@theholisticpsychologist: Unpredictable, chaotic, or unstable behavior in childhood on a regular basis impacts our ability to trust #selfhealers #trauma #childhoodtrauma #HealingJourney

Dr. Nicole LePera
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makeupxrachell
soulofthesun☀️✨ :
I’m that parent 😭😭😭😭 I always say sometimes plans don’t workout the way we want but we will try for another day
2023-04-21 08:39:18
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anya990
Anya :
My mom says “maybe” or “I’ll think about it” but never follows thru so I never ask her for anything.
2023-05-25 19:00:25
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realisricdreamer
Jane doe :
I’m guilty of that and my kids and I went to therapy. We’re a lot closer now because we discussed it.
2023-04-21 02:53:18
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neeon52
Neeon52 :
Definitely a victim of this. I've since forgiven myself and my family and try to make sure to follow through with everything for my son.
2023-04-22 13:22:04
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twinklelights7
🧚🏻✨ :
I hated when my parents made broken promises. Trust issues 101
2023-05-17 20:29:49
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dkwhat.to.put.here
♡︎ Nyah ♡︎ :
I’m that kid. Started with a microscope kit I got as a 3yo, it needed something to fix it so I asked my dad to help! He said “of course, just give me-
2024-01-30 08:02:24
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emily.eichler.21
Emily :
don't forget this makes us hyper independent and makes it hard to ask for help when we truly need it.
2023-04-24 01:25:24
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applebitch9
Mas :
Huh. So that's where that comes from
2023-04-29 16:44:26
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wildflowe8619
wildflower :
how can I prevent this when its my ex thats brings up coning to visit with her, for a fun phone call, and then doesn't come. in October it will be a year. now shes stopped communicating with him completely and I dont know what to do to help this situation.
2025-08-06 12:58:52
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nick_nackz
nick_nackz :
3 years, I begged for therapy for 3 years and I got it. this happened twice and the kicker? she is a therapist herself.
2023-04-21 03:33:36
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adrigotdoughh
Adrianna :
the fact i do this in my relationships
2023-04-26 13:29:37
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ladyblades30
Emily :
I’m responsible for my own algorithm. Clearly I need more therapy.
2023-05-16 18:46:55
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roterteufel11
Carina :
Omg, that’s why I always go for instant gratification. I don’t trust anyone (including myself) to get any kind of reward later.Cause I know i‘m a liar
2023-05-11 18:02:01
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laprietalinda0
LaPrieta Linda :
Every time
2023-04-21 04:01:34
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just__carm
just__CARM 🇵🇭 :
literally my parents, what it did to me is that I'll make promises too and I won't keep it
2023-05-31 04:11:47
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iam_k_n_s3
Iam_k_n_s3 :
😳😳😳 omg this is me😬😬😬.
2023-05-09 16:15:05
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catherinethompso417
Catherine :
Relatable
2023-04-23 22:01:10
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toongrrl1990
Toongrrl1990 :
Yes
2023-04-22 21:46:16
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notuser40132326603443
user40132326603443 :
omg not again!
2023-04-25 15:19:13
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zukkkkkkkkssssaaaasa
zo 🦋 :
Ahhhhhh with my father….definitely resonates esp with the partner aspect…I try to trust..I know I do…but I still don’t…
2023-05-31 21:07:28
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petitelackey
⋆ ⁺ ₊⋆ ☀︎☾ ⋆₊ ⁺ ⋆ :
My oldest brother did this, and my dad
2023-04-21 18:02:44
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strwb00ty
smnthpnlp :
Yep
2023-06-01 04:19:32
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_lunacat77
Emi :
My mother promised me so much. A wardrobe change as a kid, a chance to fly internationally or domestically, and more. Nothing. Instead she made me settle for less and then tried to make me take care of her without knowing she’d be gone the next day. I think she realized at the end of her life that not only would that mess up my life, but hers even further if it wasn’t already with her rapidly declining health. And this is why if I ever had a kid (which I’m not planning on ever), I would never ever promise something to their face and then lie or make them believe I never said that to them. Ever. Because I went through it for a long time and it messed me up. I’m not giving them that same experience or energy, or trust issues. They didn’t deserve that and neither did I.
2025-08-01 21:11:22
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majtic
eurunks :
I swear this is a lot of my ex's
2023-06-09 19:23:55
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mkria31
MK :
when my daddy would say he coming to get me 🙄
2023-06-16 14:57:47
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