@jessicaoutofthecloset: How to stay positive when you’re faced with bed rest and not feeling ‘productive’? For Claudia, the answer is: DON’T STAY IN BED (not medical advice, please don’t listen to her, she’s awful at taking care of her body, can’t even get her to drink 2 glasses of water a day! 🥴) But also: productivity can mean different things to different people. Make of it what you will. To me? My level of ability will always be different to Claudia and thus I do not judge myself against her in anything. Let’s be honest, when you’re in pain you’re not generally going to be as ‘efficient’ as when you’re not. SO GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK! Do what makes you happy friend (she types through the squinty eyes of her own migraine… 🙃)! How do you find the balance of work and rest? Want to see us answer more of your questions? Click the link in my bio to watch the full video! 📹 #samesexparents #lgbtparents #disabledparent