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Selia :
Sometimes the Avoidants turn the secure into anxious due to the chaos they cause in the relationship.
2023-04-24 01:16:12
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akessi47 :
Whatever happened to the guy.
2026-09-06 12:31:04
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forputtssake :
May I ask: when avoidants need space and don’t make a lot of contact, how can you help me understand that’s not a reflection of how he feels about me?
2023-04-23 19:54:16
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JudyTheVet :
This was so enlightening! Inspires me to have more patience & understanding & to really work on my anxious attachment triggers & coping strategies!
2023-04-23 22:24:06
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Kayla :
honestly my avoident ex would put the blame on me all the time when he was in fact the issue
2023-04-24 00:08:19
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slowyourroll370 :
Yeah, No. I'm stable and dealt with avoidants. So tired of the BS. You're aware so there's hope. Most avoidants just steamroll along
2023-04-24 04:14:14
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labarint :
Hm, depends. A secure person may also decide the hot and cold isn’t what they want, and if so it’s not being anxious, it’s being self-loving.
2023-04-24 18:38:44
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Daniel :
Hey, I am the anxciois husband of an avoidant wife. I really find your insight helpful. I am on my way to become so stable as you described.
2023-04-23 22:59:38
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Naomi Zohar240 :
Are you Gemini or Virgo ?
2023-04-26 18:17:49
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Tokoah :
My bf moved in. Added to lease and everything. Two nights later, he left at 2am (all happy during this time) saying he didn’t feel at home.
2023-04-23 20:11:05
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Gianluca :
This video is therapy. 🙏
2023-04-23 22:45:23
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getmeahandle :
It sounds like you don’t run for too long and come back to process. Even if secure if the avoidant runs for weeks at a time it can’t be build on.
2023-04-23 23:33:02
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Gina The Too Much Woman™ :
you were ready to go this introspective work. i dont think this is a template for being in relationship with any avoidant
2023-04-27 01:04:48
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lindee :
you're lucky he puts up with this so that you can heal. I'm at my limit w my avoidant bf.
2023-05-11 17:45:10
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Ashley | Rocky Phoenix AI :
it was super hard learning i was secure bc my avoidant ex pushed me away and found the smallest things to blame me for. i didn't chase, just felt sad
2023-04-29 09:51:05
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user2585680940156 :
May I ask, is he the first secure you've dated?
2023-04-23 23:03:25
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mslisyung :
That being said, I believe you avoidants make us anxious attachers way more secure in knowing what we deserve.
2023-06-23 15:09:53
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amyfruit :
Why don’t avoidants reach out if they miss you?
2023-04-23 20:19:23
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soopergiraffe73 :
Oh man, this was the most helpful video of yours that I've watched so far. I'm a healing anxious with a healing avoidant. I've made a LOT of progress
2023-05-30 00:49:03
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Lizzie Cooper :
Can two avoidants ever work? I’m in a long term “situationship” where we act like a couple but refuse to label it. Every time we get closer one of us
2023-04-24 20:37:38
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angelaaa2642 :
I dealt with avoidants and the only thing I could react to their pull away … was me also Pulling away.The Problem is They Never came back and whenever
2023-04-24 14:37:57
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Anabanana🍌 :
My ex always walking away not multiple times.I just decided to move forward.He can't handle he's own issues.
2023-04-24 00:25:39
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Qu Elly :
I'd say the person needs to be both secure and emotionally intelligent to make it work with a fearful-avoidant. It sounds like your partner is both.
2023-05-02 22:29:49
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Stefanie :
How do you prefer for your partner to respond when you return after taking space? Do they wait for you to come back into their space or do they —
2023-04-24 11:33:40
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Meg Clark :
I love my avoidant partner. We have been together 3 years. I was so anxious initially but have turned to my more secure side now give him space needed
2023-05-06 03:03:04
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