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ElderEmo :
My mom understood the assignment. I had to figure out my whole life on my own lol
2023-04-18 15:33:26
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GoldBerry ✨🫐 :
Speaking from experience, there’s a difference between letting kids solve problems vs abandoning them when they need help
2023-04-18 17:25:15
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Cara_de_rica :
I solve all my problem when I was a kid because I never have anyone to help me, but now I am struggling with Mental health because I am tired of this
2023-04-19 09:55:19
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TwoSnapsUp :
My parents did this so well I went no contact and I have a hard time accepting help from others.
2023-04-18 16:30:40
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Squirrels live here :
Don’t forget that you need to also support their decisions even if it’s not what you would choose 💜
2023-04-18 16:27:22
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Michelle :
As a teacher I always did this with my K students. “How might you solve this problem?” “What have you already tried?”
2023-04-18 17:51:38
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Janeen :
Why is this so hard to do? I struggle with this but I am trying to do better!! Great advice
2023-04-18 15:42:25
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Lady.D :
I agree; but now I am hyper independent, struggle to accept help from anyone and feel like i’m a burden if I do need to ask for things.
2023-04-19 15:30:38
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jam hime :
is it the same as abandoning kids? left nowhere and no support of any kind?
2023-04-19 00:22:17
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Natllely :
I wish I knew this with my first born. He can’t even close a bread bag. Doesn’t know how to use a rubberband.
2023-04-18 17:34:13
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Anonymous :
I disagree. I think children should have this but also learn how to work together and find help. You can’t do it all yourself.
2023-04-18 16:20:53
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Ani Assaf :
What would you recommend with highly sensitive toddlers?
2023-04-18 15:31:57
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Kristen :
Love this. Putting much of your info into practice in my practice as a PA in mental health ♥️
2023-04-18 17:47:25
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M M60683 :
As an only child my parents solved all my problems, I'm totally opposite with my child . She's a Genius and solves my problems now 😂
2023-04-18 22:10:48
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idiosyncratic53 :
100% parents do too much out of love
2023-04-19 11:43:35
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nancyQ :
but we always got to make them feel like we got their backs...because you don't want them to grow up insecure 😞....I'm mentally strong but lack the
2023-04-18 17:10:20
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MommyIsTired2.0 :
anytime my kids try to tattle on each other. I ask two questions. one did they hurt you physically? and two did they hurt your feelings? if they
2023-04-18 17:40:46
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Blue Waters :
What’s an example of a problem to help and not to help?
2023-04-19 10:43:24
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(⑉• ༝ •⑉)*:･。 :
I’ve always been a people pleaser & want to make sure people are okay & help. My baby is only 14 months & he hatesss when we help him. He gets more—
2023-04-19 02:40:41
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djoj_music_and_life :
An important side note: definitely let them solve problems on their own, but you CAN be at the sidelines so they're not alone in life itself. /1
2023-04-20 14:07:10
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Mabel ✍🏽🙊 :
But what about when they vent about being bullied and beg you not to do/say anything? How do they get the skills to stand up for themselves? 🥺
2023-04-18 15:53:35
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RhoadesToHappiness :
but it's so hard
2023-04-18 15:27:28
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Joanna Jojo657 :
so so true but unfortunately moms from 00s and after i think are raising kids full independent from them and i can see the reflection at works e.g
2023-04-19 04:37:09
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