-12 12:31:32
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Jen 🐞 :
Yep, I'm told "he's such a nice guy though!" He is, but everything he does is " helping me" even though we both have full time jobs.
2023-04-03 13:01:11
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thejessylyn :
Annnnd we also have full time jobs. Like how 👏🏻 can’t 👏🏻 you 👏🏻 do 👏🏻 it 👏🏻 too!
2023-04-06 20:19:36
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mammabear :
I am a convenience to my husband. 28 years of speaking, asking, begging and fighting. I'm divorcing him now
2023-04-03 14:12:52
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Lena :
Over this weekend my son(21) and I were doing outside chores. My husband comes out “I did the dishes” wanting the big pat on the back. Thanks dude…
2023-04-03 12:50:25
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Brie Simple Home Garden🇨🇦 :
When I take the kids out with me I’m more likely to get critiqued on if I’m doing things “right”. My husband gets “good dad” comments even if we do
2023-04-04 19:47:34
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flaschenmomente :
and also: most women work too - in addition to everything else.
2023-04-03 13:39:42
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Jen :
Men- just do stuff because you’re an adult and a father. You are more capable than just a paycheck.
2023-04-03 13:25:31
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oleander446 :
My husband in the last 2 months has started pulling his weight. The resentment of him now telling me something needs to get done is deep.
2023-04-03 14:11:39
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bowserlover1 :
😏😏😏 This is called adulting and too many partners turn that off once they come home from work. 🥺🥺🥺
2023-04-03 13:18:07
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SkyeStarShop 🇲🇾 :
After all that, us wives become burnt out and faded away
2023-04-10 12:29:58
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hello_lynnie :
The other problem is dad gets to choose when they "feel" like doing while I as the mom have to be ready to do it whether I feel like it or not.
2023-04-06 21:46:21
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Imposter Cloud :
because women also work too.
so in the end women doing 75% of stuff. men doing 25%
2023-04-03 13:02:58
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Jessie :
the grocery store analogy is what really got it to "click" for my husband.
2023-04-03 13:01:15
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Robin Knapp :
can we add..."and not list everything you did to contribute to the housework"
2023-04-03 13:15:18
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Angel :
And that is why I am single !!! Men need to step it up !!! I am not your mother !!!
2023-04-03 12:59:13
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jɇn |-/ :
Can you make a video for the men that just come home from work and fall asleep in the recliner every day?
2023-04-03 14:13:58
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Myrinda Dixon :
if he doesn't do it to the same standard as me, I just have to do it over. that's not helping😳
2023-04-03 14:19:43
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Kristen Lady :
If you both express appreciation ir a thank you for each thing done big or small then every single thing done is done in gratitude and all is good!
2023-04-03 16:28:45
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Gr8Mmmy :
The amount of times someone says “you signed up for this” to me, but he’s a champ for picking a kid up from school.
2023-04-03 13:11:45
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Jacqueline Tarantino :
women do this on top of working a full time job and some men still don't "help"
2023-04-03 13:01:57
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Amy :
Yes! And then they’re like “I did a house thing, and she won’t mate with me” 🙄
2023-04-06 15:19:01
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Chestnut-Mare :
Do one where all that BUT the wife ALSO WORKS FULL TIME.
2023-04-05 20:49:25
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Robyn Amanda Braysha :
My husband does a lot around the house. He also expects all the praise for it. I constantly say “you live here too”
2023-04-10 20:07:52
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