Therapist_Dave
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Maligator skater :
My wife doesn’t have to do that to me. I’m more than capable of moving my own stuff and not remembering where I left them 😅
2023-05-29 16:23:31
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Heather Natale608 :
I promise she just put them where they belong. A place designated to those objects and he just thinks that's his landing zone. if she didn't move
2023-05-29 14:40:24
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Jérémie :
As an ADHDer, if you move my stuff, it ceases to exist. Don’t.
2023-05-29 15:40:30
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Keri :
Or they can’t be bothered to put things where they agree they belong? Laundry in the hamper?
2023-05-30 03:22:39
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Mary DeGiusti :
But what about agreed upon spaces for things? Like if I leave my keys on the table, he’ll move it to the key hook by the door. Vice versa as well.
2023-05-29 14:44:49
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Can'tFindIt :
I don't think you're right about this. Clean and neat is the right way. Spouse won't do it then you do it
2023-05-29 14:14:29
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Joshua Thiedeman :
Can you further explain the, "where she thinks they should go," dynamic?
2023-05-29 14:08:58
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sasquatchsays :
Or if you’re the type of person that has to have things organized, ask your partner where they think stuff should go and make them a spot.
2023-05-29 14:10:34
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Beth Murphy :
Put them where they go.
2023-05-29 14:09:26
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Lizzy Bau :
All items have a home! He can open his eyes and look and stop being so inconsiderate to just drop shit everywhere!
2023-05-29 14:26:02
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Serra :
That would drive me bonkers. Clearly,thats the area the person likes to put things. Put a dish or something there, for their stuff. no need to move it
2023-05-29 14:05:16
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darkwoodpicks :
Gf does this. I bought a tray and we agreed that I can put my stuff on the tray. 😂👍
2023-05-29 14:44:56
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Gabby 🇺🇸 :
Is it not a power move to have an agreed upon spot for those things and he continues to dump them on the counter knowing she’ll pick them up?
2023-05-30 14:11:32
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🍀avi :
My mom used to do this all the time, now I NEVER touch anyone else’s things without asking or telling them or giving them directly to them
2023-05-29 15:38:01
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Johnny Truth :
Or maybe there has been an agreement to keep things neat and orderly. She is simply assisting him in being accountable
2023-05-29 14:36:18
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glopsey🆘🇺🇸😵💫 :
My husband does this all the time and then forgets. 😳🤬
2023-05-29 14:19:44
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nataliesjurado :
Nope. We have a shelf for our keys and he puts his wallet right on top every single time. I never ever ever touch it.
2023-05-30 05:13:07
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bestlilhenhouseinTexas :
Do not encroach upon another person or their things. It’s disrespectful.
2023-05-29 18:22:43
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whiteeyehansel :
Totaly accurate! So true!
2023-05-29 17:12:50
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Miel :
I bought some plastic boxes so him knows where to put that kind of stuff 😅
2023-05-29 15:04:58
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Becuzican :
OR my husband complains constantly about being organized but leaves crap EVERYWHERE! I do have specific space and he knows where they are
2023-05-29 14:39:48
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