@hayleyrawle: Deleted because I felt like I was being dramatic, but the drama still stands so we’re back #genderrolessuck #genderroles #utahmoms #deconstructingchristianity
“we could ask them to do it but it’s also labor” !!!! YES THIS it’s so frustrating to describe all the layers of it
2023-05-11 15:45:16
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Hadley :
I’m always told to “just ask” but no one asks me to do it, I just know to DO IT! it is so beyond frustrating I get upset about this stuff too 🥺.
2023-05-11 20:21:45
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Terrell L Levon :
Crazy that some stay at home mothers leave when they FEEL the division of responsibilities is so huge that they don't see their men working hard asl.
2023-06-06 12:47:21
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Madlex :
My husband asked me what we are getting his mom for her birthday... dude it's your mom! Men do better! I don't understand why we have to teach them.
2023-05-11 18:31:26
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Jenna Tracy550 :
We’re conditioned to think this is “drama” but it’s really a valid feeling
2023-05-12 00:55:04
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Erica Russell :
But they plan a whole hunting or fishing trip 😑
2023-05-12 13:48:13
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kristinaadamscoaching :
Read or listen to the book Fair Play. I’m in the middle of it now and it breaks alllll of this down and has a card game to play at the end.
2023-05-11 20:12:59
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Vanessa 🦋 :
Your feelings are valid! I understand the frustration! Gender roles are so tough to break🫠
2023-05-11 04:39:43
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BeautifallDisaster :
Fortunately, I grew up with a father who helped my mother will absolutely ALL of these things and he’s still this way. I have never heard him complain once.❤️
2025-04-06 05:44:26
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itsmaddiemckay :
My mom got a hip replacement. I cooked thanksgiving dinner. My dad did not lift a finger.
2023-05-11 18:57:17
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jaimie🥑 :
Yep. Oldest daughter but second child and nothing gets done unless I initiate it.
2023-05-11 17:47:21
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💙💛 :
i love my dad but he always tries to give out marriage advice yet the reason i married my husband was because he wasn’t anything like my dad.
2023-05-11 21:10:30
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Colette :
Plan a nice spa day and dinner for you, your mom and sister and DONT INVITE THE MEN. Don’t put effort into a meal for them on YOUR DAY
2023-05-11 21:29:32
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Radshok24 :
Yup, exactly what I’ve been trying to get my husband to understand. HE should be the one contacting HIS mom about Mother’s Day plans… not me!
2023-05-11 21:50:41
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Paula :
felt. we are so tired
2023-05-11 18:29:02
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Cyd :
My dad asks me what I should get my mom for her b-day, Christmas, & Mother’s Day…BRO THATS YOUR WIFE
2023-05-12 00:20:57
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yourgirlirl :
When you said their excuse I was automatically like “oh yeah that’s a valid reason” when I know damn well I would go out of my way no matter what
2023-05-11 18:47:25
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Personal lookbook :
Most women in my life that are still with men say “I think he’s trying” “he’s trying”…I think…me included.
2023-05-11 18:55:28
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asaenz23 :
I feel this. Having to ask or direct them is so energy depleting. Like please pay attention, be thoughtful, anticipate needs, learn! Be a grown up.
2023-05-11 20:58:35
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Lauren Huber || OKC REALTOR® :
As the only daughter in the house… having to plan what we’re getting my mom is laid upon me like what
2023-05-11 20:33:48
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ophelia 🦋 :
We are all agreeing with you honey 💚your feelings are valid.
2023-05-15 02:25:56
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cortney :
I was just talking to my bffs about this. We’re in a transition generation where men ARE doing more than their dads, but it’s not enough. Period.
2023-05-12 01:58:36
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Morgan :
Nah this is so valid. Thank you for being the vulnerable one who will say it 👏🏻
2023-05-11 19:13:00
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SeasickBinch :
I feel like it’s extra bad in Utah - it’s very patriarchal around here. Marrying another woman was the best thing I ever did - no more imbalance 🥰
2023-05-11 19:12:01
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