Professor Sol
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Saturday 13 May 2023 22:25:44 GMT
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GretchenStretchen :
YES. This was “talking back” as a kid. “Disrespectful” in school or workplace. And “not letting it go” in relationships.
2023-05-14 15:56:04
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Preston :
I end up over explaining because the other person doesn't seem to understand the actual facts of the situation! So frustrating.
2023-05-14 03:59:32
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mmmmayday :
From the makers of Intellectualizing Emotions, a fun, new spin-off: Intellectualizing Conflict
2023-05-14 14:16:05
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ami :
it’s always “making excuses” “not letting things go” “overexplaining” “talking in circles” NO i just wanna ANALYZE!! i have so much ANALYSIS to do!!
2023-05-15 18:09:00
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Heidi Woodford :
Um, it took me 50 years to learn why nobody understands my brilliant metaphors
2023-05-14 04:06:54
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StayMagical22 :
But we are not disturbed we are highly cognitive of all the nuances!!
2023-05-14 04:12:36
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. :
Yes 100%! And then my partner will say, “stop arguing, let’s avoid conflict!” 1. I’m not arguing, just discussing 2. This is how I avoid conflict!
2023-05-14 05:22:35
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alextwiist :
I stop conversations and ask for clarification. I can feel the people's discomfort, but can't think of a better way of finding resolution.
2023-05-14 04:29:52
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chrissotomillsaps :
this! so this! I have been accused of being overly argumentative, cause when I am not getting my point across I try to pull my opponent back stage...
2023-05-14 04:10:22
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caitbait :
this is why I love Fleabag so much.
2023-05-14 04:54:58
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🪱 :
sometimes going meta/ into the nuances makes the other person SO mad and idk why but it’s so infuriating
2023-05-14 05:19:01
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BHILLSB :
Can you provide a specific example or demonstrate? I’m having a hard time conceptualizing what this type of communication would look/sound like.
2023-05-14 04:12:12
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Just a Guy :
i call this going off script! like we're doing a play rehearsal and i want to talk about my lines, so i stop reading from the script
2023-05-14 04:13:20
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Gentle Healers Academy :
I have never seen this described before and this is absolutely what I try to do in high friction conversations 🤯
2023-05-14 01:24:23
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catcatbobat :
I feel so thrown for a loop because I never thought of it this way or realized that I was doing something abnormal, but so many things make sense now
2023-05-14 06:13:53
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Hil :
I need a therapist who understands this. i used to get into this place w my mom and it infuriated her & I felt so abandoned.
2023-05-13 23:27:09
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carlyn :
Isn’t this just emotional intelligence and logic? Like explaining where we’re at and where we’re coming from should be normal no..?
2023-05-15 04:29:46
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Jon Carter :
This has absolutely gotten me in trouble in almost every relationship I’ve had. I love the “back stage” framing and will use that.
2023-05-14 04:22:54
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Annie Louise Rud :
It’s a skill that is very beneficial in more formal settings. Like negotiations. But it can also be veryy dismissive of other peoples feelings.
2023-05-15 17:52:42
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Arnout :
I don’t think you’re wrong but I think neurotypical have these two personas integrated in one while divergents have this split.
2023-06-03 02:02:10
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gail :
this very much, it terribly prolongs disagreements and often leads to me just apologizing and switching to fix it mode. this mode also seems—
2023-06-25 11:05:57
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