@theholisticpsychologist: Unpredictable, chaotic, or unstable behavior in childhood on a regular basis impacts our ability to trust #selfhealers #trauma #childhoodtrauma #HealingJourney
I’m that parent 😭😭😭😭 I always say sometimes plans don’t workout the way we want but we will try for another day
2023-04-21 08:39:18
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Anya :
My mom says “maybe” or “I’ll think about it” but never follows thru so I never ask her for anything.
2023-05-25 19:00:25
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Jane doe :
I’m guilty of that and my kids and I went to therapy. We’re a lot closer now because we discussed it.
2023-04-21 02:53:18
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Neeon52 :
Definitely a victim of this. I've since forgiven myself and my family and try to make sure to follow through with everything for my son.
2023-04-22 13:22:04
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🧚🏻✨ :
I hated when my parents made broken promises. Trust issues 101
2023-05-17 20:29:49
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♡︎ Nyah ♡︎ :
I’m that kid. Started with a microscope kit I got as a 3yo, it needed something to fix it so I asked my dad to help! He said “of course, just give me-
2024-01-30 08:02:24
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Emily :
don't forget this makes us hyper independent and makes it hard to ask for help when we truly need it.
2023-04-24 01:25:24
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Mas :
Huh. So that's where that comes from
2023-04-29 16:44:26
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wildflower :
how can I prevent this when its my ex thats brings up coning to visit with her, for a fun phone call, and then doesn't come. in October it will be a year. now shes stopped communicating with him completely and I dont know what to do to help this situation.
2025-08-06 12:58:52
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nick_nackz :
3 years, I begged for therapy for 3 years and I got it. this happened twice and the kicker? she is a therapist herself.
2023-04-21 03:33:36
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Adrianna :
the fact i do this in my relationships
2023-04-26 13:29:37
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Emily :
I’m responsible for my own algorithm. Clearly I need more therapy.
2023-05-16 18:46:55
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Carina :
Omg, that’s why I always go for instant gratification. I don’t trust anyone (including myself) to get any kind of reward later.Cause I know i‘m a liar
2023-05-11 18:02:01
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LaPrieta Linda :
Every time
2023-04-21 04:01:34
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just__CARM 🇵🇭 :
literally my parents, what it did to me is that I'll make promises too and I won't keep it
2023-05-31 04:11:47
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Iam_k_n_s3 :
😳😳😳 omg this is me😬😬😬.
2023-05-09 16:15:05
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Catherine :
Relatable
2023-04-23 22:01:10
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Toongrrl1990 :
Yes
2023-04-22 21:46:16
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user40132326603443 :
omg not again!
2023-04-25 15:19:13
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zo 🦋 :
Ahhhhhh with my father….definitely resonates esp with the partner aspect…I try to trust..I know I do…but I still don’t…
2023-05-31 21:07:28
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⋆ ⁺ ₊⋆ ☀︎☾ ⋆₊ ⁺ ⋆ :
My oldest brother did this, and my dad
2023-04-21 18:02:44
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smnthpnlp :
Yep
2023-06-01 04:19:32
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Emi :
My mother promised me so much. A wardrobe change as a kid, a chance to fly internationally or domestically, and more. Nothing. Instead she made me settle for less and then tried to make me take care of her without knowing she’d be gone the next day. I think she realized at the end of her life that not only would that mess up my life, but hers even further if it wasn’t already with her rapidly declining health. And this is why if I ever had a kid (which I’m not planning on ever), I would never ever promise something to their face and then lie or make them believe I never said that to them. Ever. Because I went through it for a long time and it messed me up. I’m not giving them that same experience or energy, or trust issues. They didn’t deserve that and neither did I.
2025-08-01 21:11:22
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eurunks :
I swear this is a lot of my ex's
2023-06-09 19:23:55
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MK :
when my daddy would say he coming to get me 🙄
2023-06-16 14:57:47
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