@watchfulcoyote: Two weird old Maine phrases about men, and some grief and praise. #healing #ancestralhealing #mensmentalhealth #healthecycle #father #fatherhood #generationaltrauma

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ericsdawson
ericsdawson :
i'm 38 now and i really miss the fluid intelligence i had in my 20s
2023-04-05 22:33:15
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javertfromlesmis
Javert :
assuming there isn't an accident or sickness, I'll be about 70 when my dad dies. that a long time to wait to be a man.
2023-04-05 20:52:32
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sukisolas
Sam :
And then it’s all downhill after 40
2023-04-06 06:11:47
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nadiak244
nadia 🧿🍉 :
“And he’s a lot less harmful than his parents were…” Beautiful share
2023-04-05 21:21:45
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panneh_boy
panneh_boy :
hugs. I changed in totally unforseen ways when my father died.
2023-04-24 10:25:36
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guycalledread
Dread :
MAINE - I'M FROM MAINE HOLY SHIT, GUYS WE'RE BEING TALKED ABOUT
2023-04-07 06:26:09
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angelaelkins193
xnji holley :
I care 4 terminal clients, my Da crossed years ago he told me his o(nly daughter) that he never stopped being 9...or 27 depending on his mood
2023-04-05 20:39:21
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mike_the_jackal
mike(square)_the_jackal🍉 :
dang. literally brought me to tears. that's a really harsh truth. my dad is still here, so I need to call him.
2023-04-05 20:48:57
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indianathegreat735
Indiana The Great :
wow what a story and lesson there, thank you for sharing
2023-04-05 20:52:03
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rossgriffith1
rossgriffith1 :
I was 39 when my dad died. Your statement is spot on. It is jarring when the father dies, life is not as secure wo the father. Gone24 yrs already...
2023-04-23 17:37:35
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craftyfighter
user295072711054 :
Yup, sounds like maine for sure.
2023-04-29 19:56:47
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lawyerwayne
Lawyer Wayne :
😢 ok fine, I’m gonna go call my dad.
2023-04-12 20:57:08
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thatinfohoe
TheInfoHo :
This video...it hits DEEP. Thank you, for your wisdom and for your vulnerability.
2023-04-14 03:15:44
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nickmatiash
The Evolved Man :
Loved this, man. Thanks for sharing 🙏🏼
2023-04-11 01:54:56
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user88130012
user659193899434 :
Those Maine guys might have been onto something. I always tell my friends not to get serious w a man until he’s 35.
2023-04-14 05:42:39
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caverdog1
John Roberts :
I moved out @ 15. At @ 32 stopped talking to dad. 15 years later he never met my kids when he died. They're better for it. Been an OK man since ~25.
2023-04-13 20:49:19
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theredpairshoestore
theredpairshoestore :
OMG! You speak my truth, but as a daughter. It is different, and the anger is missed.
2023-04-09 14:06:41
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amancalledhawk
Alvoro :
Yes it does get lonelier 🥺
2023-04-08 03:15:00
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thebighatred
Kenny Anderson :
I lost my dad this year and I've been struggling,things are different now trying to find footing but this helped. Thank you for this
2023-06-24 20:31:05
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jengmcguire
Jen :
This is beautiful, thank you for sharing
2023-04-13 17:29:18
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mattsalinas51
mattsalinas51 :
Thank you man, I needed this
2023-04-25 15:01:41
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chrishorton94
Chris Horton :
Dang man. This resonates. About a month ago I cut my dad out because he was harming me, my relationships, my family.
2023-04-05 20:38:46
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lea.kelley
aeleiram :
What gives me hope: your comments aren’t devoid of men, & their comments aren’t mocking or deriding, but supporting & thanking you. 💜
2023-06-16 14:44:48
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wintergreenies
WinterGreenies :
That was beautiful. Thank you.
2023-04-18 04:54:10
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lamont_dallas1026
Lamar Houston :
this shit has me reflecting. my father passed when I was 3 and it did force me to grow up earlier.
2023-04-25 15:24:13
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lodelposch
tumbs :
im pretty young and i know that its just a given that im gonna be unsure of a lot while im young but your videos often feel-
2023-04-27 00:20:39
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i8zmnm330
i8zmnm330 :
When I lost my parents I felt like a hot air balloon that had become untethered to the earth.
2023-04-20 16:50:08
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igoturssn
Salvador :
I feel it
2023-04-08 17:53:04
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kelleygirl65
MrsG :
7 years ago today my brother died. My life has changed ever so much.
2023-04-09 14:02:17
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ihavefaithinchaos
Kai Iblis :
Thank you for sharing. Even though I have totally different experiences, yours are valid too, and I am thankful that I can see your side as well.
2023-04-29 19:24:22
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cristiansaboszla3
cristiansaboszla3 :
Totally feel you there… and makes me think in what ways we are seen as harmful to them by OUR kids :(
2023-04-19 16:21:49
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auspicious_stone312
auspicious stone :
I don't know how it could possibly feel any lovelier than having parents who can't be parents, but I'll take your word for it. 💔
2023-04-23 20:10:01
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devinbrown078
Devin Brown :
Thanks for sharing ❤️
2023-04-05 20:31:36
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texastree.expert
Texastreeman :
I can’t take advantage of it. I haven’t seen him in many years
2023-05-04 12:25:48
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bulldog_bobby
Bulldog Bob :
“I didn’t sound like this.” 😂
2023-06-11 21:28:20
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candiro
Candi :
I’ve been thinking lately that maybe when my dad’s dad is dead then I’ll be able to talk to my dad again. Who knows, maybe he’ll even talk to me first
2023-04-05 21:50:46
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bonniegorrasi
Bonnie Benson Gorras :
My family comes from Aroostook county. We drank coffee like water and there’s a certain style of stoicism to them.
2023-04-05 21:21:28
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victoralatorre01
Victor Alatorre :
This hits hard.
2023-04-05 21:08:25
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shaktona
shaktona :
I lot my dad at 12. still struggle with it
2023-04-15 13:54:29
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grizzthegreen
Grizz The Green :
✊🏾💖👑
2023-04-12 05:21:19
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geoff_tiktok_newb
TikTok newb :
Thanks for sharing all you do. Sorry for your loss. ❤️‍🔥
2023-04-13 08:30:07
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rashugh64
Hughman64 :
Condolences to you and your family my freind . May he rest in peace
2023-04-13 11:52:16
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scynistr
E.T2123 :
What is a man? I haven’t seen many examples of one not contaminated with the sicknesses of our country… I’ll define it for myself.
2023-04-13 12:51:54
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joelyoung83
Joel Young :
I didn’t start taking care of myself until my father passed when I was 22. I’ll be 32 this year with my second son being born Easter Sunday.
2023-04-12 01:07:31
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bunzarella
Bunzarella :
Coming up on 2 years my dad has been gone. I feel this! May his memory be a blessing.
2023-04-11 12:10:31
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jaewinters
Jae aka Big Kitty :
When my father died I had a psychotic episode, because I would never get to say the things to him. At least he never met his grandchildren!
2023-04-11 05:13:53
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londonjack9
LondonJack :
This is beautiful, thanks for sharing.
2023-04-10 22:39:28
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jpanderson80
Jeremy :
Thanks for sharing this wisdom. I’ve been exploring this idea some recently. So interesting to hear your experience.
2023-04-14 07:36:13
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