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MandyPandy :
When I would say I need to walk away from this argument he would block me in and tell me I’m “running” away and that I can’t face anything
2023-05-01 20:13:57
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caitlinmcgra :
Omg. I feel like we dated the same man Every single video you post I’m like YUPPPPP
2023-04-26 02:40:21
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brittforst :
The danger of them learning the lingo
2023-04-26 19:27:20
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Ruby :
h9nestly the only downside of having these conversations publicly is that abusers take the language and try to use it against us.
2023-04-26 17:11:41
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Little Bit :
what did your boundaries sound like?
2023-04-26 12:13:55
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Erin :
This guy is especially horrible bc he took the time to learn the language of relationship psychology and twisted it against you.
2023-04-26 11:45:39
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user247647 :
Projection!! Mine would paint me as a person I’ve never been because of my morals. They blame shift and paint us out to be what they are. Smdh sick!!
2023-04-26 17:55:11
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Jes 🌙 :
Oh I've heard that one before "I don't like who you've become."
2024-08-15 06:54:58
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Jes 🌙 :
I feel like this is happening to me right now. They're trying to convince me that I'm the abuser.
2024-08-15 06:52:52
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Daniela Hansen :
i have often to hear this question: "did you get some anywhere else? " 🙄 maybe I should since his implying it
2024-10-02 11:36:23
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Sara Basgier Bolling :
love how these men know all the terms & how relationships work yet only weaponize it to blame us for their bad behavior!
2025-01-15 12:47:31
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lilabean07 :
The reactive abuse is the hardest part. It goes against our entire core but we had to in order to survive.
2023-04-26 04:38:11
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Do over :
I just read the book Why does he do that? Wow it was an eye opener. Abusers don’t get better with marriage counseling or one on one therapy.
2023-04-26 05:59:59
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Pandasthma :
please keep sharing these. They're helping me recognize the abuse I've experienced.
2023-04-26 09:12:51
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Queef :
I went to therapy because I thought I was abusive… 😳
2023-04-26 07:09:07
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Jiminshi :
Wow, my husband exactly. We are separated and I’m taking my power back
2023-04-26 06:34:57
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Weezer VanTrout :
when I took my power back and told him no more SA on my body, he filed for divorce. may we all be healed 🤟✌️💜🖖
2023-04-26 15:46:20
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Talia :
...I have misunderstood 100% of the things my husband has said because I am not supposed to read his body language or take what he said at face value
2023-04-27 01:13:50
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shhhh :
Can you talk about your experience with “ blame language”? It’s driving me crazy in my relationship and he says it’s my problem that I feel blamed
2023-05-04 17:44:02
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Marie :
I got told that my personality had changed...yes, I set boundaries that he didn't like.
2023-04-26 03:33:25
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sillybluesasha :
This is a perfect illustration of how it goes! If you love someone and want the best for him/the relationship, then you assume best intentions.
2023-04-26 10:49:29
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cupidellalucy :
I got a lot of "I didn't say that" or "I didn't mean it that way ". so infuriating
2023-04-26 13:37:48
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Mimi :
I lived this. All of this. I filed for divorce yesterday and I’m never looking back.
2023-04-26 22:39:22
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Jennifer Luke :
The head fuck is real
2023-04-26 11:44:37
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user2184309630744 :
I’m sorry for you going through that. I did too. He had me really questioning if I was a monster. But everyone close to me affirmed I wasn’t.
2023-04-26 03:23:11
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Lindsay Wilson :
Them claiming we’re withholding it as punishment, only means they’re projecting and believe in withholding it from us as punishment.
2023-04-26 12:09:18
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TheAquariusExperience ✨🩵✨ :
Narcissists project. What they tell you you’re doing is actually a confession from them. Whatever they say you do, they’re doing.
2023-04-26 16:03:09
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Cyndy :
I totally experienced same thing -30 years of a toxic marriage
2023-04-26 05:15:51
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user3714875114567 :
going through this and it's so frustrating 🥺
2023-04-26 03:16:57
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Mikayla :
I set and enforced boundaries and my hub complained that the power dynamic in our marriage had become imbalanced. 😂
2023-04-26 12:14:58
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A S H L E I G H🌻🩷 :
This is what im going through rn
2023-04-26 03:12:44
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N.Summer :
For me also, it’s the mindfuck how people can do that to you that you care about that was the hardest thing for me
2023-04-26 13:05:02
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Briana :
How did we all date the same guy? oof
2023-04-26 11:39:32
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RougeMore :
its wild to hear these reports on men. my ex husband did the same. by the end of it all, I was healing and he hated it.😅
2023-04-26 10:18:56
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Joanne Morgan :
you have just described my 25 year marraige to a T. countless narraige counsellors who really did not get the concept of reactive abuse (1)
2023-04-26 11:07:15
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Jamie Tyree :
My biggest saving grace, not just for my divorce but for my own mental health was a stack of boxes containing journals I kept throughout our marriage
2023-04-26 23:27:38
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Tricia Lynn :
“I took back my power, and you felt powerless and you didn’t like it”Mic drop!!
2023-04-27 23:36:28
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Moonlight Siren :
Im so glad i found your account. This all sounds like my life. Im finally leaving but the mindf*ck that ive been through is wild..
2023-04-26 14:14:03
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Fribabe17 :
this. all of this.
2023-04-26 02:51:48
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Kali :
This describes my life w/ my ex to a T. Right down to molesting me at night and punishing me for not liking it.
2023-04-26 12:04:03
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Killersagekitty :
he cornered me, naked in our hotel room, spraying me in the face with deodorant so I couldn't see or breathe. so I shoved him away.
2023-04-26 03:15:16
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C :
This!!! My experience as well. The newest allegation: parental alienation because I don't allow him to talk divorce details with the kids.
2023-04-26 10:17:15
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Ginger_snap :
they allllll follow the same exact script
2023-04-26 10:24:14
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Kayla Gruebele :
once I set boundaries he became a completely different person
2023-04-27 15:41:26
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NocensDomina :
I was coercive when I was too exhausted to be intimate and I needed help with the house. And made him fat bc that was the only way he wouldn't cheat.
2023-04-26 03:18:43
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🖤💙💜itjustdawnedonme💚🩵💙 :
thank you for sharing your experience. mine often used the tools from marriage counseling as weapons.
2023-04-26 14:47:03
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Kat79 :
🥺so similar. And when I started therapy without him, he said he didn’t like her cause I was becoming “too emboldened.” He tried to drag me before -
2023-04-26 11:13:41
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mindchanging22 :
The amount of stuff that I have googled over the years to try to "do better" is incredible
2023-04-26 14:25:52
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The Yummy Bird :
My ex really tried to convince me I was the lazy one. When he was the one no going to our business.
2023-04-26 03:32:42
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Do over :
There is nothing worse than an abuser who has been to therapy. They just use the terminology to turn things around and abuse you further.
2023-04-26 05:53:57
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Allison Kelly :
same here! crazy how they make you feel like you are the problem!
2023-04-26 03:04:51
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Jax Jeff :
My ex said, "I'm sick of this, 'I am woman hear me roar' shit. Your friends are changing you and I don't like it".
2023-05-04 23:10:53
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