@drewwdaniels: The foundation of High Quality Relationships as studied by Researchers John & Julie Gottman….from an interview with my good friend Taylors podcast! #relationshipscience #gottman #gottmaninstitute #relationshipadvice #relationshiptherapy
Drew Daniels
Region: US
Friday 21 April 2023 20:49:54 GMT
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J_funmia :
Yep, contempt and assuming negative intent is so detrimental 🥺
2023-04-21 21:39:25
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Schleepycat :
How do you manage the line between being a positive view holder VS gaslighting yourself?
2023-04-22 15:31:31
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NessD :
I’m so grateful for my partner pointing my idea of neg intent out and loving me through it.
2023-04-22 00:11:16
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smiletime86 :
A core understanding of how people relate to one another. Isn't that at the core of any conflict? The "realization" that the other person isn't who 1
2023-04-29 16:02:22
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Drew Daniels :
they would also say you can “repair” your view - which can help resolve conflicts without needing all this communication.
2023-04-21 20:50:59
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Payton Sartain Ross :
This is so important
2023-04-22 01:01:30
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Nourwerth :
But if you have a negative view of someone there’s usually a reason why. Changing your perspective isn’t going to change them.
2023-04-21 23:26:25
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happyhealthyher :
It’s called LIKING someone
2023-04-22 14:00:30
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Oceanbluejen :
Absolutely. Not only do you have to protect your relationship, you must BUILD VALUE continuously. Injuries happen. Build the value back or else…
2023-04-21 22:22:43
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stephaniemiller877 :
This is so true. My husband has a negative view of me and our relationship is pretty much over.
2023-04-22 01:10:23
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One of 8 Billion :
Perception is everything, can’t get around it.
2023-04-21 23:14:59
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tired :
100%! I had compassion for my partner and tried to understand. But he did that too. It takes 2 ppl to put in the work. You can only change yourself.
2023-04-22 02:10:13
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jcx :
agreed. always give ppl the benefit of the doubt when you lack all the facts and evidence
2023-04-22 01:26:56
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MDUH :
Yes! I always have such a recency bias with my husband. Where can I learn and read more about this?
2023-04-22 00:57:19
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CharlesMurphyIII :
that's a good one! The lens in which we view the world certainly impacts our behavior. Thank you for sharing
2023-04-21 23:27:48
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Goodbye :
I agree!
2023-04-22 00:04:29
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Evelyn Saxon :
so true your perspective of them quite literally creates the foundation
2023-04-22 13:53:51
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Brown :
I kind of love this
2023-04-22 21:25:14
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Destiny Wardwell :
But that CAN be solved with communication. Daily check ins.
2023-04-22 01:42:36
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Moibeal :
Not that exact thing happening to me
2023-04-22 02:18:28
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Mike Johnson :
Absolute fact
2023-04-23 19:13:23
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MICHELLE :
Man I needed to hear that.
2023-04-22 13:41:08
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only.here.flora.goodtime :
how do you get past that shit? 😳
2023-04-22 17:19:50
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TheyCallMeFrank5 :
Very interesting
2023-04-22 05:55:51
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MissMisha Mclean :
damn the first time I ever heard it like this..you explained that perfectly
2023-04-23 02:49:42
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