@natashavctoria: The good ol’ phantom ex #fyp #foryou #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #avoidantattachment #avoidant #consciousmind #relationshipadvice #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #conscious

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azza_dmc
A. McDee :
Avoidants who don’t do the inner work actually just create more avoidants.
2023-04-26 22:48:29
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bethgeiser
Beth Geiser :
You should just end it with an avoidant. They'll never change and will wreck your life
2023-04-26 22:15:12
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efestardust
efe :
Just got out from a situationship with an avoidant, i never got tired this much in my life
2023-04-26 13:45:28
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lovecraftsothercat
Lovecrafts Other Cat :
Married an avoidant, it made me avoidant. If you value your sanity…don’t do it
2023-05-25 17:01:07
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dill.ii.run
dill.ii.run :
Yeah that shit is trash. Completely selfish and it’s a reason why anxious is the only one that would put up with it
2023-04-25 21:50:34
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tatted_girldad
Brian :
So glad I found your content. I’d love to do a live with you on attachments?
2023-04-25 21:59:10
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m.mac97
Maggie :
I’ve had the experience where I will push away for space but then I have this constant anxiety that they will reach out to me before I’m ready,
2023-04-25 21:32:03
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emily.3824
emily :
We moved in together and obviously had our first argument/ disagreement and basically he ran from working through it and broke it off
2023-04-25 22:38:13
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caseysquirrels
CaseySquirrels :
together 6+years and he ended things 2 months ago super abruptly to "work on himself"... I can't tell if he's going to come back or not. Miss him tho.
2023-04-25 23:00:22
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j_naaxv
Jena :
My ex broke up with me and is avoidant. It’s been two months my belongings are still there but he refuses to sit and talk. He said he lost the spark
2023-04-26 08:15:52
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luckielaura
user2585680940156 :
if an avoidant begins to recognize the pattern and wants to do something about it - what's the best way? what's the first step?
2023-04-25 21:57:07
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beerstonia
Beerstonia :
Exhausting. Love your end advice.
2023-05-02 15:07:37
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clairem_90213
Claire🇨🇦📚 :
Yup. Been sitting in my discomfort of being vulnerable and not running cause he’s a keeper and it’s so hard but I know it’ll get easier eventually
2023-04-25 21:19:27
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eerxcsdrt
Eemtgf :
Isn’t this just narcissistic personality disorder? Idealise, devalue, discard, repeat
2023-06-14 22:00:38
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annes_09
anneS :
I am anxious attached and I am also scared to open up and be vulnarable but I will do anything to be in contact with my avoidant partner
2023-05-03 09:30:09
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g543212345
1 :
The pressure to be vulnerable and open up is too triggering for them…. Sounds like dating is not the right option for the avoidant.
2023-04-27 13:45:49
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heavyonkim
Kimberly Brown :
So how do we get past this ?
2023-04-25 21:37:59
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nataliecrowley99
natalie 🌈 :
this is still emotionally abusive and traumatizing for the partner though
2023-05-14 22:11:58
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alltheprettymushrooms
Sharon Porter 🍄🇨🇦 :
I feel so called out right now lol
2023-04-25 21:56:39
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_undomiel
Manders :
I’m both nervous to, but secretly hoping to, become the phantom ex to my fearful avoidant ex who suddenly deactivated from a really special (1)
2023-04-26 16:42:36
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matthewjohnson187
Matthew Johnson :
I love her so much but she is an avoidant! I will never give up on her! I am giving her time even though we talk. What do I do?
2023-04-27 23:23:52
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princess_peach_strong
Kayla :
my ex is a fearful avoident and broke up with me then a week later confessed he loved me then he ran again becuae he got vulnerable wityh his feelings
2023-04-26 01:04:18
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kaelasantosh
🎶 Kaela Santosh Music 🎶 :
so when I mirror his behaviour.. why does he get so upset x
2023-04-26 21:05:54
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carol.zahm
Carrot 🥕 :
Thank you for these videos, my husband is mildly avoidant. Mostly stable but feels uncomfortable with vulnerability and when things get too vulnerable
2023-04-25 21:27:53
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