Dr. Nicole LePera
Region: US
Saturday 22 April 2023 18:16:07 GMT
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Sierra🖤 :
My mom gave me the silent treatment growing up. It was just her and I. My only person and she wouldn’t talk to me for days/wks🫠
2023-04-22 18:50:46
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Gina :
what about families with explosive fights and then no apologies, they just go back to normal like it never happened
2023-04-22 19:28:39
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Alee💤a (Taylor’s Version) :
It’s weird that I WANT THIS! I grew up where there was only shouting and screaming and arguing but in my messed up mind I kinda want smt without it
2023-04-22 18:54:18
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Jillian :
My mom likes to sweep everything under the rug we will get into an argument she will never say sorry but acted like nothing is wrong
2023-04-25 05:36:36
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Rachelle :
Living in this environment is so crazy making. Get support immediately if you grew up this way. Especially if you “took on” the unspoken feelings
2023-04-25 00:14:18
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᧔ෆ᧓ :
when couples say they haven't had an argument in all their 10-30+ years of marriage, this is what I think about.
2023-04-22 18:41:38
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amberee83 :
Ugh, yes. I am almost 40 and I completely avoid any conflict or stressful situation. I don’t know how to handle it. I hate this about myself.
2023-04-22 18:30:11
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PeachTheCat85 :
I shit down so I don’t scream like my parents. Then I end up blowing up over something that really bothers me and every Ty comes out.
2023-04-22 19:05:54
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tired.as.a.mother_ :
This is how my spouse grew up & now he’s avoidant. Except, he doesn’t go along w/what anyone says. He yells & runs.No accountability, no communication
2023-04-22 18:45:35
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Sometimes I Am This :
There was never any yelling or fighting in my house unless it was at me
2023-05-31 00:02:41
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Panda :
Could you please make one for those of us who have a disorganised attachment style?
2023-04-23 00:36:32
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SallyAnne :
This was my upbringing, very little yelling but big expectations. My in laws &husband are full of loud conflict and I find it really uncomfortable
2023-05-24 06:09:34
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Lindsay B :
My house growing up 🙋🏼♀️. I’m working through “How To Meet Yourself” right now and it has been BEYOND helpful! ❤️🎉
2023-04-22 18:33:49
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Val :
“Killing it with kindness” aka “sweeping it under the rug so the narc can play victim” doesn’t work ✍🏻
2023-04-23 00:38:11
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seanyconks :
how about when the person who tried to break the pattern overcorrects and starts to challenge everything? asking for me
2023-06-08 17:19:37
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scott⛽️ :
is it normal to feel anger because you grew up this way
2023-05-29 20:08:52
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Jessica :
This was my family as a kid and now I struggle daily with addressing concerns I have. I also have major abandonment issues
2023-04-22 18:52:46
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Prometheo567 🌱 :
damn who gave you permission to accurately represent my family? brilliant content as always. thank you
2023-04-25 09:18:00
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Jennifer :
And ladies and gentlemen this is why I married a narcissist anddd still can’t leave. Ughhhh 🥺😳
2023-04-29 02:28:21
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£lla :
omg tell me about it 🙄
2023-07-10 18:42:45
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BigFish :
How do you get past this? I’ve been with my wife for 12yrs and we have never had a disagreement cause I am terrified.
2024-05-26 18:39:11
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kayemsee :
I'm avoidant and don't use silent treatments. I don't feel conflict avoidance is that linear
2023-08-16 09:39:01
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honorguides :
I only live with my dad and he doesn’t understand at all that things need to be talked about. Drives me crazy
2023-07-24 01:26:46
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thefatdad93 :
ok.... so me and my wife grew up in 2 differently but just as abusive households. this is her mom. and now what she's doing. I don't know what to do
2023-05-16 14:25:43
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