@drnicolerawls: #stitch with @ALPHANSO | Pop Culture to be clear - I don’t agree with Iyanla (at all) AND her question really makes no sense unless you are stuck in a rigid understanding of gender which then influences how you see those genders engaging in romantic relationships. And that lens limits ones ability to be a life long teacher as you stop being a life long student. Plus its such a BORING question, especially right now with everything going on socio-politically and Economically. #knowledgewithoutborders #relationships #iyanlavanzant #teaching #growth #thoughts #blackwomen #blackmen #blackqueer #abolition

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zeekdocs
Zeek Seek :
I’m confused isn’t it an anti classist conclusion to challenge dating or marrying based on profession? I agree with iyanla
2023-05-03 16:20:48
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esejagunjagun
Jagunjagun :
Completely ignoring that some men who make less have feelings rooted in patriarchy that may hinder a healthy relationshi with a woman that makes more
2023-05-03 16:10:03
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pragmagix
þrågmågïx :
Love this. No one’s ideology is perfect. It’s our job to have the discernment about what info a person is good for, and where their blind spots are
2023-05-04 01:27:45
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foresteugene
Forest Eugene :
Yeah, it felt very antiquated to me. Like, something I would’ve heard her say on Oprah on a panel w/ Terry McMillian.
2023-05-03 16:10:09
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ms.anne.throwp
Not One Of Your Little Friends :
I feel like she's from the struggle love generation. you're right, times have changed and she has t necessarily caught up with that
2023-05-03 16:28:52
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blackqueenla
BlackqueenLA :
Makes perfect sense! Thanks for putting eloquent words to my thoughts 🥰🥰🥰
2023-05-03 15:44:41
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moonpie730
Moonriver :
The question was so internet troll, podcast bro coded. Definitely expected more out of Iyanla’s questions and interviewing style
2023-05-04 02:46:01
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fujoheaux
Fujoheaux :
Iyanla that aunty that I just pick and choose what to listen to 💀
2023-05-04 03:14:47
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tinacrawley55
Tina Crawley55 :
I like how you put this together. I understand. I think Iyanla is stuck in 1960 savings the black man mindset.
2023-05-03 19:13:26
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butterbrownbiscuit
ButterBrownBiscuit :
She’s definitely stuck in time
2023-05-03 20:00:19
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ashesfalldown0
AshesFallDown :
A lot of her stuff doesn't sit right with me.
2023-05-03 16:24:41
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kklaughs
kklaughs :
Lord a mercy. Eboni probably wants someone she can be evenly yoked to. had nothing to do with $, class or profession persay.
2023-05-03 20:21:44
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3rdrocknative
Lexilu :
I heard her on the morning show with Charlemagne and what she said just icked me
2023-05-03 15:51:15
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boo71921
boo :
I also think she thinks we are dealing the men she and her generation dealt with
2023-05-04 13:13:08
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marlyblinktwice
Marz :
Makes perfect sense.
2023-05-03 20:48:29
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rakdaruler
rakdaruler :
I felt like neither woman was talking to a 23yr woman. Too many people with money are dictating the conversation about relationships. It skews
2023-05-04 01:01:06
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dfrom09
D from 09 :
so it is no on the bus driver
2023-05-03 23:47:38
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leogoddess827
A Real One ♌️ :
Yes. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2023-05-03 20:47:09
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geespanu
G's Panu :
Eboni doubled down! She spoke for herself!
2023-05-03 23:32:02
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koko_naki
Koko_Naki ♌️ :
It's not generational, it's conditioning and a mentality. There are older women who would not agree with Iyanna, but will agree with Eboni.
2023-05-04 16:12:50
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lol33yu
You :
Everyone wants to be queen and king but everyone not a queen and king
2023-05-03 20:45:07
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afro_buddha
Afro_buddha :
as an African on the best of the men species get the girl ...never lower your standard
2023-05-04 15:10:14
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stephaniesmith686
stephanie smith445 :
So, long story short, She needs to pass the torch 😳
2023-05-04 06:55:19
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poppinwheelies
user3589665296106 :
There’s nothing new under the sun. The only difference is this is the age of the concubine and the concubines have center stage.🤷‍♂️
2023-05-04 16:53:57
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rlchristo
rlchristo :
Wisdom doesn’t grow old. Never been good to choose a partner based on his financial and social position. At bottom it’s just materialistic.
2023-05-03 20:43:18
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