@vanessaandxander: Knowing whether you and your partner are internal or external processors can be a complete game-changer for your relationship. Do you sit with your thoughts for awhile before talking to your partner, or do you rely on working out your thoughts and feelings aloud? Let us know in the comments below and send this to your partner to find out what kind of processor they are! #forcouples #relationshiptips #therapistsofinstagram #communicationhacks Internal Processor External Processor Communication Hacks Advice From A Therapist Marriage Tips