@atpeaceparents: Your house is gonna be messy if you have a PDA kid. Stop beating yourself up ❤️. #pathologicaldemandavoidance #extremedemandavoidance #challengingchildren #theexplosivechild #motherhoodishard #parentalburnout #momburnout #adhdmom #twiceexceptionalkids #anxiousmomsoftiktok

Casey Ehrlich, Ph.D.
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spennypenny20
spennypenny20 :
Problem is, as an adhd parent, I’m highly overwhelmed by mess which impacts my ability to coregulate and give the attention to my pda child
2023-05-14 14:57:09
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sharondodds29
shazza :
My daughter PDA she good at tidy and will play on her own most of the time
2023-04-11 20:37:07
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bluepersephone1111
Blue Persephone :
Thank you! Do you have advice on howto parent a PDA kid when I have PDA myself? Finding resources for this is hard.
2023-04-11 20:26:57
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infinite.forest
Cedar :
My brain doesn’t function when the house is too messy so I removed a lot and opened the space up to try to accommodate us both.
2023-04-11 21:53:56
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courtney.shu
Court. :
We’re at a stage where my PDA child enjoys alone time- she’s no longer a tornado. That stage isn’t forever ❤️
2023-04-12 03:10:56
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casmas506
Martha Stanley :
The amount of times I’ve tried to explain to others that our evenings are spent on sons routine and regulation. Not reading, not tidying up, etc.
2023-04-14 00:36:12
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ironically_forsaken
Ironically_Forsaken :
is this... is this why WHY my pda toddler tries to crawl in my skin whenever I'm trying to clean????
2023-04-12 11:31:44
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8675309_m
Eleanor Roosevelt :
Thank you. My PDA child is 17 now and I am exhausted from the 100% coregulation and completely cluttered home. Is there any freedom in sight for me?
2023-04-12 13:53:31
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i.say.hella
🧚🏾‍♀️ :
but according to my mom (who's absolutely undx PDA Autistic) I'm just lazy and my kid is spoiled 🙃
2023-04-11 20:33:42
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carrrrlz
carrrrlz :
My mom would beg me to clean my room so I never would, as soon as they left me home alone I cleaned the entire house top to bottom 🤠
2023-05-30 15:16:53
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1dayatatime2020
Lisa :
I relate to alot of things you say but I don't know if our 3.5yr old is PDA. He is grandson who has been through trauma
2023-04-11 20:14:26
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caityschenker
Caity Schenker :
I’ve been stressed about this a lot. Thank you for this.
2023-04-11 20:49:07
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sarahsmasterplan
Sarah Kay :
this makes so much sense. it feels like I've been doing nothing but co regulating for 9years
2023-04-22 15:54:39
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catrionathepoet
Catriona The Poet ✍🏻✨ :
As a PDA parent, with a PDA child, the messiness has been a major problem for us both. The house is a big mess. I wish I knew how to deal with it.
2023-05-31 11:54:21
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klawdeeah
Claudia :
once I accepted the mess I will only clean ONCE a day now. and I rotate cleaning rooms. and outside time to keep then away from making a mess lol
2023-04-14 01:08:23
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_pixie77
Elizabeth77 :
my daughter has ocd over cleaning so she's constantly cleaning
2023-04-11 20:04:37
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101mumslife
Caza :
I am quite relieved to hear this two of my kids are autistic one of which non verbal I can not keep up, my house is always messy,I try it gets me down
2023-04-23 16:19:06
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mercyh94
Mercy H :
What if a messy home affects the parent drastically? I can’t function at all in a messy home, it leads to severe depression, etc. I NEED a clean home
2023-04-13 22:12:28
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tinamariestover
Tina Marie Stover :
so do we make them clean up after themselves but it's such a fight to do that ugh this is exhausting
2023-04-22 23:04:00
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soulfullyguided8
soulfullyguided8 :
Thanks this just validated my experience
2023-04-11 20:08:47
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meh._.1991
🙋🏽‍♀️ :
I totally gave up my idea of what I wanted the house to look like. It's been the best thing for my son and for my nerves.
2023-04-11 22:52:19
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taylorddouglas
Taylorrrr✨ :
I lowered demands AND STUFF. Soo we still have a clean home. We both have PDA 🥰
2023-04-19 16:24:41
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jessmomof2boys
Jessica I :
I need to find a family therapist familiar with PDA. Every time I bring it up to a professional I get looked at like I have three heads
2023-04-14 12:43:33
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graycereads
Gracie :
Can you make a video for spouses of PDA adults?
2023-04-14 15:24:38
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