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Sam.I.Am :
Every time we had something big plannned, like a vaca or road trip, birthdays, holidays, my ex would pick a huge fight to sabotage the event
2023-05-24 19:15:03
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⛓️🪦🥀 :
what about for those of us who realize we have done this and want to stop? and are working hard to change?
2023-06-20 16:59:08
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Stormz :
I find those who act like this are cheating themselves
2023-05-19 22:24:18
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skyblue46170 :
Is something wrong? When you say no, Iam find, than your lying. He doesn't know what is wrong but it is something.
2023-05-19 21:33:37
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OracleSolas :
There is no right answer. I swear they need that emotional rollercoaster so then they can get the attention, power though guilt and fighting
2023-05-19 21:59:07
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Britt Beck :
does this count when you're the one self sabotaging but they are the one who broke your trust to begin with
2023-05-25 22:37:22
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TamTam :
Big oof. All that with my ex… listening to a sublime cd I’d had for 18yrs and it was “who are you talking to since you’re listening to reggae”
2023-05-21 18:57:17
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Toilet paper :
This doesn’t sound like narcissism, it’s sounds like anxious attachment
2023-05-24 15:19:47
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Taylor ❤️ :
I do this. But wounds he caused.
2023-05-20 15:18:16
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CharlieLiberty :
I did this sometimes, but I was on edge all the time from her lying and gaslighting about her drug abuse
2023-05-19 21:46:13
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Kim :
Have you ever read/ listened to “the covert passive aggressive Narcissis
2023-05-23 04:41:34
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🌸 allie 🌸 :
How can I tell if I’m doing this or if I’m reacting in a way consistent with my trauma?
2023-05-26 15:19:38
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ThatAmandaRealtor :
Whoa! I’ve just gone through a 2 month stint of my partner accusing me of cheating. I’ve been watching so many of your videos and I see it now.
2023-05-19 20:56:14
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Jessikat :
R u staying with him?
2023-05-19 23:22:42
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nicolaandbruce :
It’s like they get a high or dopamine fix when they stir up trouble
2023-05-27 08:36:18
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𝕸𝖎𝖘𝖘𝕰𝖑𝖑𝖆𝖓𝖊𝖔𝖚𝖘 :
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing, I was just thinking about how he would do this to me all time & why it felt like I was being punished for his exs
2023-05-31 19:33:27
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Jack :
I just got that this morning. what's wrong what's wrong you seem off what's wrong? like dude chill I'm fine! but for me, I feel like he's purposely
2023-05-31 21:52:20
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Mandy_Luz :
my husband does this, escalating it until he slams something and storms out then blaming me for it
2023-06-25 14:12:54
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Jen💙 :
He only had one way of thinking. I was wrong in my intentions. My motives were negative or out for myself. Projection of his doings and not mine.
2023-05-22 00:07:19
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Jess :
20 years of that. Constant eggshells to soothe his ego. I am now starting to see how much of me was hidden away so he didn’t get triggered.
2023-05-19 23:45:26
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Kaseyblair723 :
Sounds like my ex husband too. I would be busy doing something and he’d always say “you got a problem?” And he KNEW that that would get me going so
2023-06-03 19:43:04
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cassandrayearly :
oh.my.gosh!!!!! yessssss
2023-05-19 21:34:26
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nowens207 🇺🇸 :
Your TTs are reminding me of all the reasons I left my ex 4 years ago. So much happier alone now!
2023-05-20 14:18:10
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Skye :
Your trauma is not your fault, but your responsibility to heal. Never support someone who isn’t working on healing, but rather just sitting in it.
2023-05-20 01:13:43
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Meghan :
omg this was my life! I feel so validated! this is insane!
2023-05-20 03:45:12
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