Coach Blac
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Monday 10 April 2023 13:52:30 GMT
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user6929402587656 :
Honestly avoidants are not worth the trouble. Just let them go and move on, even if they do reach out don’t give in
2023-04-10 15:56:43
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Coty Brown :
Avoidant is the worst Attachment style. It's truly exhausting to endure and even a healthy person will grow tired of it
2023-04-11 00:28:41
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Cpk521 :
Mine came back after 6 months. You have to pretend they don’t exist and give them space. Don’t have the expectation that they will return and move on
2023-04-10 14:16:24
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B❤️🇦🇺🦘🐨 :
Give them space period. Like I mean the rest of their lives.
2023-04-11 11:06:01
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Lulu :
Even if u are the healthiest person on the planet with lots of patience an avoidant will never be able to emotionally fulfill you as you deserve. 🙏
2023-04-12 15:41:29
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KikiBunny :
move on to someone who has a secure attachment. choose to heal yourself in-between. avoidants can cause so much harm.
2023-04-10 16:57:39
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Cameron Combs979 :
Sooo basically everything is on their terms.. seems like less than useful advice for the other person involved 🤔
2023-04-10 21:36:02
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staxiastyle :
yup I went no contact and now I have another bf, the avoidant was hella surprised I'm not always going to be available for him 🤷♀️
2023-04-11 00:33:12
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RisingSol :
The fact that people are using no contact as emotional manipulation and still not seeing that they need to work on themselves 🤦♀️
2023-04-11 19:44:00
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Womenemancipator :
Don’t stress, just cut them off very fast
2023-04-10 17:59:13
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naomimaxxx :
everyone I know that's anxiously attached is doing the work to move towards secure. why don't avoidants do the same???
2023-04-12 00:35:50
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Gary :
I just never respond and move on. They had their chance and they blew it.
2023-04-10 17:55:11
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user3254373437684 :
Just find someone who’ll love you how you need
2023-04-10 19:47:35
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👧🏼Danielle_in_Wonderland🫖 :
I’ve known my avoidant for two years and this is true. He always comes back and he knows I’m here for him when he’s ready to talk.
2023-04-10 14:52:08
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Freya :
An avoidant’s “from time to time” is 2-4x longer than an anxious person’s
2023-04-11 04:08:23
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Jodi 🦋 Kay :
So avoidant & needed “time”, yet he ran right into the arms of someone else 🥺 like 2 weeks later . Makes no sense
2023-04-10 14:03:42
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lexjude :
dated one for 3 years. never again. I'm so physically and emotionally starved
2023-04-11 18:05:28
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Karoniverse | Manifestacja ✨ :
Why do I ALWAYS have to do what’s good for them? AT ONCE they should do something good for the other person.
2023-04-11 11:40:04
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Bezley Snipes :
Who’s got time for that though, it’s exhausting. And why do we always have to accommodate them, it’s never the other way round
2023-04-10 19:28:11
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Gennesis Goncalves :
O sea ellos no pueden entender que también le pasan a otras personas? Pero uno si tiene que entender que necesitan espacio y nisiquiera avisan..
2023-04-10 22:54:58
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leeannemiller1111 :
you think being in a relationship with an avoident is exhausting. trying being aware u are one and trying to fix it 😭
2023-04-11 01:23:04
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YaShaun Inspires :
If the avoidance can’t say I need space F them! I am an avoidance and say what need. If you go no contact I will be gone for life!
2023-04-11 02:39:06
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bansheebrat :
y'all don't ask for space. you just stonewall & ghost with no explanation & come back on your terms & we're supposed to understand & be waiting. pass
2023-05-21 23:43:20
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Mazlina Ariff :
No thanks. This is just pain for you. No one is worth your peace
2023-04-11 00:26:07
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