@drunkcrier: Deaf people answer: “What should hearing people know about interacting with Deaf/HoH?” #CODA

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jessiehaines_
Jessie Haines :
I don’t understand the “learning ASL doesn’t help”, then people could communicate with you in a way that’s easier for you because it’s your language
2023-06-07 19:48:22
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silencioesoro
silencioesoro :
when we ask you to repeat yourself, sometimes its better just to reword what you said. especially when it gives us context.
2023-05-23 02:20:01
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californiummm_
californi…ummm? :
Not all Deaf people are okay with being touched, some of us still have PTSD and prefer visual attention cues like waving or the lights.
2023-05-25 01:32:39
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chartingsaturn
chartingsaturn :
Question after one of the comments. Is it fine if u want to learn ASL to be more inclusive and learn about the deaf community? Not learning to “help”
2023-05-22 20:43:55
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jadyn_sage
🇨🇦🇵🇸Jadyn Sage 🏳‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ :
As a hearing person, I'm actually surprised about the one about walking between 2 people signing. I would never walk between 2 people having /1
2023-05-25 05:51:16
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macjaded
Mac Jade :
*Me screaming “YESSS” “THAAAAAT” after every slide* Ya’ll when in doubt, just ask us! We don’t bite 🥰🤟🏼
2023-05-24 18:20:20
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clustercollective
Ryah :
My brain fills in the gaps I don’t hear. This means I will mishear or misunderstand. Just repeat what you said clearly, even if it takes several tries
2023-05-23 19:14:02
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quiteacommonfairy
Dorothy van der Sterre :
I was once given a sign name by a group of deaf teens who came to my college for a theatre festival ❤️🫶🏻🙌🏻
2023-05-24 15:47:36
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krustygrandma
KrustyGramma :
hearing fatigue is so heavy for me, I get exhausted from voices, talking
2023-05-24 22:47:55
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bobbihearn
Shae :
"it's okay to walk between 2 Deaf people signing" me: *internal panic about being perceived as rude for interrupting someone's conversation* 😳😳😳😳
2023-05-27 16:23:47
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aspen_alexis_
aspen 🌿💫📸 :
Any tips for someone who speaks fast and plans on getting an asl certificate in college to become fluent in the language and learn the culture?❤️
2023-05-23 04:07:01
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wayra_ayelen
Wayra Ayelen :
I’m confused about the “it’s okay to walk through two people signing one”. Really??….
2023-05-23 04:48:37
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katieh749
katieh :
I'm hearing and I get hearing fatigue. I wish we could just turn our ears off the way we can close our eyes.
2023-05-23 16:47:58
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satanic.lessons
Bhexderidan :
getting close to my face doesn't make me read your lips any better
2023-05-23 19:55:14
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californiummm_
californi…ummm? :
Also just because my hearing aids help me on the phone doesn't mean I can understand you in person 10 ft away through masks and mumbling.
2023-05-25 01:34:18
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vancesav
Savanna :
FELT that hearing fatigue slide so hard.
2023-05-23 04:03:36
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gingergoblingoods
Ginger Goblin Goods :
I was given a sign name by a deaf friend in middle school but it doesn't apply anymore so I don't use it now. Need to refresh my ASL skills honestly.
2023-05-25 11:20:50
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caley_holland
caley :
“learning asl doesn’t help deaf people” is definitely wrong but whatever
2023-05-24 01:07:40
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destanyholmes420
🥴 :
I love this!!!!! however I knew bc of switched at birth. that educated me a lil. 🥰
2023-05-23 22:15:51
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ohana_lizett
Lizett Fonseca :
Im learning ASL & my signing is horrendous but I still try communicating…is that rude to try and sign while I speak? I’m in love with deaf culture🤟🏽
2023-05-24 08:08:35
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wiccanwiccanwitch
wiccanwiccanwitch :
I’m not Deaf but I’m involved in the Deaf community and some of these HIT! “Baby” sign 🤢 random hand motions 🤢 happened to me once while with my kid
2023-05-25 02:56:01
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katy.k.aspiringauthor
Katy.k :
I'm writing a book and there will be a deaf man in it. I took asl for 3 years in high school and though I have a deep love for the deaf people used to
2023-06-01 16:59:32
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jsmbger
JSMBGER :
I'm just learning ASL now to better communicate with my 8-month-old grandchild who's hard of hearing and I'm slowly losing all of my hearing.
2023-05-24 21:51:23
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another_sad_love_song
Siren :
when I'm on the phone and I've got a TTY operator I will say operator if I go too fast just let me know and I can repeat but then the rest of the conv
2023-05-23 00:18:12
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kai20202020
Kai20202020 :
That we aren’t all intellectually disabled!
2023-05-25 00:09:31
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margaritasolveslots
margaritasolveslots :
That just because I'm not able to hear like you do, I'm not stupid!
2023-05-25 01:23:46
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flawedseraphim
Glynnis Gonzalez :
If we were given a name sign by someone in the community is it ok to continue using it when introducing yourself to others of the community? I was 1
2023-06-03 00:23:08
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samm13carter
Samm C. Madison :
I’m gonna attempt to make a comment thread based on each slide
2023-06-12 19:46:12
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audreyelizabethya
Audrey Elizabeth Yanez :
I’m
2023-05-23 23:24:42
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coach_jolo
Jo SG 💙💜 :
A sign name?
2023-05-25 03:03:47
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sarsonder
Sarsonder :
I love this 🥰
2023-05-24 01:10:15
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audreyelizabethya
Audrey Elizabeth Yanez :
The law forces us to give our children’s legal names n it honestly shouldn’t be such a permanent thing. We change we identify differently etc
2023-05-23 23:28:34
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kelin_griffin1
Kelin Griffin :
THAT! Commenting so more people see this!
2023-05-25 12:36:58
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serenity_pineau_
Flower :
So I’m HoH the relief that I feel with some of these. 😩 Especially with people telling me Nvm bc I asked them to repeat themselves 1 too many times🥺
2023-05-25 16:30:55
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jay_im_a_girl
JayR :
I can't handle my HAs for long. it'd to much for me and sometimes I go with out them all day
2023-05-26 05:51:26
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useratb36tkpxn
❤️ :
I took two semesters of asl in college. I don’t know much. But whenever interacting with someone who’s deaf I never know if I should try to communicat
2023-05-27 14:48:16
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audreyelizabethya
Audrey Elizabeth Yanez :
I’m just gunna say that anyone should be able to choose their own names doesn’t matter the language. It’s gate keeping.
2023-05-23 23:27:22
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imjustmeallicanbe
Danni Schwartz :
The interpreter is there so I can understand you, not the other way around. my voice is not an excuse to deny access.
2023-05-27 22:11:29
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greenpapillon
Belle :
Even if we can lip read sometimes we get words wrong just be patient we’re trying 🤟🏼🥰
2023-05-28 16:30:57
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eclecticpeacock
Zelly Luther :
As a HoH person face me as your speaking to me. Understand I can’t tell the direction a sound comes from. Don’t get annoyed if I need something-
2023-05-28 21:35:19
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miriam_406
Eliana 🇲🇽🇩🇿❤️🔐 :
🥰❤️
2023-05-23 05:27:00
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beepbeeplainie
beepbeeplainie :
It’s ok to walk through deaf people signing? I wouldn’t even do that to hearing people talking. Isn’t that rude?
2023-05-30 12:15:17
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its_me_and_mydogs
its_me_and_mydogs :
Im hard of hearing and I hate when people walk away while rhey are talking because I didnt understand a word they said
2023-06-02 13:55:44
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skeetbangels
skeetbangels :
The song🥰🥰🥰
2023-05-22 23:34:36
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akg9513
Ashley :
I'm HoH, and some of those slides relates to me, especially the first one. Grown up with a Dad that always mad at me and "You need to Listen!" ....
2023-06-04 08:20:49
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mel__annie
Melanie Del Rosario :
So many of these I was like “it’s just another language”. It’s a shame people don’t see that.
2023-06-06 04:17:02
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