Jefferson Fisher
Region: US
Friday 19 May 2023 21:47:21 GMT
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Jason Pepas :
“I need your help with the fact that you don’t work here anymore”
2023-05-21 03:42:33
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Mrs Fitz :
Saying “I need your help,” is brilliant. Going on with a collaborative approach takes ego out of it.
2023-05-19 21:51:58
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Da Realness :
“Thanks for making time today. I need your help with letting you go. Wow I’m feeling a lot more settled and good about this, how about you?” Nailed it
2023-05-20 01:30:08
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Ohnononononono12 :
I always start with, “this may be uncomfortable but it is important” works every time.
2023-05-19 23:06:28
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suefleming32 :
BRILLIANT.
2023-05-31 23:18:22
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mommyonthespectrum :
No matter what I do he will say: oh therapist talk again. What to do ab that bc I do that so the emotions don’t take over. Btw I talk like this video
2023-05-24 00:09:21
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Craig S :
I agree with all of this. But sometimes doing all this work for someone who doesn’t contribute that energy back just feels like emotional labor
2023-05-20 09:42:26
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JoSto :
"Thank you for making time. I need your help about this because I don't know how to fire you. Yes you're fired. Sorry. I feel more settled about this"
2023-05-24 14:47:48
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C Starr :
I disagree - I think asking someone how they are can give you insight as to where their head is at and help you know how to position the conversation.
2023-05-25 10:55:34
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Natalie :
At my workplace- we actually open with “ I need to have a courageous conversation “
2023-05-22 03:33:48
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Spence n sensibility :
“ you were arrested for streaking in a Wendy’s” - first off thank you for making the time to talk to me” I need your help knowing how to feel about..”
2023-06-01 20:42:44
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Merkur :
This is why I have a panic attack every time my boss needs help with something. As soon as I hear those words, straight panic
2023-05-22 15:00:01
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Tommy Tank :
I dont think this works in the Uk
2023-05-24 09:05:08
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EBGB21 :
I have a really hard time with being quiet. Allowing that silence. The urge to fill it and “make it all better” doesn’t work!
2023-05-30 05:32:35
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Lindsey :
I call these “important conversations” to get my mindset in the right place to initiate the conversation and not put it off!
2023-05-31 11:09:41
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Melograna :
Drink wine before that’s it
2023-06-01 19:41:22
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Cheekee :
What if the person is dismissive and says it’s not a big deal?
2023-05-31 01:02:02
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jonmichaelroberts :
True, it can also be seen as manipulative which is how I feel when a boss uses techniques phrases like that….
2023-05-21 05:23:01
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AZ123AZ123 :
Commenting to stay on the algorithm
2023-05-31 04:38:20
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mildredgiangreco :
only in the work place but not with family members.🤦♀️
2023-06-02 08:56:55
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SiuoL :
How about for a break up 💀
2023-05-22 22:17:12
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Desert Ladybug :
I feel like I could use this w my partner- it’s so easy to get defensive in relationships that sounds like a smart way to approach it
2023-05-31 05:08:32
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Mac McLaughlin :
10 years ago I started working for Verizon. And I have a team that kept getting bigger and every year I had to lay off 10% of my team.
2023-05-23 05:13:27
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Abby Brinks :
Could have used this about 7 hours ago. The start and the end were so awkward 😅
2023-06-02 04:42:01
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Karlie Kelly :
Side note: you’re incredibly handsome
2023-06-01 23:08:23
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