The Real Joe Kort, PhD
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jamiebeers995 :
well since I drank a little to much the other night and let all my feels out, I told him how I felt and then this morning I find myself apologizing
2023-05-11 15:45:18
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Kelly 🔮☪️ :
I feel this way but dont apologize because I feel like I've been manipulated and that's exactly what he wants is me to feel sorry for my reaction..
2023-05-13 18:07:45
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Phe0niX23 :
I have been reassured by a friend and psychologist. I still question and judge my reactions. 😓
2023-05-19 14:24:57
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Dana Cobb :
so true. thank you for your insight and the time you spend to inform others 🙏.
2023-05-12 00:34:16
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Honeybadger010 :
2 yrs later I’m still looking for reasons I’m the narcissist. I’ve found bad traits of myself in that journey but you’re right.
2023-05-22 12:47:01
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Voodoo11Doll :
Boy did I needed this today
2023-05-13 15:46:07
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knyght :
So important to hear this. Thank you.
2023-05-13 13:44:38
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Mockingbirds :
All of the sudden every tik tok I’m seeing is about narcissists. 😳
2023-05-14 16:04:00
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user102991093010 :
I literally always apologise and he never! When I say how come he never apologises he turns around and tells me to stop apologising then :)
2023-06-12 12:45:58
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PittieMimi :
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
2023-05-18 16:22:48
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Laine :
I care so much about “what I did to him” so I guess I have my answer…he really doesn’t seem to care about mine if anything thinks I deserve it
2023-10-09 14:11:26
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CLynn003 :
I would actually apologize to him because of how I was treating him when I became distant and short. I felt bad. But it was a normal reaction to his
2023-05-15 16:13:42
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Christa Garnett-Boyd :
Omg/ I literally have been feeling so confused and Even questioned if I was the problem. But I end up apologizing for my feelings so often.
2023-05-23 21:38:32
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Carolina :
Thank you for this. I still go through my day wondering if it was me. So many times I apologize for the reactive behavior & worked on being better -
2023-06-26 13:35:07
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Lalajul :
Mine has convinced their monkeys that I’m the narcissist after my reactive response so the family is greyrocking ME. I feel crazy.
2023-05-16 12:49:05
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LauraG :
When you match their energy they lose their mind. You have to give more. You have to be responsible.
2023-05-24 02:16:06
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T 🐒 :
I have a screen recording of me apologizing 27 times for nothing 🙃
2023-06-10 22:45:48
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Ashley :
Am I a narcissist if I’m not sorry? They lied repeatedly and triangulated, so I went off and I won’t apologize or call it mutual. Honest question.
2023-05-12 22:19:50
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truth.in.jest :
me. I went to therapy because I thought it was me.
2023-05-13 17:10:40
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joaquimpinto79 :
have you done therapy to a narcissist? if yes, how do they behave when being "labeled" as such? Do they agree to improve?
2023-05-11 22:44:27
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Kyra :
I always felt like I was the problems. I would bring something up and he would just deny any responsibility
2023-05-19 10:56:47
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Taylor ❤️ :
Oooooo……….. I always go apologize to him first because of my deep guilt…….. thank you so much!!!!!!!! I’m saving this ❤️❤️
2023-05-17 20:18:54
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WATER_BEARER75 :
Yes💯💯💯💯
2023-05-11 21:34:50
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jlh3 :
Thank you for this so much. I had the same worry. Great explanation.
2023-05-15 17:51:52
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M A Y A H :
Definitely needed to see this!
2023-05-15 16:10:10
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💓Pug-zthepug :
Thanks!! 😌
2023-05-15 16:52:51
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hammerinhank64 :
Exactly correct!
2023-05-15 15:49:42
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Ahohuasca :
I did have a reactive response and retracted it before I sent it because I knew what it would lead to
2023-05-15 20:17:16
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Hiking At Heart :
Compounded by the actual narc in the relationship constantly telling you/others it’s you that’s selfish/self consumed, or even calling you narc.
2023-05-15 14:57:19
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Jarika :
I was always the one apologizing during any reactive abuse situations but not once did he apologize.
2023-05-16 23:46:27
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Tammy Fisher Green :
after decades with a narcissist , I feel I did pick up some traits. but I also know I've apologized for his crap to others
2023-05-18 13:47:26
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HumanApprentice :
Are the behaviors of a narcissist & someone with Avoidant Attachment style similar?
2023-05-18 14:38:41
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la.guera.musiquera :
omg...🥺 omg! 😳
2023-05-18 23:12:25
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James Allen Mckee :
I have been going through this to the point it's ended an I am the bad guy for my reaction an claims that because of my reaction that she has changed
2023-05-14 03:26:16
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Jen :
Thank you for this! I worry about this often. But I don’t have to express that concern to the narc, right? Better to stay silent about those feelings?
2023-05-19 12:35:32
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luvtherams :
I have been the scapegoat all my 65 years & I blew my top a few months ago & now I feel like shit for what I said 💔💔 I’m sorry for sure but I lost
2023-05-19 14:24:52
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Tonya Young :
Felt bad because I scratched his face up after him screaming in my face, calling me terrible names. His reaction, " you pissed me off. "
2023-05-13 19:56:40
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Joy Clark :
So true!!!!
2023-05-20 04:35:04
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Jan444 :
what trauma creates a narcissist
2023-05-20 07:07:02
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thealbinogorilla0331 :
According to a MayoClinic article released this year there’s approximately 200,000 cases per year. Everyone’s ex is a narcissist?
2023-05-20 11:18:39
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taleof2tails :
I don’t feel like that anymore. They deserve it. Period.
2023-05-13 00:19:12
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Larry Lozano243 :
thanks for clearing that up for us 😁
2023-05-12 15:54:59
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C :
Being villainized by them is paralyzing. I can have the proof right there that they did wrong and I can say it to ppl but deep down I blame myself
2023-05-12 04:16:33
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Bea 🇵🇸 :
I just feel so stupid for not realizing it earlier. He doesnt care for me at all and im still so worried for him
2023-06-06 14:30:02
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bts.esquire :
Thank you
2023-05-12 01:25:08
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Dana Cassell :
What about the kids that are involved how do you help them
2023-06-16 08:21:03
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