@theholisticpsychologist: Triangulation is a common form of manipulation that creates division, drama, and hostility between people. It’s used when someone wants to control relationships around them. Triangulation can be very confusing and destabilizing. If someone is trying to triangulate, set a boundary: “I’m not comfortable talking about this” or “I’m not involved in this situation and think you should talk to (insert person) about it #selfhealers #triangulation #trauma #traumahealing #narcissism
my mum does this, then gets upset that her children don't speak to each other.
2023-06-03 06:18:55
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katerina s :
your videos are to the point all the time....
2023-06-03 03:59:34
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Kathy Fitzgerald :
Gossip women gossip
2023-06-04 02:20:58
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N :
my mum constantly does this 🤦 and she's now surprised that I barely even speak to her when she calls! I just listen to her complain nowadays
2023-06-03 09:05:16
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prixy515 :
This is truly my mum, she gossips & creates drama between her kids, how can you make siblings go against each other 💔😖
2023-06-03 08:25:56
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Fiona✨ :
My grandma does this 😳 now she wonders why none of her grandchildren like seeing her
2023-06-03 06:22:24
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jessicaannepressler :
This is all too common, especially in larger families!
2023-08-30 20:22:26
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Xochitlvpd :
My mom does this 🥺
2023-06-03 03:20:22
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BeccieAnne01 :
It's one thing to vent and another to force choosing sides.
2023-06-19 23:16:06
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Yuball :
The trick to stop this is to COMMUNICATE DIRECTLY with the other sibling. My mom did this a few times & I spoke to my sis “Mom said u said this about me” then found out it’s a lie. The next time
2024-07-01 09:40:47
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mom_formerly_Danielle :
what makes someone be like this? their own trauma?
2023-06-03 03:32:27
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TheSpookyBitch :
My mother did this, and now I find myself doing it. It’s hard to stop because I don’t notice that I’m doing it 😢 I think it’s related to being…
2023-06-12 16:21:07
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Lou ◟̽◞̽ :
my mom is like this omg, no contact for the win
2023-06-03 11:25:18
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SilentE8 :
mom mom does everything in your videos. 🥺
2023-06-03 04:06:06
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Nadee H 🍉 :
Ah yes THIS. Didnt know theres a term for it. But as I got older, my sibs and I talked abt this and we came to this conclusion! All the drama from her
2023-08-10 06:26:04
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Zsuzsanna 🦊 :
Every day, when i call her she does this 🥲 and now she is asking constantly why im not calling/visiting more often….
2023-06-03 03:54:36
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Yazan Mania :
I mean maybe that is right sometimes. Anyway I’d like to mention that I notice people tend to over diagnose/ relate things and thus the videos (to
2023-06-03 08:43:16
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Pam :
My entire family on both my dads and moms side are like this, they all talk behind each others backs. Due to so many fights, it is why we don’t have-
2023-06-07 20:50:26
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Erika Barnes :
This is my mother to a T..except my older sister just chimes in with her instead of standing up for me.
2023-06-10 10:27:45
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KellyS_OT :
How do you deal the the triangulated sibling. Sis called & ragging me out about a discussion they had about me that has nothing to do with her
2023-06-03 21:57:14
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Gavin Sampey :
I've learned to just say okay because if I try to set a boundary it ends up in an argument I can't win. but I still just get called rude or...
2023-06-10 11:35:07
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Snowii Rose 🍉 :
my mom does this to me and my sister all the time! it's like she wants us to hate each other
2023-06-11 20:27:57
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Lindsay :
This is my mom. Except my sisters love enabling the behavior
2023-06-03 20:38:48
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𝑠 𝑎 𝑟 𝑎 𝑛 𝑒 𝑙 𝑠 𝑜 𝑛 :
My mom knows why my sister cut her out, but she always asks me why she’s not responding and says my sister is punishing her… I just play dumb..
2023-06-05 18:21:32
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bridgeoverwater7 :
1 of my sisters (golden child) took screenshots of conversations of very private convos & sent them to our mom. Blocked both of them.
2023-06-05 01:57:07
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