@unquietwoman: #stitch with @heyitstoriiiiii The anxious attacher is advised to sit in all of their discomfort and dysregulation, so that the avoidant is not activated and disregulated. We’re basically giving them the space to be avoidant, and not have to face the unhealthy attachment style so that they can heal it. What if we both came together, while activated, and learned ways to work through that activated space?! #fyp #attachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #dysregulation

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t_mosq
CE :
Yeah the avoidant gets exactly what they need and the anxious gets to sit there and lose their mind
2023-04-15 00:02:44
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bikeguy8
0 :
the disorganized attachment person enter chat 🤯
2023-04-20 17:54:22
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_ctnguyening
Cʜʀɪsᴛɪɴᴀ :
It seems the anxious attachment’s feelings are always neglected and comes second..
2023-11-17 07:43:57
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brandonmac83
B-low :
U are so right
2023-04-16 01:10:02
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moustache_cashhhstache
moustache_cashhhstache :
Have you considered that maybe this specific partnership doesn’t work and will not be fair or effective whatever you do…
2023-04-15 19:50:32
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bekahboo782
Bekah :
We don’t have to sit in disregulation! Journaling all the crazy anxious thoughts helps a ton! We don’t need them to find our peace
2023-04-16 17:56:19
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evanreedy
evan reedy :
something else to consider is when you're attached, think of how often you push the boundary without thinking how it's affecting your partner at all.
2023-04-15 15:32:01
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naiajwhau8y
Sincerely :
😂😂😂😂its manipulation
2023-04-20 18:32:52
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fluffypunk23
G :
yeah.
2023-04-16 19:06:08
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blanche.deverheaux2u
suck_it_trebek :
Thank you, no one ever mentioned this and it made me feel like I was crazy
2023-04-18 03:03:54
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blynnriley
brat :
I think the compromise is asking the avoidant to give a timeframe.
2023-04-15 12:27:10
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greysgail
Grey :
It's helpful to agree on a time to revisit a topic, give reassurance to the anxious attacher, before giving space.
2023-04-16 16:35:03
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fairyhoek
Karissa Marie :
This! And honestly I will give time if I get a get I love you were chill I need this what can i do before I take space. And then they come back too
2023-04-18 03:26:20
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lilababy269
Lilababy :
YESSSS
2023-04-17 08:19:46
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themajestic717
The Majestic :
It’s not worth it. Hold out for someone with secure attachment
2023-04-15 15:12:15
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oct_libra1978
oct_libra1978 :
This
2023-04-16 21:41:41
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bobannyd
rich :
Why do anxious attachments always have to compensate and do things for the avoidant, but not vice versa. Its unfair
2023-04-15 16:19:40
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jfindsj
JFindsJ :
I see my mistakes now
2023-04-16 23:51:25
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reality.adjacent
Reality Adjacent :
AMEN!!
2023-04-14 21:45:20
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riddicks_crazy2_ride
riddicks_crazy2_ride :
FINALLY! Thank you for saying it!
2023-04-14 23:21:45
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nicoleoconnell849
nicoleoconnell849 :
really good point!
2023-04-22 16:50:56
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abzurion
Rio 💜 🌻 :
screams and sobs yeah lmao
2023-04-17 17:40:11
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user7632492417838
user7632492417838 :
Finally someone said it
2023-05-12 06:23:41
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nojanart
Nojan :
🏃🏽‍♂️💨 avoid the avoidant
2023-04-15 11:54:48
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