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kirsty-may :
Keep them guessing, never let them know your next move! You so suit every style by the way 🥰🥰🥰
2023-05-03 13:52:45
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Kit :
Yalls house is so pretty 😭😭😭
2023-05-04 03:06:33
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Ross850 :
Like a box of chocolates.
2023-05-03 15:25:12
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Ryane Jarvo :
I mean same, it's more fun tbh
2023-05-03 14:32:20
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How?! Do you eat??
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There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from always being the strong one. The person people call when their world is falling apart. The one who listens. Who stays up late to comfort others. Who finds the right words when someone else is breaking. Who always seems to know what to do. And maybe that’s why nobody notices when that person starts drowning. Because everyone is so used to seeing them save others that they forget they might need saving too. You become a shelter for everyone around you. A place where people leave their fears, their pain, their worries. And you carry it all willingly. Because you care. Because seeing someone suffer hurts you. Because helping people makes you feel useful. Necessary. Important. But there comes a point when you realize something painful. You know how to comfort everyone except yourself. You know exactly what to say when someone feels worthless, yet those words never work on you. You know how to encourage others to keep going, yet every morning feels like a battle when it’s your turn. You know how to be patient with everyone else’s wounds, while being merciless toward your own. And that’s a lonely feeling. Watching people heal from advice you cannot follow yourself. Watching others find peace while your own mind remains restless. Sometimes you wish someone would notice. Not the version of you that smiles. Not the version that says, “I’m okay.” The real version. The tired one. The one quietly falling apart behind closed doors. But people rarely do. Not because they don’t care. Because you’ve become too good at hiding it. Too good at carrying everything alone. You taught everyone that you’re strong. And now they believe you. Maybe that’s the cruel irony of being the person who helps everyone. The more dependable you become, the less anyone asks whether you’re struggling too. They see your kindness. Your patience. Your support. But they don’t see the cost. The sleepless nights. The emotional exhaustion. The way you neglect yourself while trying to save everyone else. And eventually you begin wondering why you can see pain in everyone except yourself. Why it’s easier to offer compassion than receive it. Why you’re willing to forgive everyone else’s flaws while constantly fighting your own. Perhaps the answer is simple. Helping others gives you a sense of control. Their problems have solutions. Their pain can be soothed. Their wounds can be tended to. Your own are harder. Because they’re familiar. Because you’ve been carrying them for so long that they feel like part of you. But even the strongest people are not meant to carry everything alone. Even the people who save others need someone who asks, “And how are you, really?” Someone who stays. Someone who listens. Someone who cares for them with the same tenderness they give so freely to everyone else. Because eventually you learn that being a lifeboat for others means nothing if you’re quietly sinking yourself. And sometimes the hardest person to help is the one staring back at you in the mirror.
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from always being the strong one. The person people call when their world is falling apart. The one who listens. Who stays up late to comfort others. Who finds the right words when someone else is breaking. Who always seems to know what to do. And maybe that’s why nobody notices when that person starts drowning. Because everyone is so used to seeing them save others that they forget they might need saving too. You become a shelter for everyone around you. A place where people leave their fears, their pain, their worries. And you carry it all willingly. Because you care. Because seeing someone suffer hurts you. Because helping people makes you feel useful. Necessary. Important. But there comes a point when you realize something painful. You know how to comfort everyone except yourself. You know exactly what to say when someone feels worthless, yet those words never work on you. You know how to encourage others to keep going, yet every morning feels like a battle when it’s your turn. You know how to be patient with everyone else’s wounds, while being merciless toward your own. And that’s a lonely feeling. Watching people heal from advice you cannot follow yourself. Watching others find peace while your own mind remains restless. Sometimes you wish someone would notice. Not the version of you that smiles. Not the version that says, “I’m okay.” The real version. The tired one. The one quietly falling apart behind closed doors. But people rarely do. Not because they don’t care. Because you’ve become too good at hiding it. Too good at carrying everything alone. You taught everyone that you’re strong. And now they believe you. Maybe that’s the cruel irony of being the person who helps everyone. The more dependable you become, the less anyone asks whether you’re struggling too. They see your kindness. Your patience. Your support. But they don’t see the cost. The sleepless nights. The emotional exhaustion. The way you neglect yourself while trying to save everyone else. And eventually you begin wondering why you can see pain in everyone except yourself. Why it’s easier to offer compassion than receive it. Why you’re willing to forgive everyone else’s flaws while constantly fighting your own. Perhaps the answer is simple. Helping others gives you a sense of control. Their problems have solutions. Their pain can be soothed. Their wounds can be tended to. Your own are harder. Because they’re familiar. Because you’ve been carrying them for so long that they feel like part of you. But even the strongest people are not meant to carry everything alone. Even the people who save others need someone who asks, “And how are you, really?” Someone who stays. Someone who listens. Someone who cares for them with the same tenderness they give so freely to everyone else. Because eventually you learn that being a lifeboat for others means nothing if you’re quietly sinking yourself. And sometimes the hardest person to help is the one staring back at you in the mirror.

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