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isa :
I’m sorry but.. the whole thing of anxious ppl have to adapt to the avoidant... instead of both ppl compromising to each other is so messed up.
2023-04-15 22:01:43
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gresaimeri :
So youre saying we should sacrifice everything we are for an avoidant to heal, hell nawwwwwwww hell nawwwwww
2023-04-16 06:58:06
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emjaye :
an avoidant I was dating once told me that she's a happy person & has no insecurity. they surely feel like there's nothing wrong w/ them
2023-04-16 13:18:34
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Shauni Grambino 🌎 :
Why are the needs and comfortability of the avoidant more important than those of an anxious?
2023-04-15 22:38:31
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Becca :
The funny thing about anxious people telling us to not date until we’re healed is they should take that advice too 😁 secure is the goal for everyone!
2023-04-15 23:36:47
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Geedeon :
avoidants are like cats.. they come to you when they want and keep away when you need em.. selfish if you ask me
2023-04-17 20:12:00
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Kelly W :
How can an avoidant possibly “heal in a relationship” when they run away 🏃♂️???
2023-04-16 04:15:27
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jonnycharming :
I was secure, and my avoidant ex turned me anxious lol
2023-04-30 15:40:39
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Casper Contreras :
It was mentally exhausting being patient and loving my avoidant but that’s really all they need. They’re like cats and anxious are like puppies.
2023-05-20 19:36:26
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Johan :
another point... the avoidant can have a long term relationship, but only w/someone who doesnt love or feel anything. but not w/someone who they care
2023-04-16 07:59:53
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Angela Conell :
self aware disorganized attachment here so I have phases of anxious attachment and phases of avoidant attachment. it's fun
2023-04-20 01:42:07
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GlassPanda :
You said avoidants heal in relationship, and most ppl here heard “you’re telling ME I need to STAY and sacrifice for them?”
2023-04-18 00:21:01
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❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 :
but I don't get it. how is that a bad thing.... shouldn't people just learn to be less clingy and more independent
2023-04-20 11:44:58
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Lily :
Dated an avoidant and it didn’t matter that I cried to him to make things work his soulless eyes said enough
2023-04-20 04:18:24
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user2354659507055 :
I’m not anxious. I had the misfortune to stumble on an “avoidant” who drove me crazy and broke my spirit probably for many years to come.
2023-04-15 23:02:27
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Karey Morris :
I left my avoidant. I miss him so much, but I just couldn't do it anymore. he is so far from self aware.
2023-04-16 04:10:21
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Kayla :
Sadly unless an avoident pushes past their anxieties and fears there is nothing you can do. my ex knew he was an avoident after our relationship and
2023-04-17 12:42:04
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rachel :
After the first “trap cycle” I learned how to self soothe and gave him space and a month later he’s been more open and vulnerable bc he feels safer
2023-04-16 22:48:50
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Sadie 🦋 :
Ur vids are both helpful/saddening bc even tho both anxious/avoidant are rooted in trauma.. the avoidant continues to traumatize the anxious..
2023-04-20 04:40:54
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gresaimeri :
To anyone who isnt an avoidanr, you arent too needy, u arent asking for too much, u arent crazy. Ur avoidant partner is not able to form an emotional
2023-04-16 06:51:43
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Bonte K :
If they don’t want to work om themself I suggest you leave because believe me, you’d rather chew on glass rather than endure the storm that’ll come
2023-04-17 21:47:05
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Sandra Stonfy :
I'm an avoidant and what you said mirrors me entirely. We are not evil. Just a slightly complicated, funny lot.
2023-04-16 08:59:13
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