@theholisticpsychologist: Chronically emotionally reactive parents create hypervigilance and a fear of saying what we think or feel

Dr. Nicole LePera
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Monday 15 May 2023 21:59:49 GMT
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babymush46
🦌 Ell 🤍🩸 :
when your parent switches between this AND an emotionally unresponsive parent... its confusing
2023-05-15 22:13:17
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baby.bee.03
baby.bee.03 :
Even worse when your the eldest daughter🥺
2023-05-15 22:16:55
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grabthatmuffin
H :
This was/is my mom
2023-05-15 22:03:05
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snapesangel20
SnapesAngel20 :
This is both triggering and also a reminder to me as a new mom what I DO NOT want to do , ever, because I live in fear or repeating the cycle
2023-05-15 22:56:55
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christinariley03
Christina Riley :
Both my parents were emotionally immature, and m dad Emotionally reactive. I have the knowledge now. My future is bright 😎
2023-05-15 22:31:29
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cosmicbrushstroke
cosmicbrushstroke :
Wow. This was my household growing up. And I’m 25 now and I betray myself all the time to keep the peace. And now I can’t handle people being outspoke
2023-05-15 22:43:52
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grow.thru.it
janelle :
omg this is so my mom. i still get the worst anxiety when i have to communicate w/ others about my feelings. i’m always terrified of ppls reactions😩
2023-05-15 22:23:23
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hera.valeria
hera.valeria :
Do these skits ever trigger either of you when acting them out? It’s hard to watch sometimes because it’s so familiar haha
2023-05-15 22:22:05
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harvestkiet
Kiet :
By now I’m beginning to think that the majority of us parents are basically toddlers in oversized, wrinkled and in a way odd looking bodies 😉
2023-05-15 22:10:38
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blablablablabla889
K :
I’m 32 and still scared of my mums reaction about everything 😔
2023-05-15 22:15:46
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minkdior
⋆ ˚。⋆୨୧˚ :
This is completely my mom she’s so emotional unavailable and not physically there in the parts were I need her I feel so alone
2023-05-15 22:07:21
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skydxddymusic
skydxddymusic :
This hit me like a truck
2023-05-23 16:32:27
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clevverrabbit
Carly🫧🤍🦋 :
I was raised by a parent like this, I’m working so hard to validate and listen to my child.
2023-05-15 22:23:02
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talia333009
Talia333 :
Who else had a parent who would always say something along the lines of "I guess I'm just the worst person in the world then. I should just leave if-
2023-06-12 21:54:30
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thismadmama
Thismadmama :
Your posts actually make it easier for me to talk to my kids. If I react poorly I explain why my behavior is wrong 😅
2023-05-16 00:19:46
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just.jo.things
Jo :
And then my mom asks “why don’t you confine in me?” Because I don’t know what version of you I’ll get today so I limit my interactions
2023-06-19 17:45:05
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twisted_vanz
Vanna Marie :
First Mother's Day not spending it with her, I'm tired of feeling broken
2023-05-15 22:44:10
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dope_kitchen
Dope Kitchen (Nicole) :
This was my childhood. And I’m 32 and still working through learning how to stand up for myself and express myself in therapy
2023-06-13 14:00:23
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iso_trl
aisa :
That's my mum!! Thought this was narcissistic behaviour though?
2023-05-15 22:09:18
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blacksparklesx
🥀 :
This was exactly my childhood 😕 I still struggle sometimes ~ any good book recommendations?
2023-05-15 22:25:45
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maferarriola
Mary Fer Arriola :
I'm new here and I feel sooo familiar with ur videos and now that i'm 23, my Mother it's not the same sometimes, but I still feel like walking in+
2023-07-06 21:04:19
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thewolfman4612
♠️Spade♠️ :
This reminds me of My mother. Whenever something (or someone) isn’t exactly the way she likes it, she has a full-blown mental breakdown that can Last-
2023-07-11 19:27:20
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_ssolenya_
juliette :
real. ive had to unlearn this. went from super agreeable to most argumentative w parents
2023-07-12 08:36:58
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kadyroxz
KadyRoxz :
Or you’ll be terrified of partnership after realizing you attract equally emotionally draining dates 😭
2023-05-26 02:24:05
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friend.goblin
gob :
Thank you so much for this perspective! I am working on my reactions in my classroom. I call them my cranky mistakes.
2023-05-17 02:46:18
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