@natashavctoria: How to create a safe space for an avoidant PART 2 #fyp #foryou #foryoupage #attachmentstyle #attachmenttheory #avoidantattachment #avoidant #consciousmind #relationshipadvice #MentalHealth #therapytiktok #conscious #avoidantattachmentstyle #therapy #therapytok

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ruliexoxo
DivinePhoenixRising :
This is really hard. When I hear you saying all of this I hear…. “Surpress yourself, don’t be you, don’t express your heart…”
2023-06-04 23:51:38
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mayzillafirefox
Kai Maycee :
So you don’t want me to be myself
2023-06-05 00:28:15
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lavnderdaze
Tay :
It takes a very strong and brave individual to date an avoidant because avoidants avoiding love means they aren’t giving it, or it’s just in minuscule
2023-06-04 23:42:26
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johngesino
John Gesino :
They know exactly how to give love. They do it at the beginning.
2023-06-05 19:09:38
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davewalter0
Dave Walter :
We broke up and almost when I’m better from grieving she comes back with all these promises and started on but pulled away again and I’m dieing
2023-06-05 01:26:37
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dustinhughes16
Dustin Hughes :
Another thing I feel you should share is how avoidants are skeptical of people that give them so much love right away. And how suspicious it makes us.
2023-06-04 23:49:41
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misnettamarie
Netta :
I would LOVE to hear from your partner- their POV, and how they work through their side of things! Please!
2023-06-05 07:37:37
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christian.the.creative
christian.the.creative :
Hate avoidents. Like walking on eggshells. So fucking toxic
2023-06-05 00:36:15
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tracebellevie
tracebellevie :
Tash love your content (6 months with my avoidant bf) but think you need to add to your intro these things work ONLY if your avoidant WANTS change
2023-06-05 02:46:08
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amandaleigh.84
amandaleigh.84 :
I am a disorganised/ fearful avoidant by nature but I’m able to hold space for anxious attachers because I’ve spent time understanding myself.
2023-06-05 16:07:17
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vwslugbug831
user1327126628100 :
Avoidants are just to hard to love .. and they don’t contribute anything… I’m giving up on my avoidant…
2023-07-04 19:18:40
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crapetwn
noteyenos1r :
is it true avoidants just like to feel like they don’t HAVE to do something, making sure they know there isn’t a specific expectation?
2023-06-05 01:51:59
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rachaelthompson310
rachaelthompson310 :
Ohhhhh wow this opened my eyes. I’m an over giver and an over doer and an overthinker. I can see how this would trigger him!
2023-06-11 15:59:21
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doogiedylan77
Dylan Bumgarner5 :
if they already ran away how do you get them back to show a safe space?
2023-06-04 23:27:15
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drnurseheather
HR :
Why doesn't he have to pay attention to avoiding triggering my anxiety??
2023-06-05 07:36:31
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mymphoenix
⋆⁺♱ Mym Phoenix🕊️✝️⋆⁺ :
my avoidant goes to therapy and is so highly self aware of his issues that i can’t even be mad that everything crumbled …he even warned me 💀
2023-06-05 06:10:25
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whatskayupto
whatskayupto :
I know he loves me but he can’t even say it. He says he cares a lot for me 😅 Also, he says I don’t want a relationship. But we’re basically in 1. So
2023-06-05 14:54:06
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kris_tinarom
Kristina Romero :
He says he is scared to open back up and is worried things will go wrong but doesn’t specifically know why he is worried or scared about. He talks
2023-06-05 04:19:25
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val_tsingh
Valene Teeluckingh :
it's hard but I show up when I'm needed and then am "too busy" for a few weeks. work on yourself so you don't need validation from the avoidant.
2023-07-11 20:38:37
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janie_bakes
Janie :
He dumped me. Won't talk to me. Is on Bumble. I thought he loved me
2023-06-05 03:20:35
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rocio249698
Rocio :
Why do avoidants open up/are vulnerable one day then go MIA for days, pretending they never opened up to begin with !?
2023-06-06 22:49:25
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davewalter0
Dave Walter :
I cant un love her
2023-06-05 01:27:06
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moira.jo
Moira Jo | Avoidant Attachment :
Every time anxious hears this they feel guilty for not knowing and do mean comments.
2025-10-17 20:50:53
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tempest01313
user6929402587656 :
I’m a virgo and try too hard to help and fix ppl 🥺
2023-06-04 23:27:06
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lafuturamedicaargentina
Karina Ludwig :
How lonely is to be with an avoidant
2023-07-13 20:48:44
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