@theholisticpsychologist: When someone tells us they don’t find a joke funny, we need to understand where they’re coming from. And respect their feelinfs. In this tiktok, the partner is invalidating her partners feelings by calling her “too sensitive.” She continues to invalidate her by saying that she has to walk on eggshells because she asserts herself. She also tries to triangulate by saying “even my sister thinks you’re too touchy” The partner stays objective, holds her ground, speaks for herself and continues to stay her boundary #selfhealers #boundaries #healingtok #fyp

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userz6qyg6soau
Nah :
You're conflating two different things here. Something can be unfunny without being stopped and vice versa.
2023-06-04 19:12:18
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opalinemortal
A. R. Rex :
The number of times I've told people that "being honest" doesn't require being mean.
2023-06-04 23:18:57
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annielouisee
Annie 🇬🇧 :
“Too sensitive” has always been such a trigger for me. Like I can’t have my own emotions? It’s exhausting
2023-06-04 20:19:50
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shalalatime
shalalatime :
My mom always tells me I’m too sensitive and the rude things she say are just jokes. Taught me that I can’t have my own boundaries
2023-06-04 19:00:22
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fckdjt666
No :
Been told this all my life and I feel it’s just made me more sensitive
2023-06-04 19:55:43
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hex_adecimal
Hex Adecimal :
my mom told me "I always have to watch what I say for fear of hurting your feelings" then maybe question why what you say might hurt my feelings.
2023-06-05 04:15:21
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healingwithhelene
Helene, PLPC, NCC :
“stop being so sensitive” sounds like: “your emotional awareness makes me uncomfortable because I’m not fully aware of my own emotions”
2023-06-04 18:56:51
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bonsioi
Dino Deletic :
Can I get one "Stop complicating and overthinking"
2023-06-04 19:57:16
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jessessi09
Jessessi :
I can't explain the amount of times I've been told I'm too sensitive and to lighten up. people will even avoid me. some just refuse to try to underst
2023-06-04 19:15:06
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itsjustmags21
Mags :
My ex-husband always made jokes like this at my expense. It's interesting to see the whole interaction. Feels validating.
2023-06-04 20:02:10
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mrsch62
mrsch62 :
my mother from childhood until this day
2023-06-04 19:12:14
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1anekenz
mackenzie :
literally any time i try to gently stand up for myself i am all of a sudden overreacting it’s the worst
2023-06-05 12:23:04
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witchcat114
WitchCat114 🍉 :
I had this experience with one of my sisters. She'd be mean to me and then insist I can't take a joke.
2023-06-04 19:47:08
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janineaedy1
Janine Aedy :
Apparently the new one is because my mental health got that bad i am a situation and that they have to tip toe around me. 😳🥺
2023-06-04 19:14:54
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kitty.1993
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I want to show this to my mother so badly. 😐
2023-06-04 19:05:06
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briknowswhatsup88
briknowswhatsup88 :
This is my mom!!! Whenever I find a joke hurtful and she gets so angry and says you really need to learn how to take a joke
2023-06-05 06:09:15
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9thhousecapricorn
Addison :
This is my mom but the second I hold her accountable for anything she says I’m being too judgmental
2023-06-04 21:58:37
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tiffanyelizabeth220
Tiffany Elizabeth :
My mom does this to me but I have a friend who gets offended by ANY little thing I say & I feel like I can’t be myself so I don’t know what’s right
2023-06-04 19:14:40
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ldex25
Livinglife58 :
Yep - always been told I’m “too sensitive”. No, I’m not. Other people are often jerks…
2023-06-05 02:19:22
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mysocalledlyfe
Lyfe {Taylor’s version} :
I tell people there’s truth in ALL humor. Nothing is “just a joke”
2023-06-04 20:49:48
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rootedinwellnesscanada
rootedinwellnesscanada :
My response to this is always "am I too sensitive or are you too insensitive?"
2023-06-05 13:54:04
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ljbradleyauthor
LJBradleyauthor 📚 :
And it generally turns out that the one saying you’re too sensitive is the sensitive one. “Why won’t you let me say whatever I want without making…
2023-06-05 06:29:07
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