Dr Jacob Santhouse LCPC
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Thursday 18 May 2023 12:47:32 GMT
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JasminMarsters :
Flipside: someone who always asks you to decide what‘s next is too much emotional labor.
2023-05-22 09:08:53
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Honeynothing :
the constant idk, ok, ye, yeah is just exhausting. I hate being the only reason the conversation keeps going
2023-05-19 16:14:27
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Guillaume Cloutier :
well I don't know
2023-06-28 10:52:15
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Seff :
i say "idk/idc. what are you feeling?"
2023-05-18 22:19:07
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user4310476187315 :
I'm autistic I literally do not know
2023-06-29 09:37:20
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StrangelyAlice :
this is good advice. we are both guilty of this. I'm going to try using this wording of "not sure, let's explore" kudos!
2023-05-18 14:11:56
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Alishamichele❤️ :
I get it but when you carry all the mental load you can’t even make small decisions like where to eat. Sometimes I truly don’t care, just feed me.
2023-05-18 19:18:09
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Star :
The buffer words such as “we can try and figure something out together” help the other person even if you struggle with having a real answer. It helps the other person know you care about them
2024-12-30 07:36:30
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Liamm :
if you are going to say "I don't know" you have to express or explain further
2023-08-13 20:10:11
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Ali_W._2.0 :
I don't know said consistently with zero followup translates to I do not care & the topic isn't even relevant. 😭 I'm so tired of being the only one asking (or answering without being asked)
2024-12-29 17:43:10
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Xaphan666999 :
here is an idea, teach adults not to speak in code or look into responses so "i dont know" doesn't falsely become "i dont care"
2023-05-18 23:12:11
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Xavier :
Can you give advice for someone who instead of constantly says "I don't know" constantly says "Whatever you want to do"?
2023-05-18 22:27:39
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Sirius! :
Neurotypical scare me. I say idk because I genuinely do not know. Why would it mean something different? Wouldn’t I just say idc if I didnt care?
2023-05-21 18:47:29
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TheReelzRave :
I think the issue with my partner and I is that we both have ADHD, our brains go 1000mph, so sometimes we truly don't know.
2023-05-29 13:08:55
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HAM :
Put dis on his fyp 😐
2023-05-19 15:38:24
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Jen ❤ :
Like pulling teeth. I stopped trying to even have a conversation. I stopped asking, talking.
2023-05-18 16:30:25
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Rivet :
my mother traumatized me over saying i dont know when i genuinely dont know
2023-05-21 07:01:17
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The Recovering Codependent :
I KNEW IT WAS GOING TO BE “IDK” RIGHT AWAY 😳
2023-05-21 16:47:40
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Smile More :
I DESPISE “I don’t know”. Ughhhh!!!!
2023-05-29 10:35:11
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🍉AG🍉 :
If I genuinely don’t know or don’t have an answer, I’ll say ‘I don’t know because-*explanation*’ or ‘I can’t think of something’
2023-05-21 12:43:35
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Vlad :
“Let’s see what our options are” that’s what I respond with when it comes too food. Opens up a convo :)) (1)
2023-05-19 08:35:15
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ThinkGodzilla :
@.
2023-05-19 15:47:54
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x.aalyahjo.x :
i’m trying to break the habit of saying “I already seen that” when he tries to show me something
2023-06-01 17:24:42
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Jared :
Commenting to stay on this side of tiktok
2023-05-22 12:05:45
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Esther :
that's why i say "i'm not sure babe" instead then follow up with a few suggestions or things that i can think of or know of at that moment
2023-06-04 17:17:18
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lilsloot :
if im asked where to eat ill normally say idk but follow it up with were I know I DONT want to eat
2023-05-19 14:37:20
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Sierra Henrichs :
another frustrating one us "im sorry. im sorry im sorry" to literally everything. it feels like being blown off
2023-06-04 07:29:19
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ratking458 :
I usually follow up "idk" with "let me think rq" cuz sometimes I just don't have an answer straight away
2023-05-21 14:25:13
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beary anxious :
good points, I fall into this because I'm mentally exhausted from making all the decisions and handling the family schedule. so many decisions...
2023-05-21 17:20:11
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Nigel Harte :
I can’t send this to her…
2023-06-04 11:32:36
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HoboJoe :
@alyssa
2023-05-19 14:48:14
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Jordan McConnell :
@Mexicangal
2023-05-19 14:35:14
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Zeryl :
@Rika
2023-06-05 19:20:44
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A :
Also, when this happens and I come with suggestions for ex. Food, its not good enough or not what they want… frustrating
2023-06-01 14:59:19
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M :
@a yesss yesss yesssss Bruhhh finally someone’s explained it
2023-06-08 04:30:11
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🩷Lilith🩷 :
But like my bf asks the weirdest questions. "Do you think Dinosaurs would have liked Burgers?" Like bro IDK they dead 😭😭
2023-06-01 13:26:34
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Jetsonplayzchillin :
@DoodleBop he’s right 😅
2023-06-08 07:28:43
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Arty :
It hurts more with saying I dunno
2023-06-08 16:38:28
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andrei :
I don’t know is one of 3 things: 1. I don’t care or I am not interested; 2. I can’t hold a conversation; 3. I can’t form my own thoughts and opinions
2023-05-28 20:39:33
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alphablythe :
I dated someone who constantly answered "I don't care, whatever you want" to every single question for 3 years. It really does affect you.
2023-05-28 12:20:15
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Anilius :
if i don't know the answer i don't know the answer its that simple
2023-05-28 09:24:17
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imcpham :
the only idk is for where to eat 😭
2023-05-19 18:53:39
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squishyhamter :
You are absolutely right…
2023-05-25 13:22:37
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STAR :
Thank god this came up on my FYP because I seriously DON’T KNOW how to stop saying idk 😭
2023-06-09 05:40:10
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KAE :
Could I give suggestions?
2023-05-23 03:51:18
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SnekDice :
I always tell him " lemme think about it"
2023-05-22 21:03:40
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Em Bud :
Literally my partners’ response for every imaginable thing lmao.
2023-05-18 21:52:23
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