@unquietwoman: #stitch with @heyitstoriiiiii The anxious attacher is advised to sit in all of their discomfort and dysregulation, so that the avoidant is not activated and disregulated. We’re basically giving them the space to be avoidant, and not have to face the unhealthy attachment style so that they can heal it. What if we both came together, while activated, and learned ways to work through that activated space?! #fyp #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #dysregulation
Unquiet Woman | Healing & Love
Region: US
Friday 14 April 2023 17:47:47 GMT
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CE :
Yeah the avoidant gets exactly what they need and the anxious gets to sit there and lose their mind
2023-04-15 00:02:44
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the disorganized attachment person enter chat 🤯
2023-04-20 17:54:22
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Cʜʀɪsᴛɪɴᴀ :
It seems the anxious attachment’s feelings are always neglected and comes second..
2023-11-17 07:43:57
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B-low :
U are so right
2023-04-16 01:10:02
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moustache_cashhhstache :
Have you considered that maybe this specific partnership doesn’t work and will not be fair or effective whatever you do…
2023-04-15 19:50:32
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Bekah :
We don’t have to sit in disregulation! Journaling all the crazy anxious thoughts helps a ton! We don’t need them to find our peace
2023-04-16 17:56:19
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evan reedy :
something else to consider is when you're attached, think of how often you push the boundary without thinking how it's affecting your partner at all.
2023-04-15 15:32:01
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Sincerely :
😂😂😂😂its manipulation
2023-04-20 18:32:52
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G :
yeah.
2023-04-16 19:06:08
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suck_it_trebek :
Thank you, no one ever mentioned this and it made me feel like I was crazy
2023-04-18 03:03:54
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brat :
I think the compromise is asking the avoidant to give a timeframe.
2023-04-15 12:27:10
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Grey :
It's helpful to agree on a time to revisit a topic, give reassurance to the anxious attacher, before giving space.
2023-04-16 16:35:03
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Karissa Marie :
This! And honestly I will give time if I get a get I love you were chill I need this what can i do before I take space. And then they come back too
2023-04-18 03:26:20
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Lilababy :
YESSSS
2023-04-17 08:19:46
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The Majestic :
It’s not worth it. Hold out for someone with secure attachment
2023-04-15 15:12:15
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oct_libra1978 :
This
2023-04-16 21:41:41
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rich :
Why do anxious attachments always have to compensate and do things for the avoidant, but not vice versa. Its unfair
2023-04-15 16:19:40
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JFindsJ :
I see my mistakes now
2023-04-16 23:51:25
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Reality Adjacent :
AMEN!!
2023-04-14 21:45:20
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riddicks_crazy2_ride :
FINALLY! Thank you for saying it!
2023-04-14 23:21:45
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nicoleoconnell849 :
really good point!
2023-04-22 16:50:56
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Rio 💜 🌻 :
screams and sobs yeah lmao
2023-04-17 17:40:11
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user7632492417838 :
Finally someone said it
2023-05-12 06:23:41
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Nojan :
🏃🏽♂️💨 avoid the avoidant
2023-04-15 11:54:48
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