@domesticblisters: Replying to @1337 Looking good on paper is how we have done heteronormative relationships for a millenia. Now we have the choice to pick what we really want. And there are no right or wrong choices, only informed or uninformed. #strugglecare #attraction #relationships

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tiffanized
tiffanized :
This was my ex husband. He is a very good man, a great dad, handsome, kind, smart. He tried so hard. I didn’t want to be married to ANYONE.
2023-05-22 18:42:52
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flotsamnthensome
Flotsamnthensome :
It took me so long to learn that just because someone is “nice enough”or “right enough”, that isn’t enough for me to partner with them.
2023-05-22 17:50:04
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laurenjane85
laurenjane85 :
I’ve never understood people who just say they’re ready to get married and then go find a spouse. I couldn’t do that if I tried.
2023-05-22 21:58:55
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rebeeber
rebeeber :
that park bench analogy is so real. my partner can make standing in line at the dmv fun and that’s more important than any of the “on paper” stuff!
2023-05-22 23:11:41
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katieintarnation
Katie In Tarnation 🌈 :
Well you just described all my relationships with men. Interesting.
2023-05-22 15:50:19
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basic_blueberry_ferret
Basic-Blueberry :
“sometimes we’re in an unsafe situation and that’s our ticket to stability” — I never had the words but this happened to an ex-friend of mine! 😓
2023-05-22 23:20:38
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daydreamsupplyco
daydreamsupplyco :
Quick q: if someone talks in a condescending way to you, is it okay to ask them to change their tone? I want to say yes but feel gaslight right now 🙃
2023-05-22 16:36:55
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greenxandsam
Samantha James :
I have this nagging insecurity that I am this person for my husband & need to be reassured too often 🥺
2023-05-22 23:38:06
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pamelamcgivney
Pamela McGivney :
I know a lot of people like this then after multiple kids and decades later they're deeply unhappy and were never a good match to go through life
2023-05-22 15:46:38
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blissful_yew
Danielle C :
This is my first marriage, it was safe when I was in a bad situation. We tried and tried and couldn’t get there.
2023-05-22 15:42:12
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kristily2070
kristily2070 :
Yes! So much damage with purity culture and filling the job description of sexual partner.
2023-05-23 04:39:45
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_kyrenee
Ky Renee :
Yeah, my husband is so different from any list I could’ve ever read, but he is absolutely perfect for me. if I could crawl inside him to sleep that 🥰
2023-05-23 10:55:28
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rainmayfall33
Lauren :
I don’t think I know a single relationship that doesn’t fit the first description… :/ Christianity made me feel like a marriage was a job to do.
2023-05-22 16:43:49
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winnieharris17
Winnie Harris :
Damn KC, I bet you’re on hell of a mom. We all need to hear this earlier in life
2023-05-22 18:39:51
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camoheart18
camoheart 182 :
this totally happened to me. now divorced. it's a bummer.
2023-05-22 16:51:09
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shreya87singh
shreya87singh :
I think you just described Indian Arranged Marriage
2023-05-22 15:45:57
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ashinprogress
ashinprogress :
Really, really great points.
2023-05-22 19:05:36
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hjklingm
Hilari :
You’re describing me and my last bf. He cheated and left before I could fully comprehend how much I didn’t like him 😂
2023-05-23 11:21:43
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tetrismuffin
Alissa Giles :
Oof, this ‘best case scenario’ is my parents 35 year marriage. They respect each other and possibly enjoy each other’s company, but no attraction
2023-05-23 17:48:35
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cait_doe11
Cait_Doe11 :
What if masking was so strong in the beginning that when kids came along it fell hard and that person is so different. I would literally cry leaving
2023-05-22 16:59:14
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ronifurr
Ronifurr :
I love this way of explain it!
2023-05-23 00:29:01
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kaiteyshay
✨Kaitey✨ :
Hey do you have Instagram? I can’t find you!
2023-05-22 17:05:47
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sfo195
sfo :
Oh! That sounds like my parents! They divorced after 18 years. Not a great marriage!
2023-05-22 18:21:29
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woahso48
Woahso :
🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
2023-05-23 10:41:02
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thresasaenz
Thresa Saenz :
I did that young to escape and ended up in a more abusive situation than my family home .
2023-05-22 19:54:54
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