@patrickteahanofficial: This scene has been in my head since 1985. We’ve all known people who come off that they have it all figured out and try to tell you that they need to protect you from the complications of dating them. They’re too tortured, busy, or up to great things and can’t get slowed down. Sometimes that is just smoke and mirrors and they’re avoiding intimacy due to childhood trauma. #dismissiveavoidant #peewee #childhoodtrauma #attachmentstyle