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lauren.rae333
Lauren.rae333 :
The biggest thing that helped me as a mom, “they aren’t trying to give you a hard time, they are having a hard time.”
2023-04-17 10:32:04
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tanya_burns
Tanya Burns :
Because it’s easy for parents to call children “terrible” when in reality, parents are “terrible”
2023-04-17 14:57:53
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paigeeverly1
paigeeverly1 :
100% agree with you. We are taught parenting for newborns, but need to learn about their next stage.
2023-04-17 06:46:06
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amnscoach
amnscoach :
My biggest “ah ha” was realizing that my kids knew (cognitively) concepts that they couldn’t articulate: most tantrums were communication frustration
2023-04-17 06:08:34
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drunknachos
iZzz :
me, childless, ✍🏼✍🏼
2023-04-18 00:25:20
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trippd.out
tripped out :
kids don't know anything when they come here. you can not get mad at them bcuz they really don't know what were talking about
2023-04-17 07:16:45
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withluvsj
SJ :
I watched the whole video and I think patience is the number 1 thing kids need but most of us were raised without it…
2023-04-17 08:27:35
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slowdiv3
th ☁️ :
when i was a nanny the parents made me read that book on week one, i accidentally healed my inner child when applying those approaches on the baby! ❣️
2023-04-17 07:02:39
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des_uh_ree
its_des_uh_reeeee🧿 ♏️ :
I wish my neighbors would get this book... they have a terrible toddler and its totally their fault! they think its cute she doesn't behave 😏
2023-04-17 06:05:46
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nugzmama
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this. my realization lately is that just bc she’s learning all these new things doesn’t mean she’s on my brain’s level and that made me stop and -
2023-04-17 06:39:27
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crisssyhh
Crissy :
What helped me was to realize if me as an adult will not understand things being yelled at, my daughter won’t either.
2023-04-17 16:52:59
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mrsopaljade98
Myandi Flowers-Brasher :
My niece and nephew were never "terrible toddlers." They're both neurodivergent, but my sister insisted on full communication
2023-04-17 06:58:33
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mackenziemeaw
Mackenzie :
As a nanny who mainly works with toddlers, the terrible 2’s isn’t a thing— it’s their form of communication. Now the terrible 3’s…
2023-04-17 10:10:17
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kiefcrumbs
Fin :
I can see my toddler thinking after i tell her to do something i have to give her a minute after i ask then she’ll usually respond
2023-04-17 08:43:57
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mexicanmami7
N :
A lot of people forget they are tiny humans that need to be taught. They are honestly simple to raise.
2023-05-01 21:49:33
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huntybooboo89
Huntybooboo :
I’m gonna also add that I think a lot of the blame can be placed on the fact that we exist in a generally child unfriendly society! So parents feel..
2023-04-17 07:18:49
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lerdo0101
lerdo0101 :
a few suggestions: The gentle parenting book by Sarah Ockwell-Smith. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk.
2023-04-19 18:34:09
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rikkiroo123
Rikkiroo1008 :
I'm gonna keep this book in mind for my Brother and his wife, they are having a baby soon, so if they need it I can point them to it
2023-04-17 06:18:43
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anastacia.l.j
Anastacia :
The best thing I did for my daughter was explain everything. My mom was a “because I said so” mom & I didn’t want to be that.
2023-05-06 16:55:50
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saloondz
ThatDeagle :
We need to extend our compassion and empathy to children. We've been in their shoes before, they haven't been in ours.
2023-05-04 00:12:50
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chesneyrobbins
chesneyrobbins :
Me listening to this as if I’m a parent
2023-05-02 22:01:47
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saintavangeline
Saint Avangeline :
As a nanny, I’ve noticed it’s the terrible 4’s for these parents
2023-04-18 16:42:09
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kadyroxz
KadyRoxz :
As a former toddler, this is true!! Thank you for bringing this to public awareness!!
2023-05-12 05:54:57
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edschneebly
KAYAAAAA :
I think adults forget that toddlers are literally no thoughts head empty figuring out how to exist and use their body
2023-05-11 09:23:41
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