@kenreid.co: Though it may look like your ex is unaffected by what they’ve done, it’s only a matter of time before all of their pain comes back to them and causes them tremendous guilt and shame that can be the catalyst for their growth. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #breakup #avoidant #counselorsoftiktok

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lycheeandmochicats
lycheeandmochicats :
My ex used duolingo to suppress his emotions lmfao
2023-05-13 00:56:44
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la_despeinadaa
la_despeinadaa :
knew an avoidant guy who could not date seriously because he was in love with a woman he'd ruined years earlier.
2023-05-13 01:32:15
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traseyereaf
Traseyereaf :
I find that avoidants tend to steer away from being vulnerable. They’ll insist you can be but when it’s their turn, they’d rather run away.
2023-05-13 01:10:47
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vinsanity1379
Valentino :
Is it normal for them to act like they didn’t do anything wrong when they reach out months later? And of course ghost again shortly after .
2023-05-13 00:49:15
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steblai
steblai :
mine came back, told me how much he missed me, wanted to make it up to me, etc. Ghosted me again the next day.
2023-05-13 06:40:07
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xxcatana
Catana :
in my relationship... i am the avoidant but can say that I am now leaning towards securely attached however... i seem to always attract extremely
2023-05-13 01:56:38
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listen2alec
$k33L!Ft ❄️🎶 :
It was not special and all the magic I felt for that whole time was false I just don’t understand how I could’ve been so wrong about someone
2023-05-13 08:16:01
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robcieka
Rob Cieka :
It happened to my ex. She came back saying everything suddenly reminded her of me. She left again suddenly 3 month later.
2023-05-13 05:40:19
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bubblegumhippie
Bubblegumhippie :
He got into a new relationship 6 months after. He’s very happy. He didn’t go through any pain because I didn’t mean anything to him unfortunately
2023-05-13 07:37:30
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lionsmind4
lionsmind4 :
As an Avoidant, this hits home.I felt hit by emotions, right after the breakup,but I felt happy after a while.Got in new rel,brokeUp.The pain was BAD!
2023-05-13 01:04:13
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thestayfoxyboutique
Erika 🌻💛 :
But….I’m in so much pain and yet he said at least o get to die since I have stage 4 cancer. I just needed him here for me & not like I’m dying alone
2023-05-13 01:26:55
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penny3705
Penny :
An interesting experiment: how confusing would it be for an avoidant to wind up with another likewise, and be transformed into an anxious attacher?
2023-05-13 00:47:15
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madalenater_
madalenater_ :
how do they feel if someone ignores them
2023-05-13 00:45:27
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anniegetyourgnu
Annegram (TV) :
When you never attach to your partner emotionally it is very simple to walk away because you have no feelings
2023-05-13 14:42:00
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vortatia3
Vortatia :
I’m an avoidance and So hard to heal, I don’t want to hurt anyone, I struggle with this and it’s a dark place
2023-05-13 01:46:09
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amyfruit
amyfruit :
But do they ever say sorry when they realize years later how hurtful their ghosting was?
2023-05-13 03:07:03
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craggsspeaks
Gary Craggs :
Avoidant but avoid dating pretty much altogether. Then did date one person who was avoidant and disappeared. Back to avoiding - focus on work & gym
2023-05-13 06:09:54
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atomic_christ
atomic_christ :
thank you for your videos. I've never found a good therapist but definitely feel like you'd be it!
2023-05-13 00:36:38
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anchoredwunderlust
Laurel Lee :
I'm not an anxious attachers exactly but I definitely have a problem close to it. amd mostly over friends rather than relationships.
2023-05-13 07:58:32
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nixsey1
Nicole Seymour :
I’m avoidant and I don’t think this is true. We have a lifetime of suppressing emotions. It doesn’t just come back and hit us. The hard part for us
2023-05-14 19:13:29
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lauramarissabedfo
lauramarissabedfo :
fxxk. I was this person. then this happened to me. I regret my behaviour previous as it was hurtful, but unintentional. having it mirrored back is one
2023-05-18 22:32:32
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miss.treicy
M.s.Tlo :
I hope when reality sets in on my avoidant ex, as he looks at the wannabe baby trapper, he knows in his heart that it wasn’t bad w/me. That was love.
2023-05-13 00:50:33
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najenany
o :
don't forget to tell that when they will crush they may never link it to their past relationships, u can move on from someone but not the pain
2023-05-20 11:24:46
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just_jess0000
just_jess0000 :
My ex contacted me and asked if we could meet up, but without any commitment- I declined, He had to say ‘without commitment & apologise’ like I asked?
2023-05-14 03:08:21
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daniellacassoni
Daniella Cassoni :
He stopped talking to me out of nowhere. Watches my stories but has gone silent. Won’t respond messages. It’s been almost 2 weeks. Should I go see
2023-05-13 05:19:55
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