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DivinePhoenixRising :
This is really hard. When I hear you saying all of this I hear…. “Surpress yourself, don’t be you, don’t express your heart…”
2023-06-04 23:51:38
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Dustin Hughes :
Another thing I feel you should share is how avoidants are skeptical of people that give them so much love right away. And how suspicious it makes us.
2023-06-04 23:49:41
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Tay :
It takes a very strong and brave individual to date an avoidant because avoidants avoiding love means they aren’t giving it, or it’s just in minuscule
2023-06-04 23:42:26
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John Gesino :
They know exactly how to give love. They do it at the beginning.
2023-06-05 19:09:38
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Kai Maycee :
So you don’t want me to be myself
2023-06-05 00:28:15
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Dave Walter :
We broke up and almost when I’m better from grieving she comes back with all these promises and started on but pulled away again and I’m dieing
2023-06-05 01:26:37
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christian.the.creative :
Hate avoidents. Like walking on eggshells. So fucking toxic
2023-06-05 00:36:15
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Netta :
I would LOVE to hear from your partner- their POV, and how they work through their side of things! Please!
2023-06-05 07:37:37
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Dylan Bumgarner5 :
if they already ran away how do you get them back to show a safe space?
2023-06-04 23:27:15
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noteyenos1r :
is it true avoidants just like to feel like they don’t HAVE to do something, making sure they know there isn’t a specific expectation?
2023-06-05 01:51:59
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amandaleigh.84 :
I am a disorganised/ fearful avoidant by nature but I’m able to hold space for anxious attachers because I’ve spent time understanding myself.
2023-06-05 16:07:17
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⋆⁺♱ Mym Phoenix🕊️✝️⋆⁺ :
my avoidant goes to therapy and is so highly self aware of his issues that i can’t even be mad that everything crumbled …he even warned me 💀
2023-06-05 06:10:25
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whatskayupto :
I know he loves me but he can’t even say it. He says he cares a lot for me 😅 Also, he says I don’t want a relationship. But we’re basically in 1. So
2023-06-05 14:54:06
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user1327126628100 :
Avoidants are just to hard to love .. and they don’t contribute anything… I’m giving up on my avoidant…
2023-07-04 19:18:40
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HR :
Why doesn't he have to pay attention to avoiding triggering my anxiety??
2023-06-05 07:36:31
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l_a_r13 :
Meets my kids next day creates major distance.
2023-06-13 23:40:38
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Ilze Lucia :
why do you want to even have a relationship if you don't appreciate all the gestures nor want to return them? that's baffled me for some time
2023-06-16 01:03:49
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Amanda Hughes :
Wow you really got in my brain
2023-07-06 06:25:01
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Bob Builder :
I get the cold shoulder/stonewalling as soon as I say hi…lol
2024-09-01 15:21:03
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HappyCherokee :
He says he just wants SPECIAL friendship, no label….. But he is super sexually attracted to me
2023-06-05 02:56:53
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Selene Cristina :
okay, maybe I don’t want a relationship with an avoidant then.
2023-08-25 03:55:11
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tracebellevie :
Tash love your content (6 months with my avoidant bf) but think you need to add to your intro these things work ONLY if your avoidant WANTS change
2023-06-05 02:46:08
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emjaye :
maybe the reason why DA seem to give a lot at the start is bc they still feel safe giving, the moment anxious gets attached, they get triggered by it.
2023-06-05 04:04:17
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BlackPinkInTheArea :
You know what is the solution? Just switch from anxious to avoidant as well. Let them sense how we feel and they will sense it
2023-08-13 17:43:03
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gene :
What the fuck. Is there any point?
2023-06-06 01:09:52
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Rocio :
Is there any advice you can give to the anxious partner of when to know to walk away from avoidant perspective ?
2023-06-10 19:51:29
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Ilze Lucia :
what do you do if they consider they're fine and self sufficient (that being a great quality in their opinion) so there's nothing they have to work on
2023-06-16 01:02:35
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gene :
Basically, if you’re a normal affectionate, involved partner dating an avoidant, you’re throwing pearls to swine.
2023-06-06 01:14:51
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rachaelthompson310 :
Ohhhhh wow this opened my eyes. I’m an over giver and an over doer and an overthinker. I can see how this would trigger him!
2023-06-11 15:59:21
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Mine :
I did both. Gave space and heavy love. it was always a ruined event, night and my feelings were never respected. I was beat on and cheat on
2023-06-11 21:12:26
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Janie :
He dumped me. Won't talk to me. Is on Bumble. I thought he loved me
2023-06-05 03:20:35
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J :
Do avoidants ever express their love?!?!
2023-06-05 00:02:52
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Valene Teeluckingh :
it's hard but I show up when I'm needed and then am "too busy" for a few weeks. work on yourself so you don't need validation from the avoidant.
2023-07-11 20:38:37
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paula_the_goddess :
Where does it become suppressing your own needs for an avoidants comfort?
2023-08-08 17:35:13
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Ciupleu Sebastian :
So accurate.I think that an extra step towards the awareness of what makes us avoidants, is to find out our defensive mechanisms
2023-06-06 20:54:48
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ATOM :
It's so freaking hard to do this.. the hot and cold is so stressful that some days all I want to do is sleep, so I don't trigger her.
2023-06-18 21:30:29
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Rocio :
Why do avoidants open up/are vulnerable one day then go MIA for days, pretending they never opened up to begin with !?
2023-06-06 22:49:25
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user6929402587656 :
I’m a virgo and try too hard to help and fix ppl 🥺
2023-06-04 23:27:06
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sabri ci :
Exhausting 🥺
2023-09-01 01:11:53
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Kayla :
I wish I found you when I was with my fearful avoident. I'm not anxious but a loving kind person. I loved him deeply and did kind and loving things
2023-06-09 02:53:46
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EJoyLen :
How can an avoidant feel like they can be “themselves” ever in a relationship with an avoidant?
2023-08-04 02:16:51
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Sydney Rosenberg :
But can the avoidant ever change eventually?
2023-07-27 18:36:57
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Karina Ludwig :
How lonely is to be with an avoidant
2023-07-13 20:48:44
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postfalone :
My bf has said “nobody has ever loved me like this” to me before. I love being there &taking care of someone but I can see it scares him sometimes lol
2023-07-04 01:46:32
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Moira Jo :
Every time anxious hears this they feel guilty for not knowing and do mean comments.
2025-10-17 20:50:53
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RoseRebekah105 :
Or just find someone who can receive your love without having to constantly having to change and accommodate someone else’s issues.
2023-06-29 04:06:12
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Marlyn :
Do you ever go live bc I have soooo many questions 🫣☺️
2023-06-06 02:36:39
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Keil Hunsaker ❌ :
Just got out of a relationship with an avoidant
2023-06-06 13:55:46
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Freja Strarup kabbel :
Ive done This, and we are not together as partners anymore sadly. I love him so much.
2023-06-05 20:38:46
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shining light :
Healing videos plzzzz
2023-08-03 01:02:22
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CoolUncleJeff :
Very helpful! Thank you.
2023-08-16 12:08:01
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Motherpink 🌸 :
Sound like an avoidant could go to therapy and learn to make some sacrifices as well not just their partner.
2023-08-14 12:14:37
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