@michellebellexo: If you are a trans person please tell me if I am in the wrong at all by saying “I wouldn’t have known you were trans if you didnt tell us in the video. you look great” would be offensive bc apparently I don’t know how to give a compliment anymore
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Monday 10 April 2023 21:30:55 GMT
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leo :
ur heart was in the right place, but some people could view it as an implication that you can only be beautiful if ur passing
2023-04-10 21:56:41
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Shay :
It’s a problem when it’s acknowledged. It’s a problem when it not. Insane.
2023-04-10 21:43:24
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Jo :
LEAVE MICHELLE ALONE AND LET HER MAKE HER SILLY LITTLE DRINKS IN PEACE
2023-04-10 22:25:52
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Shorty0231 :
I hardly leave comments on anything in this app cuz everyone is offended over nothing 🤦♀️
2023-04-10 22:05:50
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Danielle Sylvester :
I swear I try not to even comment anymore. I’m sorry you’re going through this
2023-04-11 03:14:25
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Jenna :
Listen...I just don't say anything anymore because it seems like people get easily offended these days!! so annoying!
2023-04-10 21:44:53
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Mayra$Nickels :
so basically its like you saying you look great but only bc i didnt kno u were xyz. i kno itsnnot the intent but thays what ppl hear
2023-04-10 21:44:14
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addy || girl mom 🩷 :
i have a strong feeling this is about kelly and that kelly didn't even get offended or notice lol
2023-05-01 01:03:10
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Julie Collins :
I say that all the time? I figured it would help boost confidence…..
2023-04-10 22:05:51
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Hayleyyy ♥︎ :
You’d think it would be fine congratulating them on how far they’ve come
2023-04-10 21:39:51
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libertybeanz :
I (trans person) think people might read it as “I didn’t think a trans person could look great” but I think if you’re saying “I couldn’t tell” and 1:
2023-04-10 22:16:49
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Madddddddddddddie :
I see nothing wrong with that 🤷🏼♀️you gave them a compliment
2023-04-10 21:41:52
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Callee✝️ :
I'm guessing it's the way you worded it but I have no clue. 😂
2023-04-10 21:34:17
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Dylan :
i've told a customer at my job (who i'm friendly with) that she looks great, and she feels flattered not insulted
2023-04-10 21:38:38
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Dakota Marie Marr :
I think language has changed a lot over the years and sometimes it doesn’t translate well. I do believe that the offense may have come not from the…
2023-04-10 21:39:26
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Shannon Gray :
The problem is we will all be so afraid to say anything soon for fear of accidentally upsetting someone even if we genuinely try to be nice
2023-04-10 21:35:17
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Cassy :
People legit reach bc they have no life. I told a trans content creator the same comment and she thanked me and reacted kindly. It’s a compliment
2023-04-11 04:45:40
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Alyssa :
Babes you’re good! I think everyone knows that you had good intentions some people just look for ways to make someone a villain
2023-04-10 21:39:40
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emma :
it’s really important to know where you *may* be wrong. even if you think it’s a compliment it may not FEEL like a compliment to that person.
2023-04-10 21:47:18
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Derick :
It’s like saying “you’re pretty for a x/y/z person.” Kind of sounds like, “you’re not ugly like the rest of those.”
2023-04-10 21:59:53
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seliza 💜 :
i can tell you meant well! but usually it’s backhanded cause it perpetuates the idea that trans people have to appear cis to be valid
2023-04-10 22:23:50
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Charlotte :
People are so dramatic and sensitive ab everything u did nothing wrong dw
2023-04-12 05:55:32
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Kari :
It’s kind of like when you say “you look great for being pregnant” or whatever. You can just say “you look great” and leave it there.
2023-04-10 22:46:35
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