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rikudoshea
OsheadaGardener_ :
My brotha the way you broke that down was amazing g.
2023-06-07 22:10:12
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simonesfrontallobe
simone :
lol I do it all the time. Literally yesterday I thought “why do I keep asking” and “why do I wanna ask again” it’s crazy
2023-06-08 23:28:30
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shyne7777
Shyne7777 :
Only way somebody can heal is if they want to themselves. Facts
2023-06-08 21:56:59
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2yearme
Rebekah :
Thank you I have anxious attatchment I’m in therapy but I put a reminder on my phone recently “ don’t question it ❤️“ tryna use observation and love
2023-06-19 07:21:45
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kemi_5
Fakemi :
I didn't start asking or thinking that my partner was always upset with me until he started showing me that he was.I hate it.I feel like I can't relax
2023-06-10 14:34:09
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oniheard
Oni Heard | AZ REALTOR®🌵 :
And let the church say….! This is beautiful
2023-06-09 23:14:16
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klove0622
K~Love :
I have this trauma response and let me tell you it's harddddd to move out of this especially if there is no reassurance while also pushes out of this.
2023-06-09 04:38:25
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keisha_nicetomeetcha
Keisha_nicetomeetcha :
My son does this🥺 I’m a recovering yeller.😔
2023-06-14 19:37:04
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pretkesh
Perceptions of Care :
nice
2023-06-07 22:56:58
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jodiejermaine
JodieJermaine :
Reassurance seeking is definitely a compulsion with OCD
2023-06-13 14:39:18
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therealmccoy252
Joshua McCoy :
that last part! it can take a toll over time and I think that's the biggest part ppl miss 😅
2023-06-08 16:30:26
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_bex23
Bex :
sigh. I'm 43 and i STILL do this. sigh.
2023-06-07 22:13:55
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windowcleaner377
WindowCleaner37 :
Bro thank you for this perspective. They need to get into therapy and have that support system to help work that. U spot on
2023-06-09 13:37:13
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livelifewitbritt
Britt :
Ok dis me. I’m the partner who’s asking if everything is ok when she gets quite or I feel the energy is off. And yea, household was definitely emotion
2023-06-07 22:09:20
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tag646
Tina :
Or from a previous toxic relationship
2023-06-09 17:32:09
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_essenceoffreedom12
Nnemoma | Your fav life coach :
Well explained!
2023-06-22 00:58:35
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goddesscareco
Jess ThaGoddess :
Yes 👌🏾
2023-06-07 21:42:08
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staceywelch56
Stacey Welch :
Oh my gosh well explained and you nailed it! 💯
2023-06-24 22:16:31
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stellabrissie
sda2000 :
Glad to have that terminology “emotional monitoring”. My spouse, raised by 2 alcoholics, does this. I’ve never known how to quantify it. It’s exhausting. Glad to understand more.
2024-01-10 09:32:11
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zoebelle50
phantom_yoshikazu363 :
😵‍💫🥲
2023-06-18 23:08:16
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cruso._
Cruso :
there are people that make videos and content. and then there are those like you, changing and impacting lives in a positive and creative way. amazing
2023-08-12 15:25:41
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rumppuppet
Melanie :
My emotions always depend on my husband’s mood. Even a reassurance that he’s ok can’t calm my anxiety. It’s exhausting!
2023-08-09 23:45:51
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kattheecosmo
KatTheeCosmo :
Real talk
2023-06-26 06:40:47
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ebonieharrell
Ebonie Harrell :
Spot on
2023-06-19 19:22:03
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jessjustsaying
Jess :
You lost me at the end. Clarify further please!
2023-06-08 02:12:08
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