Jimmy Knowles
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Kat Malone :
He just says “I can never do anything right” “i guess I messed up again”. “You hate me”. ….makes me feel like i constantly complain
2023-04-08 14:32:41
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a.weeks83 :
He shuts me down nearly every time 🥺
2023-04-08 12:22:34
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amber hernandez928 :
Apparently I am only his cook and his maid because what I think or how I feel just does not matter.
2023-04-14 23:02:08
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Jessica Bonham :
is it poss to complain too much about your partner? what if your partner is constantly doing things that hurt you and they feel exhausted because im bringing up things they do that hurt me too much
2024-12-16 02:12:31
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Alison :
What if all they do is complain? He complains about everything and everyone. To the point I can’t stand the negativity anymore.
2023-04-08 12:20:17
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holyeffword :
'I want to know how you feel.' imagine!!! 😭
2023-04-08 14:38:56
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Maria Waldren881 :
your videos are very eye opening and help me see where I have not been the best partner
2023-04-08 12:57:29
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Tericita :
Absolutely! We respect each other’s right to get things off our chests. It’s not criticism, it’s personal growth.
2023-04-08 12:33:05
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Samantha JC (She\ Her) :
I'd hate to be in a relationship where my partner felt that he couldn't be honest.
2023-04-08 12:44:45
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justJenJen75 :
This is our biggest issue. Communication. A simple ask, fine. But passive aggressive comments or talking down to me like a child. I shut down.
2023-04-08 13:00:34
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Scottie. VFC :
Men cannot ever mention an issue. Better to stay silent. Men who think they matter will be brutally divorced.
2023-04-08 12:20:18
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pilotgurlie66 :
And if your spouse does not feel comfortable bringing up things where you will listen they will go find somebody who will and that NEVER ends well? 😞
2023-04-08 14:22:18
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Trauma Wisdom :
you are awesome.
2023-04-08 13:29:08
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kittiesOF3 :
Communication
2023-04-08 12:47:22
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Sherene :
“How can i love you better?” I ask this because i want them to ask me this
2023-04-09 17:16:45
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Sunshine Rice461 :
Transparent? Hardly! he whispers on the phone with his mom and sometimes in his room
2023-04-08 13:23:26
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cupcakesinmydreams :
Immediate response to ANYTHING I say that might even remotely be perceived as negative: anger and defensiveness. So I say nothing, and it chips away.
2023-04-23 16:08:18
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reidelclarke :
He shares complaints: I hurt him, shut him down. That was not my intent nor in my words. He demands an apology. I’m confused. Did I cause it?
2023-04-08 12:40:09
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Liz Gillenwater :
This is very helpful. Thank you!
2023-04-10 21:59:23
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Carolina Gonzalez :
What to do when your partner only complaints when you complaint? for me is like a defensive response, but I dont know how to handle it.
2023-04-10 17:00:40
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Jamie Kulesa :
Yea
2023-04-11 06:49:59
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amrs :
I only did this during counseling. if I did it at home it was immediately defend & accuse
2023-04-08 22:14:00
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davs :
ok. I validate that, they probably do. I see you have good intentions, understand you're struggling and take what's communicated into consideration.
2023-04-09 03:59:45
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Jenni8675🖤💙❤️🇺🇸 :
🥰
2023-04-09 04:37:56
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skamperdans 🇨🇦 :
I brought up not putting wood in the dishwasher and he somehow turned it around on me. No I don't feel safe bringing up shit.
2023-04-09 14:09:30
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devvmiche :
I’d love to send your videos to my husband. I’ve tried, and can’t anymore . He said “it’s all irrelevant to us” it’s not.
2023-04-08 20:53:25
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sweetslover :
I sent a message on tiktok if you have time can you view it
2023-04-09 18:58:29
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Kally :
can you post something on walk away wives?
2023-04-10 02:46:14
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TocwithyourTicOut :
Everyone knows this Its the Problem Who goes first. And Will the one Complaining Recepucate back for you. Women more likely to Weaponize it & >>>>
2023-04-10 02:52:32
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Cory Pettengill :
I’m bad at this. With all that I do for my hubs (he’s blind) and our two young kids, I don’t take any criticism well. It’s tough. 😔
2023-04-10 03:25:08
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Racheli DeGreat🎗 :
thanks for this. I like to think I can handle anything, but I think I tend to get defensive too quickly 😳 need to work on that
2023-04-08 20:35:07
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TIME FOR THE FUTURE. :
Thank you!
2023-04-10 18:15:52
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user3757995846559 :
You know me?!
2023-04-10 19:06:31
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Helimechcolo74 :
Confusing for men. Woman want to tell us a compliant and want us to listen and be sensitive. But the man wants to fix it. So it’s frustrating to hear
2023-04-10 19:06:54
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rbcfr5 :
We have to be able to “speak the truth in love.” This is how we test our intimacy imo.
2023-04-08 18:58:26
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autieseann :
Do you offer telehealth appointments? I think about your videos all the time and it always ends up in me crying and dying a little more.
2023-04-11 00:15:13
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Love & Light ☀️ :
Sure r🥺hey should be heard making a complaint. Though I agree a safe place is paramount for adults and children. Make it happen
2023-04-11 02:49:54
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NurseCate :
Yes, absolutely. But bringing the complaint up (about me or just his every day life) over and over again does get tiring. Mostly about his outside
2023-04-11 03:59:02
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Mandy :
mine tells me all the time what i do wrong ...he never tells me i do anything right 💁♀️🤣
2023-04-08 16:47:11
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😏 :
I can bring a complaint or share how I feel and he'll let me know how I SHOULD be feeling or tell me that I just need to "be more positive".
2023-04-11 17:56:20
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WhatsUpAlyCat :
This is a conversation me and my boyfriend have regularly. "Do you feel heard? Is there anything we need to work on?" It's important
2023-04-11 23:40:27
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DanielleKingstrom :
Gosh darn it Jimmy. You’re always fire. 🔥 I appreciate your POV and advice so much. 👏👏
2023-04-12 02:02:45
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DjaPutin-MindCitta :
😂😂😂 He would go insane not to complain to me. I will make sure to give him plenty of opportunity. That’s how generous I am.
2023-04-12 09:56:10
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DjaPutin-MindCitta :
He will few completely at home letting me know exactly what I do to concern him regarding anything he can’t stand about me. 🤣🤣Né Babe?
2023-04-12 10:00:26
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Motorbike Madness :
I really hope my OH can find the emotional maturity to learn this. Constant defensiveness and dismissal is wearing me down. 😞
2023-04-12 11:38:26
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The Lost Spirit :
wonderful insight. I hope YOU WRITE A BOOK ON THIS
2023-04-12 12:10:53
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MorriganQ87 :
I wish they'd do it more. it feels like I'm the only one broaching topics😳 then om a nag.
2023-04-12 12:55:27
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nielanta :
My partner was actually the one who asked me to "complain". I was always shut down by my parents and not allowed to voice my needs. Hubby is amazing ♡
2023-04-12 17:06:01
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Brooke Callais :
Is it wrong to ask my SO to come to church with me and stop smoking? He says I’m being controlling and demanding.
2023-04-13 01:19:24
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Ruthie Morrison :
This is such a hard one for me because I have rejection sensitivity. My first inclination is to be so hurt but afterwards I can comeback and talk.
2023-04-13 17:31:54
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