Coach Pearl
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Saturday 03 June 2023 00:15:18 GMT
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Juice, Esq. ❌ :
If the avoidant doesnt even try and they are cruel then it cannot work period.
2023-06-04 14:26:05
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tammy 𐙚 ๋࣭ ⭑ :
The avoidant has to be self aware for it to work. Asked him if he’d ever consider going to therapy or counseling “nah. I wont” don’t waste your time
2023-06-05 04:24:59
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King Kesh :
Out of curiosity… do avoidants think they’re secure attachment or they’re unaware they’re avoidants ?
2023-07-22 00:10:26
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Ice 🧠🐀 :
I already gave my ex time and space but i dont know how to break the no contact. I don’t think my avoidant ex is gonna text or call me any time soon
2023-06-03 09:24:15
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Annie 🌷 :
Find someone who likes having you around and values you, don’t waste time on avoidants it won’t ever be healthy to constantly go no contact.
2023-06-05 13:05:33
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prissmedina93 :
He asked for space because he doesn’t know what he wants in life. He’s lost… he is definitely an avoidant and I’m an anxious… 😔😔😔
2023-06-05 13:24:18
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Cabbage 🥬 :
They always come back. 2mo later he randomly called at 5a attempting to have a convo as if we’d just talked the day before 🙄
2023-06-07 05:32:35
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seylah.RN :
He is hopeless so I’m giving him all the Time & Space including the outerspace !!
2023-06-03 17:29:54
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ashhleyy_xo :
Avoidant speaking, we don’t avoid with the intentions of causing harm to our partners were just believe in being emotionally independent to avoid
2023-06-17 06:32:56
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𝐼𝓉𝓎𝒶𝑔𝓊𝓇𝓁𝓋𝒶𝑒🇨🇦 :
I left cuz he treats me like he hates me lol I’m over it it’s such a one sided relationship he can avoid somebody else lmao
2023-07-01 21:46:06
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frauelein.fannilein :
In my experience, avoidants aren't really independent. They are highly codependent. That's why they're always coming back.
2023-06-09 14:13:01
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Faith Intong :
if we are both willing to work with our attachments maybe , but i can't do this ALONE
2023-08-02 13:23:08
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karissapierce592 :
yes you have to work on yourself by yourself. but a lot of attachment issues are triggered by being in a relationship. so you can fix it all.
2023-06-04 12:01:44
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tweekingwitsirens :
this is my exact scenario. he broke up w me on monday and im totally heartbroken and feel so abandoned
2023-06-04 16:30:47
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LouISA :
why is it that the anxious must always meet the needs of the avoidant? it makes them more anxious and only serves the avoidant.
2023-06-09 15:05:48
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kimmie.sparkles.pink :
Dating 3.5 months. He’s the avoidant. Told me on Friday “i enjoy your company” and said “right now that’s all I got” and then sent a pic of our fav
2023-06-04 18:33:49
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tho :
I really want to send this to my ex
2023-06-03 08:58:47
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Annie 🌷 :
This sounds ridiculous, this is not a healthy relationship dynamic, their constant need for space makes a secure person anxious, bored etc. leave!
2023-06-05 13:00:37
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Trazyyy :
I wish we could’ve seen this before it was too late
2023-06-16 15:55:46
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fari :
my ex is definitely an avoidant and he broke up with me one month ago bc he lost feelings and couldn’t explain it himself
2023-08-18 12:38:27
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Crejayyyyyy :
4 years and she broke up with me then brought me my stuff and blocked me will she come back?
2023-06-03 12:16:25
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EDERSON :
The amount of times I had to ask my ex for affection and we would only see eachother ONCE a week bc of her schedule even tho she worked from home
2023-08-03 05:36:46
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Jcook :
He’s already talking to another girl so “working on himself” was bs😂
2023-06-04 13:31:08
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Jamal Spealding :
You are beautuful lady, with nice expression without power about the feeling and thoughts. Thank you for the content, keep going.
2023-06-03 11:59:16
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M_Squared33 :
My exact relationship, I'm the avoidant and I'm trying like hell to work on this as is she as the anxious. At least we know now
2023-06-12 22:16:23
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