E.B. Johnson • Writer
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Saturday 15 April 2023 07:40:34 GMT
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Josie Moreau :
my favorite was telling my mum "your best was extremely psychologically damaging to me and I have to heal from that for the rest of my life"
2023-04-15 09:53:46
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Meagan✨🇺🇸🇵🇭💙✨ :
Once I realized the religious concept of forgiveness we’re taught is a tool to harbor abusive environments/power dynamics- it changed everything 😁
2023-04-15 10:21:22
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Lisabeth :
They were doing the best they could, for themselves.
2023-04-15 11:04:28
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B :
“You only get one mom” yeah and she only got one daughter and look how she treated me. cut off both my parents years ago
2023-04-15 15:49:31
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MadreMorticia :
Honestly, it can be more healing to NOT forgive. I don't owe anything something that would compromise my peace.
2023-04-15 09:32:16
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mykwalsh :
My mom said “if I sucked so badly how come you’re such a good person”
2023-04-15 15:42:52
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Itsamomathon :
Forgiveness comes after repentance & restitution. My parents haven’t apologized for a single thing or tried to heal anything, so forgiveness isn’t it
2023-04-15 14:52:38
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HeyItzButters :
I said to my therapist “I wasn’t beaten as a kid”. She said “Emotionally and mentally you were”. It floored me.
2023-04-15 13:30:41
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Chill :
That's why I can't tell anyone that isn't a survivor of the abuse. 100% of therapists & friends I've told said she did her best. forgive her.
2023-04-15 10:16:19
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notagirl :
Emotional abuse is no joke, and it frustrates me that people still don’t take it seriously
2023-04-15 16:48:57
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SurrealWrld :
Some people have no concept of the reality of others. A critical thought has never entered their head.
2023-04-15 09:32:35
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Ron Johnston :
I had gone back to a church that I went to in my teens. And all I found was ignorance of what abuse really is, and the horrid end it produces.
2023-04-15 14:33:14
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Hanginwithangie :
I mean why can’t they take accountability and work on themselves? Why is it that the person who was hurt has to do all the work?
2023-04-15 14:07:55
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TammieG :
I forgave for over 50 years and IT made me sick. I got angry about it and I started to heal. Anger = getting my power back!
2023-04-15 12:55:07
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Rachel3ish :
My fight, freight, freeze is so heightened and damaged I have seizures when I get too stressed out. This is hella real
2023-04-15 09:36:01
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Blossom :
I haven't talked to my mother in over a week and so far my husband has learned all about how greedy and disrespectful I am.
2023-04-15 09:26:06
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Brittany :
I went to visit my dad last Friday. My teeth and facial muscles are still sore from gritting my teeth so hard. I had no idea I was even doing it. 🥺
2023-04-15 12:13:01
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Mike Cabug :
My response to that random lady would be "well, did the parents ask for forflgiveness and own up to their faults?"
2023-04-15 22:15:11
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Sarahwithanh :
I can forgive the fact they had horrible childhoods and therapy wasn’t readily available as it is today. Them not realizing their cycles is on them.
2023-04-15 12:42:53
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mii 🍓 :
I had a narcissist grandmother and my mother is a victim. When I understood my grandmother and what narcissist means, I cried inside because +
2023-04-16 17:16:17
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Lee 🌲 :
I’ll forgive once they genuinely admit they caused harm and stop continuing to do it. Until then, I’m fine with holding my boundaries.
2023-04-15 13:15:41
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Preminger with pronouns :
His best was reserved for impressing strangers or people in our church. It was never given to us kids
2023-04-15 15:35:58
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Kassandrakomplex :
vergeben heißt nicht dss man sich versöhnen muss. Das geht auch heimlich, alleine ohne Kontakt. Es geht dabei nur um inneren Frieden.
2023-04-15 21:35:18
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xcron :
maybe we all do the best that we can. I say the same thing to myself because I am responsible for who I am today I don't need to blame them I need to
2023-04-15 08:29:37
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Mila :
Perdonar, olvidar y alejarse. Sin rencores, los rencores hacen daño a la salud, así que sí, perdonar es la clave
2023-04-16 15:42:04
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