@theholisticpsychologist: Passive agressive comments include jokes or mocking us for things we’re passionate about. This can feel very triggering and invalidating especially when it’s a pattern. Dealing with passive aggressive comments involves becoming curious rather than reactive. We can ask: “what do you mean by that?” When we find a “joke” offensive we can clearly assert ourselves and let the person know we don’t find it funny and don’t want to be spoke to that way. If we’re dealing with someone who is emotionally imm

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adelphotes
adelphotes :
“I was just joking around” so hurtful and the gaslighting that can follow. It’s easier sometimes to just not engage at all tbh
2023-04-07 15:26:23
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shareeannn
shareeannn :
Always with the “I’m just joking!” “Ugh it’s just a joke, you’re so sensitive these days”
2023-04-07 15:24:36
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nicolekiddingman
Nicole :
“I was just kidding, learn to take a joke” “yes well it really hurt my feelings” “WELL THEN I GUESS I WONT JOKE WITH YOU ANYMORE”
2023-04-11 22:26:00
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eighthdoctor
🍁 Autumn in the North 🍉 :
What do you do when she KNOWS it bothers you and that's the entire point? She's doing on purpose to hurt you. Then what?
2023-04-07 15:56:07
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stephkroll
Stephanie Kroll :
Both my parents are so passive aggressive towards me and I never stood up for myself because I thought it was normal behavior for so long
2023-04-07 15:53:18
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anastasiaatcubby
BrooklynLedger :
Staying on neutral topics is emotionally exhausting too. Just getting through it is very taxing
2023-04-23 20:52:48
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part_time_professor
Part_time_professor :
I told my dad I didn’t want to date his friend’s son. He told me I thought I was better then him because I went to college. My now husband has a GED
2023-04-07 15:36:35
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melanieslametiktok
Mel :
Constantly told not to be so sensitive growing up. Also got laughed at for wanting to be a fashion designer or a cosmologist. So I did neither.
2023-04-12 19:15:44
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por_bookblog
Playground of Randomness Blog :
my dad does this and it pisses me off so much
2023-04-07 15:11:56
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soledadmountainspa
Soledad Mountain Spa Shop :
You guys do the best content on stuff like this
2023-04-07 16:41:33
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kris.notchris
kris :
And then experience their defensive, not passive just aggressive, meltdown.
2023-04-25 03:58:13
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sassykikibarbara
Alisa❤ :
I've said this to my mother who has made similar comments my whole life and she dismissed me every time. I'm done sharing my life with her.
2023-04-10 21:06:18
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forest20241
Shammy :
My elderly mom does this to me in public when I’m helping her with a doc appt etc. It is a weird way to brag about and shame me at the same time.
2023-04-25 03:46:41
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tiff_52915
Tiffani | 🩵 :
Why do I get so flustered when trying to assert myself. I literally feel like I could throw up with confrontation of standing up for myself.
2023-04-21 01:36:30
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rcehb_art
Que Saunt :
How do you respond if they say "you're being woke/you're being emo again" each time you assert yourself?
2023-04-17 08:42:33
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musicbyanou
anou :
i do this but still somehow end up ‘in the wrong’
2023-04-17 11:31:44
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scorpiogoddess99
Emmy :
This is my mom :/
2023-04-08 01:43:32
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reed_1825
reed :
I got accepted to an overseas university. my grandpa yelled at me and left the room when I told him 🥰
2023-04-11 08:22:18
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crispybottom
crispybottom :
My boomer moms default is “GAWD I was JUST JOKING! You’re so sensitive!” Whenever I react to ANYTHING. Drives me insane
2023-04-07 16:38:22
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mollyfbabyyy
Molly B. :
My mother is the absolute WORSE gaslighter. It's the "I can do it but you can't" mindset that she does. The double standards is what does it for me.🙄
2023-04-09 14:58:44
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faithamorim
faith <3 :
i’ve been doing this for YEARS but i just get the silent treatment afterwards
2023-05-29 03:31:04
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paulettemeta
paulettemeta :
Can you do a passive aggressive comments ? This one hits so close to home
2023-04-13 00:05:17
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sweetmemecentral
Sweet.Meme C :
Why can’t they just apologise for what they say instead of saying “I was joking” it may be funny to them or others but not the person that its said to
2023-04-07 18:14:30
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pretty_pearl915
Pretty_Pearl915 :
Omg I found you on tiktok!!!! Finally!!! ♥️♥️♥️
2023-04-09 21:54:28
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