@therapyjessaofficial: I often ask my clients.. how did your parents resolve conflict? How did they demonstrate love? #mentalhealth #howtoargue

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not.leno
Leila :
It’s sad when you realize you inherited all the anger issues and you’re trying so hard not to copy the way they act too
2023-06-10 07:47:51
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kpriimula
priimula :
It’s the opposite for me tho.. I never yell and can’t take it when someone yells at me, instant waterworks
2023-06-10 12:52:51
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nyx.noxious.degree
⠀Nyx :
I go non-verbal when yelled at and my mother yells because she got the silent treatment as a kid. not a great combo
2023-06-10 08:56:33
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dj_babayaga
anya 🌞 :
My parents yelled but my reaction to an argument now is just walking away, because before I didn’t get that choice
2023-06-10 01:36:39
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asyoushould11
Diana :
either that or i shutdown as soon as someone raises their voice and cry lol
2023-06-10 08:11:36
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therapyjessaofficial
Jessa | Therapist :
Sometimes the realization is painful
2023-06-09 19:38:02
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gabriella_nicole0426
Gabriella Nicole :
Yep! Thanks mom😂😭.
2023-06-09 19:40:50
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ilovemusicmom
Rachel :
My parents kept all conflicts behind closed doors. So we had no idea there was a problem when they got divorced. I am intentionally the exact opposite
2023-06-09 23:11:55
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lawson.miss
lawson.miss :
my mom and dad never did yell or argued. I'm sure they did but never yelled. but shitttt. I do idk where it comes from lol
2023-08-02 00:51:42
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_randomfrenchgirl_
A🌻 :
My parents did that and now I'm afraid of people who raise their voice and hate arguments
2023-06-10 08:44:34
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angela_marieeee
Angela Marie :
When I was little I would just cry Now I stand there and stare at them or yell back
2023-06-26 17:03:25
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alyssahood06
Alyssa Hood :
I’m just now realizing this 😳
2023-06-13 02:55:04
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sweety_pie_1
Sweety pie🥧 :
when my mom is in yelling blaming mode i feel scared that she is gonna do smth bad like hitting or worse. Even if she has never done it.
2023-11-07 22:34:39
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user1998337463
user1998337463 :
Mine threatened to hit me till I couldn’t sit down then made me sit down 🙄
2023-07-10 20:29:59
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jasminermedina
Jasmine Renne Medina :
Mmmm I’d say yes but I’m certain arguments
2023-06-13 05:31:22
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haifabbiebear101
Fabbiee Jimenez :
I hate how I am literally them.. furthest thing I want to
2023-06-26 15:37:49
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morgaann_96
Morgan 🪴 :
How tf do you stop the urge to just yell ?! I grew up in a very loud house and sadly I have the same issues now. 🤦🏻‍♀️
2023-08-01 17:27:06
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bailey1460xcc
Bailey :
oh shit
2023-07-08 03:43:53
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katyadamsxx
Katy Adams :
It’s crazy realizing all the things you hate most about your parents are characteristics you have
2023-06-12 22:03:30
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alattemama
Kate :
My mother sat and stared. I do it. Now I have three more of her running around doing this to me 😂
2023-07-29 21:44:01
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ashleyzielinski
Ashley Zielinski :
my soon to be ex doesn't let anyone talk just himself
2023-08-01 12:27:33
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_c4etana
caetana :
exactly, im slowly turning into my mother and it’s scary the look she gives me when i treat the exact way she treated for years while we’re arguing
2023-06-18 23:28:45
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gabyjimenez120
Gaby Jimenez :
Yep this triggered me 🥺thanks mom…
2023-06-13 05:51:47
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wendyvb20
wendyvb20 :
I avoid conflict at all costs, out of anxiety of what I will say. 🥺
2023-06-12 19:17:00
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lightning_nush
Ṅush Lightning :
1. Is there anything to explain passive hearing ? like parent who kept on yelling, taunting and end up hearing all but not retain anything ?
2023-06-12 18:45:04
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